If moms take some time to learn about their choices and take an Independent Childbirth Class (not hospital based) or read GOOD books (not WTEWE) then they will be in a better position to have a positive
birth experience which can empower them!
Not exact matches
Such is the case with the new Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM - 5) and its diagnosis of «Gender Dysphoria,»
which emphasizes «incongruence» between one's «
experienced / expressed gender and assigned [that is,
birth!]
And in the process he appeals regularly to what is required by logic and reason, as well as to themes of a sort of natural theology in
which he makes analogies to the
experiences of
birth and death.
But my basic convictions about them were derived not from these philosophers but partly from my being surrounded from
birth with the reality in question; partly from Emerson's essays and the works of James and Royce; partly from the poems of Shelley and Wordsworth (
which similarly influenced Whitehead); and most of all from my own
experience, reflected upon especially during my two years in the army medical corps, when I had considerable leisure to think about life and death and other fundamental questions.
Before starting
birth control, her monthly periods (
which exacerbate the chronic pain she
experiences, especially while in «flare») were so unbearably painful that she couldn't even walk.
The side from
which one dives into the pool represents physical
birth, the side toward
which one swims represents physical death, and each stroke of the arm represents an
experience on the journey from
birth to death.
The beginning of that continuity of
experience from
birth to death
which allows us to speak of a psyche or soul is there.
Paul, who surely had little if any firsthand
experience with the wondrous process of human
birth, tells us that all of creation —
which means all of humankind, all of us — is groaning in the pangs of childbirth.
But we want no one to misunderstand our basic position: we are committed to a Gospel
which has at its heart a demand for, and a provision of, an
experience of new
birth - an
experience offered to all, and effective for those who receive the good news in Christ.
As the first Incarnation was, you say, imperfect, we have to wait for the Holy Ghost to produce a second
birth and this in fact is described in the Book of Revelation: «Ever since John, the apocalyptist,
experienced for the first time (perhaps unconsciously) that conflict into
which Christianity inevitably leads, mankind has groaned under this burden: God wanted to become man, and still wants to.
That is probably why John
experienced in his vision a second
birth of a son from the mother Sophia, a divine
birth which was characterized by a coniunctio oppositorum and
which anticipated the filius sapientiae, the essence of the individuation process.»
Birth order, disposition, previous
experiences, age, gender and the larger family dynamic all shape the lens through
which each one sees the world.
Indeed, within the field accessible to our
experience, does not the
birth of Thought stand out as a critical point through
which all the striving of previous ages passes and is consummated — the critical point traversed by consciousness, when, by force of concentration, it ends by reflecting upon itself?
She did not undress in front of me, required the lights to be off on the rare occasions we were intimate, checked out during sex, and
experienced a lot of physical discomfort because she was tense... One night, as we approached the
birth of our first child, Ashley, and the launch of our church, I had a dream in
which I saw some things that shook me to my core.
Each occasion is influenced by many factors, only one of
which is the group of preceding occasions of human
experience that conjointly with successor occasions constitutes the human soul from
birth to death.
Yes, I had given
birth to a healthy baby
which is ultimately what every woman hopes for, but I believe the process and
birth experience matters too and mine was seriously lacking.
On the first day of the training, we looked at the eight different points that the HTGC course had to cover — things like giving
birth, weaning etc, and the form it takes,
which is that it's based on a group of expectant dads, and what we called the «experts», dads who already had kids of their own and would talk about their own
experiences and offer mentoring.»
I had a wonderful
birth experience in the hospital, and that included the medical intervention I was given... I tested positive for strep B and was given antibiotics,
which were neccessary for the health of my son.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam up about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (
which was my
experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to
birth my next two at home).
I wanted the polar opposite of my first
birth experience,
which left me with intense insecurities about my ability to
birth, as well as a nasty yearlong struggle with postpartum depression.
In addition to getting to know each other over the course of the mom's pregnancy — learning about her hopes, fears, and wants for her
birth experience — home birthing moms also have
birth plans to clarify things like
which post-
birth procedures the family does and doesn't want (like vitamin K shot, eye ointment, etc.), and preferred hospitals and care providers to call in case of transfer.
I recognize that
birth is also a vital
experience for the baby, during
which her / his efforts to be born are celebrated and championed.
I also
experienced Postpartum Depression following the
birth of 2nd child in 2005,
which drew me to working with pregnant women and postpartum parents.
There is an assumption underlying much of the research on
birth experiences that vaginal deliveries are usually positive,
which is not always the case, and that cesareans are usually negative (also not always the case).
Please feel free to share your story about what you did during your pregnancy /
birth,
which contributed to your positive
birth experience, eg.
As a woman who had
experienced two previous cesarean sections, neither of
which were appropriate, I was extremely challenged to find a practitioner who would support me in working towards a vaginal
birth for my third child.
