Not exact matches
But the big difference is, I have a lot more peace because I don't have
guilt about how
well I did or did not pray.
When you allow your
guilt about a mistake to grow into shame, you won't even want to try to be a
better spouse.
What does it matter when we die what is important is what we do with our life now.The struggles people find themselves is because of living a sinful lifestyle you cant play with fire and not get burnt there are consequences.Jesus wants to bring forgiveness and healing and remove the
guilt and shame that you are feeling.Ive have been there i was just as guilty i do nt believe theres a big screen that replays our life if it is it, it will be
about what we have done for God as our sins are covered under the blood of Jesus.The judgement for christians is that we must give an account of what we did for Jesus while we were here did we make the most of opportunities given to tell others to reach out others with his love.Mat 25:14 - 30 the Parable of the talents talks
about judgement and for me it is all
about what we do for Jesus the ones who are faithfull in the small things are set over much.The one who did nt use his talent that God gave him was punished for his lack of faith.So for those who are struggling with sin and life Jesus loves you and has a plan for your life just trust him to help you and he will.To be fair its wont be easy you will have to make some hard choices but he promises to help you through its all
about choosing him over choosing what we think
best because he knows whats
best for us.Its important the choice you make as it will impact your life for eternity.brentnz
I think many of us are so programmed by the church to feel
guilt constantly
about our very being, that we have trouble having the dignity of saying, «Yes, I am worth being treated
well by others.»
Western
guilt is invoked, African heroism is lauded and AMIA can feel
good about itself.
«This can arise from ambivalence or
guilt about ways they have handled family members who have come out as gay, as
well as their own sexualities.
Franklin may allow himself a few more slips or a little less
guilt about the slips than Mather did but what Lawrence called the «barbed - wire of shalt - not ideals» is still up.10 Though now we can not tell for sure whether virtue is pursued for its own
good or for the public seeming of
good («Honesty is the
best policy» clearly illustrates the problem) the impulse life is still tightly reined in.
Hey man, the post is so
good... don't remember ever hearing
about forgiveness two ways,
guilt and freedom, but makes sense.
I make this extended autobiographical introduction to indicate how in the liberal Methodist tradition I first encountered the
guilt complex
about missions which I have since come to know so
well after living more than two decades in the West.
There'd be these
guilt - inducing discussions how that was not a
good reason, and really it should be
about Jesus and love etc...
That is certainly a way of soothing any
guilt or shame the
well - to - do might have
about hoarding their wealth amidst so much hardship that surrounds them in the current economy.
AA, religion, christ himself, science satanisim, math, medicine or whatever it is you choose to turn to try to get out of pain, remorse,
guilt, anger, selfishness, legal problems, drug / alcohol abuse, financial ruin or any other negative result producing situation that you have brought upon yourself if it changes you for the betterand helps others feel
better about you or themselves who cares what, who, or how someones higher power works!!!
And in this way each time that repentance comprehends
guilt it understands that the eleventh hour has come: that hour which human indolence knows
well enough exists and will come, when it is talked
about in generalities, but not when it actually applies to the indolent one himself.
People try to spin things to reduce their own
guilt and feel
better about their sin.
One of the
best things
about getting older is that I'm rarely motivated to do things out of
guilt anymore but I'll have to admit, I gave in last week to our old yellow transparent apple tree.
The
best thing
about this delicious fudge is that it's completely
guilt - free, Paleo, gluten - free, dairy - free, vegan, refined sugar - free, easy to make,... View Post
I was so surprised at how
good it was — and there's really no
guilt about eating it.
The
best thing
about this soup is it can be enjoyed without
guilt.
Zema's Madhouse cookies are vegan and gluten free, which doesn't make them
guilt - free, but because of their mini size, I feel a lot
better about having 3 of them They were kind enough to send me four boxes, but I'm already ready to order more!
Well hold back the
guilt and hang on, you're
about to make one yourself so delicious and easy, and we're sure that you'll not only LOVE it, you'll actually crave it!
Truth be told I would be riddled with
guilt in that position because marriage is
about being truly interested in what your partner wants as
well as what you want.
They might experience loneliness, anger if the pet was euthanized, frustration that the pet couldn't get
better, or
guilt about times that they were mean to or didn't care for the pet as promised.
I'm still sad
about it (and feel tremendous
guilt everytime I see the words «breast is
best») but realize that as someone who had a breast reduction surgery years ago I just couldn't keep up with my babies needs.
We need to stop the
guilt trips
about breastfeeding sometimes breast is not always
best; --LRB-
In the week following, whereas before our relationship largely consisted of Dad the enforcer and toddler the oppressed (with lots of feelings of
guilt and lots of tears respectively), we became closer, happier, and I really feel
good about being a Dad now.
I feel so many
good things
about mine and Alex's breastfeeding journey so far but, and it's a big but, I do still feel a shed load of mum
guilt.
