When I think about a climate of
blame in a love relationship, many of the same effects show up.
Not exact matches
As one woman writes
in Elephant Journal, when a
relationship with a boyfriend who had a much lower libido than hers ended, «for a long time afterwards, I felt I was largely to
blame for the end of that
relationship, and I lost one of the few men who
loved me for me and wasn't with me just to «get some.»»
A
loving relationship is one
in which both partners take responsibility for their feelings rather than
blaming each other.
In love, Lake Worth woman gave online stranger $ 1 million, lost it all This is a call for humility — stop
blaming the opposite sex for the downfall of your
relationships and take responsibility for the things you can control.
Though a raunchy comedy about
love and sex would normally have the girl getting naked — and probably having her
blamed for most of the problems
in the
relationship — everything was left up to the guys.
The person
in a
relationship who is currently feeling rejected, uncertain about how
loved they are, or missing a connection, can learn to reach out without
blame or criticism, and talk about their needs
in a way that naturally elicits compassion and closeness.