You know,
boy asks girl
out, they go
on several
dates before making it official, they wait a reasonable time to get engaged, they don't have sex until they're married, they have kids, and they grow old together.
I have sleep walked into this situation — my soon to be ex wife took my youngest abroad working by way of a separation — then had to return suddenly — we tried again but are getting a divorce now — I took my flat close to the school my
boy was due to go to and she put him in another — I
asked for her to help me and encourage contact but she refused telling me to sort this
out with him directly — ok if he ever answered emails or texts or anything at all infact — she would tell me that I was seeming — clingy — and now 10 months later he is repeating to me appeals for me to contact them ahead of time when I want to see him —
asking me to give him space — actively not wishing to see me while she takes them
on holidays over significant
dates like birthdays — christmas — new year — not
asking or even informing me first — no info
on parents evenings —
on progress in school — no information
on anything whatever... this is PAS — I am not imagining it... am I...