And even when it comes to our self -
guilt,
well, it only speaks to the impossible, no - win messages we've been taught from birth
about who mothers are supposed to be, and what they're supposed to do.
Sometimes that certainty doesn't make one feel any
better about it or feel less guilty (mom
guilt: the struggle is real, guys) but this sixth sense and gut knowledge telling this is the right move is a real feeling and shouldn't be ignored based on the worry that you're somehow a bad mom.
Things are different than they were before — I'm not breastfeeding and sleep - deprived, I'm
better about setting boundaries, and I have less
guilt.
The only downside would be that such labels might heap even more
guilt on moms already sad
about their inability to breastfeed which isn't a
good thing either.
Sometimes just removing the
guilt or anxiety
about it helps everyone sleep
better!
I could write a lot
about guilt and PAL, but I have two sentences that I'll leave you with that sum it up pretty
well.
I try not to
guilt someone into trying cloth diapers but rather debunk the myths that exist
about using cloth diapers to help
better educate parents.
«We come to motherhood with preconceived notions and stars in our eyes,» says Debra Gilbert Rosenberg, a licensed clinical social worker, the author of Motherhood Without
Guilt: Being the
Best Mother You Can Be and Feeling Great
About It, and a psychotherapist in Oak Brook, Ill. «The truth is motherhood is tedious, repetitive, sometimes even boring and definitely not glamorous.»
The positive thing
about guilt is that we CAN act on it: If we feel guilty
about the choices we are making, we can use these feelings to motivate us to make
better choices.
I don't believe the emotions felt by mothers who don't breastfeed or who wean early are as simple as «
guilt»: when we really examine mothers» feelings
about things gone wrong, it is rarely
guilt that they are expressing, especially
about not breastfeeding or not breastfeeding as long or as completely as they would have liked to:
well informed mothers who reach for the bottle after a struggle with breastfeeding know they have done the
best they could with the resources they had at the time (health, energy, knowledge, support)-- these mothers may feel deeply sad and disappointed, they may be grieving, but
guilt isn't an appropriate label for these overwhelming feelings of loss for themselves and their babies.
The dangers of smoking are
well promoted — and health care providers have no qualms
about using
guilt to discourage parents from exposing their babies to cigarette smoke.
Ideally, make a decision
about the shared bed or bedroom before the baby is born, reserving the option to change your minds without any
guilt if your decision turns out not to be the
best one for you and your family.
I had a ton of self - inflicted
guilt, mostly from all the books I read
about how feeding a baby from the breast is the absolute
best and how they only get certain benefits from eating that way versus drinking expressed milk.
lakegirl171 i feel exactly the same way
about my kids to... my second baby girl is such a
good happy baby and that makes my
guilt even bigger, i cant even imagine what would happen if she was a colicky fussy baby, my 2 year old in a demanding kid, but just now she started playing with her that helps quite abit.This is a perfect example of how unfair life is... and all we can do is take great care of them and love and protect them:)
After losing someone close to her as a result of melanoma, Lee used her own
guilt about carelessness in the sun to fuel a
good cause — raising money for the Melanoma International Foundation.
Even though I now know
better, this protein
guilt still bothered me enough that I researched and wrote an entire book
about protein just to ease my mind
about how much protein I really needed to build muscle while losing body fat.
The
best part
about eating healthy desserts is that you're completely free of
guilt.
Best part
about it is that it's 100 %
guilt free!
I feel free of
guilt, of hopelessness, of negative talk
about myself, and it feels soooooo
good!
So now that you understand how anxiety and depression is the link between PCOS and low self - esteem; and that we also have to face plenty of external barriers to feeling
good about ourselves, you should now be free from any
guilt or shame concerning your self - image and be ready to get on top of it.
We have these ideas
about «
good» and «bad» foods - and we let
guilt and shame force us towards the wrong foods, because we think that's what healthy means (reality check: If you're training for a marathon, your «healthy» is going to look a lot different than mine and the mom who's working to get her pre-baby body back!)
Usually when I want a cookie I just go for it and eat a real cookie but these are so tasty and I have no
guilt about them: Nikki's Healthy Cookie Recipe from 101 cookbooks 3 large, ripe bananas,
well mashed (
about 1 1/2 cups) 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 1/4 cup coconut oil, barely warm — so it isn't solid (or alternately, olive oil) 2 cups rolled oats 2/3 cup almond meal 1/3 cup coconut, finely shredded & unsweetened 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon 1/2 teaspoon fine grain sea salt 1 teaspoon baking powder 6 — 7 ounces chocolate chips or dark chocolate bar chopped
I know a vegan would say what
about compassion for the animals, but I don't think shaming and
guilt - tripping is a
good way to achieve anything.
Well, after we ate
about 1/4 of the bag (to, maybe, almost half... nah, not THAT much) AND sharing it with some of the coworkers, this wave of
guilt came over me and I put the rest back in the bag and tied the bag up and put it back on the chair where we found it.