What I don't like is the tendency of the extended - breastfeeding - brigade to scold women who would rather not, or can't,
BF their babies and toddlers for years by suggesting that their children won't reap these magic benefits.
Neither DD had smelly poos though - they usually say
BF babies have less smelly poos than FF.
She was the one who started sleeping through the night at 2 months vs. 4 1/2 to 6 months for my exclusively
BF babies.
It might help if you consider that breastmilk gets most of its calories from fat (some 50 - 60 %, much of that being the dreaded arterycloggingsaturatedfat ™) and while the percentage of carbs is greater than the percentage of protein, you could say
bf babies are all on a «low carb» diet so long as they are exclusively bf.
I didn't even consider that blw was for
bf babies only and just assumed you could follow the philosophy with ff babies too!
As I was reading on a BLW site,
BF babies are already used to the flavors from BM anyway.
How old is
a BF baby when they are able to go 12 hrs without eating?
I give them, appear to manage their appetites well and weaned their own milk (ff) as I think
a bf baby would.
For the comment about the eating and drinking,
my BF baby is the best eater and drinker I know.
I just bfed my son for 6 months and am expecting my next in 2 weeks and will hopefully do the same for him, but if you are still nursing the only advice I can give you to solely
bf your baby is just that - Only breastfeed your baby, that is the only way your milk will come in properly.
Never ONCE have a seen a women
bf her baby.
And I too see nothing wrong with the picture and can't wait to start
BF baby # 3 in public!
No, and, frankly, many
a BF baby has allergies, ear infections, and spits up, just as formula - fed babies do.
All the side effects of formula you listed, happened to my cousin's
BF baby, who even had to sleep upright in a sling.
I'm 26 weeks pregnant atm and I am so terrified that I won't be able to
bf my baby girl because of these stupid tubular breasts I've been cursed with: (Ive spoken to my midwife about it but all she said was that we just have to wait and see what happens after birth.
I tried to
BF my baby, but he refused to latch.
The double gussets are amazing too, especially for
a BF baby!
Is this normal and to be expected of
a BF baby?
Not exact matches
Together,
BFS Capital employees and their family members helped give more
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To support this amazing initiative, the
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Babies walk in May.
Lately, I dreamt that I was having a
baby boy and my
bf's mother wanted to name the
baby Taylor.
I'm pretty sure that I'll be able to lure my
BF into finally eating cauliflower if I make these
babies!
I was adamant about exclusively
BF in the hospital (I was there 4 days due to the c - section), but was told that my
baby was «hungry» and that's why he cried, and that due to his jaundice (which was not as bad as I was led to believe) I needed to give him a bottle.
I was wondering if you could make a separate post asking
bf» ing moms how long their
babies preferred the boob to food?
The only thing offensive I've ever heard are those who make blanketed statements like «There are never medical contraindications to BFing» or say things like «Me and my
baby went through [insert really challenging / emotional experience], therefore, no one has an excuse not to
BF» I think it's important to continue to address this as a systemic issue rather than a «personal choice» issue.
when he is sick he is back to that
baby stage of cuddling up to me but now he will only let me
bf him close to bedtime and in the mornings.
My
baby will be 4 months next week and I am getting ready to introduce cereal with
BF at that time.
Maybe I am part of the problem — if all of us stopped taking crap from strangers
BF would cease to be a freak show for them — but all I want to do is feed my
baby in peace.
I had always thought that
BF must have had significant benefits for the
baby — everyone says «breast is best», right?
Yes, it is true that not all
babies will wean themselves, but YOU will know when it has been too long.For all of you criticizing extended
bf, do you really think it is more natural to give them milk from another creature.Yes, feeding a child formula after 6 months is pointless, it only has the nutrition needed to get them to that point.