Which means she has twice as much
experience as you do when it comes to what natural
birth feels like.
After the traumatic hospital
births,
which were physically damaging to my mother and life risking to my brothers, and after the cold way the hospitals handled her miscarriages, it was a beautiful relief for her to
experience such an easy
birth at home without complication, with less pain and more beauty for mother and child, and for their family, too.
,
which she has since focused into a torch that lights her way towards supporting new parents to have joyful and satisfying
birth and postpartum
experiences.
As an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant I bring with me many years of
experience in the field of lactation support
which is valuable after the
birth of your child.
According to PATTCh, a
birth trauma organization co-founded by noted childbirth author Penny Simkin, a traumatic
birth is defined as one in
which a woman
experiences or perceives that she and / or her baby were in danger of injury or death to during childbirth.
In 2007 I gave
birth to my daughter,
which proved to be by far the most difficult breastfeeding
experience for me.
So my husband and I were invited to be at the
birth which was really a very exciting
experience for us and so actually I got the opportunity to touch her when she was born that was pretty cool.
A new paradigm is here — one in
which women are choosing to
birth from a place of autonomy, recognizing it as a normal healthy
experience in their lives, so as to embrace
birth as an act of loving surrender.
The book contains many quotations from mothers» own
birth stories
which describe a variety of joyful
experiences.
- Pain relief and mobility: The warm water in
which a water
birth occurs can have several positive effects on the delivery
experience of some expecting mothers.
«Many choose this type of
birth because they want to ensure complete control and autonomy during their experience, with no interference or distraction from their ideal birth — which is usually completely natural and holistic,» says certified birth doula Kristine Adams Cowan of Bump Birth
birth because they want to ensure complete control and autonomy during their
experience, with no interference or distraction from their ideal
birth — which is usually completely natural and holistic,» says certified birth doula Kristine Adams Cowan of Bump Birth
birth —
which is usually completely natural and holistic,» says certified
birth doula Kristine Adams Cowan of Bump Birth
birth doula Kristine Adams Cowan of Bump
Birth Birth Baby.
And now that I've read your
birth story and made these comments, I really need to get back to finishing writing my
birth experience for my second baby —
which was now 5 months ago!
Her name is Cadence and we did do a hospital
birth which was an incredible
experience at the hospital that I was able to deliver at here in Nashville, Tennessee, and just kind of figuring everything out, breastfeeding wise, but we're doing pretty good so far.
In recent years, the option of giving
birth in a Birthing Center has become popular among mothers around the world, especially for those women who are looking for a more humane and less stressful
experience,
which is something that many moms feel in hospitals, when all we see is different nurses going in and out of the room, and whom apparently seem to be focused only on the facts and not on the person.
These benefits include but are not limited to the power of the human touch and presence, of being surrounded by supportive people of a family's own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment of home, feeling less inhibited in expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions of comfort, being intimate with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired, expressing or practicing individual cultural, value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all of
which can lead to easier labors and
births, not having to make a decision about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use of the cascade of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned
birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include children (who are making their own adjustments and are less challenged by a lengthy absence of their parents and excessive interruptions of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and
birth experience.
Parents
experiencing unplanned - for surgical
birth (nearly 30 % of Ventura County mothers have surgical
births, many unplanned), or other unexpected outcomes encounter more challenges,
which can be addressed with persistence and professional and peer support till babe is thriving on mamas breast.
My
experience giving
birth to my son (
which has been my only
experience staying in a hospital) was great.
I think you're also failing to recognize the extent to
which unrelieved pain and the difficulties inherent in childbirth by its very nature were major contributors to her bad
experience, and that home
birth without access to pain relief or cesarean section would have done little to improve her
experience and might have made it far worse.
Others opt for a pool of water in
which to have a natural delivery and some
experience their baby's
birth in their own bed.
And so, of course, a lot of my thoughts on
birth have been informed by my
experience at the
births into
which I've been invited.
This will be a fantastic resource, specific to
birth in Ireland,
which will help women «see» what positive
birth looks like and understand
birth choices through other women's own words and
experiences.
42 weeks is also compiling an anthology of
birth stories and photographs of women's
experiences of giving
birth in Ireland
which will be published on the 42 weeks website, www.42weeks.ie, and a dedicated Pinterest Board, www.pinterest.com/42weeks.
A number of events and activities will take place during the period including a
Birth Gathering in September and a re-launch of the AIMS Ireland survey What Matters To You,
which will collate feedback of users»
experience of care in maternity services in Ireland in 2013, updating the results of the original 2009 survey.
It's true that there's generally more medical intervention in hospital
birth which can increase the chance of a traumatic
birth experience.