Most moms do what «sbest for their kids.And yes, there are women out there who legitimately can not
bf, so formula is a WONDERFUL choice for them.I exclusively
bf both of mine, but think it's okay to ff if you don't have enough milk.there are other situations where i think it's selfish.As for drugs during pregnancy and birth, I had to take 3 doses of medication while pregnant so that I could eat.my morning sickness was so bad I couldn't even keep water down.I made the choice to do that so I didn't starve my unborn child, but I only took what was neccessary to keep something down, and then had no other drugs and plan not to until my son is done
bf.And as for the «natural»
baby, carcinogens are EVERYWHERE, even in your organic food.in this industrialized world you can not get away from them, and to attack other moms for their choices is a sad statement of your morality and on how your child's persoality is going to turn out.also, having multiple kids is definately more demanding than one.
Spread the word,
BF is not natural for everyone — moms and
babies.
I read and believed the unfounded claims that children who were exclusively
BF had higher IQs, and were healthier than formula fed
babies.
i WANTED to
bf, it seemed so... odd... to have had my
baby inside me for so long and then start feeding her from a packet when she was out.
That is fine, except when they withhold information from mothers who desperately want their
babies to be healthy, and yearn for mental and emotional health for themselves when they can not
BF.
Determined to keep going with
BF, and consumed with guilt about my failing, my GP eventually pointed out to me that the one thing you CAN buy for your
baby is substitute milk.
But then, I've extended nursed two kids, as have my mama friends, so maybe
BF - ing has become totally normal to me (in fact, bottle - fed
babies surprise me more at this point!).
So I am currently still doing everything I can to get my
baby to the breast (I try
BF at every feeding, with some success about 50 % of the time).
I was
bf but couldn't get latch and
baby was unhappy.
Among other things she advocates crying, a 3 hourly feeding schedule if you
BF or 4 hourly if you FF, overwrap
babies with excessive bedding (which is what The Analytical Armadillo has been questioning recently), has some very misinformed views and ideas which are all based on her observations and opinions, rather than any that can be substantiated by scientific evidence and had some weird notions that
babies can poo and vomit on cue to manipulate their parents.
As your
baby is 5 months old, you can reduce on extra fats we as Indian
BF moms add on in our diet.
I wish others knew that some FF moms don't have another choice, and it hurts when everything around you alludes to the fact that
BF is best, because you feel like you're failing your
baby by not giving him what's «best».
The reason for starting that way is to be sure
baby will eat the solids, but if he likes them and will eat them,
BF both sides first.
I tried to
BF while he was crying but then I read
baby can just get stressed?
I think women are becoming more comfortable in telling others that they are still nursing older
babies so hopefully there will be a shift in attitudes but I have recently «lost» a few facebook followers after posting a status regarding full - term breastfeeding (I think they were most likely from a giveaway I did ages ago and not on the same page re:
bf etc) Apart from that, I love telling Mums on the ward (I'm a
bf peer supporter) I'm still feeding as it opens their mind to that possibility and I think I look pretty normal so it mostly doesn't freak them out My son is far too busy to nurse out and about and prefers juice so we've not nursed in public (apart from support group) since he was 18 mths and that was as I had a blocked duct!
This means you must
BF on demand at the hospital (so have the
baby sleep in your room), this means you MUST make sure no well - intentioned nurses give your
baby formula so you can rest or because they thought the
baby was hungry — the
baby won't be hungry enough to stimulate your production enough.
Here are a few things that worked for us: stick with 1 nipple (we tried a million which is confusing to the
baby - ended up with Dr. Brown wide neck), WARM milk, sideways outward facing hold (feels awkward at first),
BF a little first so they aren't starving (we tried the starvation method) and DO N'T GIVE UP!
Baby had
BF ok at the hospital, but was refusing the breast at home and was just SCREAMING.
I'm doing it because I like
BF, it's an easy way to feed and my
baby can be fed while I go about my life.
It's the same thing as someone stopping at a LLL booth to plop down their bottle and can of formula, mix it up, and then feed the
baby while having it photodocumented so you can piss off
BF activists online.