Sentences with phrase «by feelings of shame»

The opportunity to talk openly about painful experiences that were formerly kept in secrecy surrounded by feelings of shame has an unburdening effect; feelings of self - confidence are strengthened by group acceptance.

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The problem is that we are prone to rejecting it out of feelings of self - loathing and shame, whether caused by others or ourselves; or out of a desire for autonomy and a rejection of God's authority.

Much in the same way that you would be horrified to find that your sibling, or parent, or uncle, or one of your mates, had engaged in the sexual assault of anyone, and would feel shame for the behaviour of your relative / friend, so such disgusting actions by Catholics appal and horrify other Catholics.

If the pastor has a keen awareness of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal hurt of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and hurting loved ones; feels something of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense feelings of guilt and shame which isolate the patient from himself, from others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.

Here are some of the factors which threaten selfesteem in the classroom: (a) Persistent criticism and shaming — Severe criticism makes the child feel rejected as a person; the need for recognition is so intense that a child will seek it in unconstructive ways if he can not get it by achievement.

I come from «shameless» caretakers, abandonment, ridicule, abuse, neglect — perfectionistic systems I am empowered by the shocking intensity of a parent's rage The cruel remarks of siblings The jeering humiliation of other children The awkward reflection in the mirrors The touch that feels icky and frightening The slap, the pinch, the jerk that ruptures trust I am intensified by A racist, sexist culture The righteous condemnation of religious bigots The fears and pressures of schooling The hypocrisy of politicians The multigenerational shame of dysfunctional family systems MY NAME IS TOXIC shame of dysfunctional family systems MY NAME IS TOXIC SHAMESHAME

If you did not grow up in the church, then you might have had the experience of feeling judged, ridiculed, shamed, or even hated by certain groups of Christians.

The song takes a heavy hand promoting «Baby Jesus... as the one and only reason that we celebrate the season...» «It is a shame that some feel compelled to fight back against the political battles involving Christmas by taking such a militant stand,» said Jeff Westover of My Merry Christmas.com, the world's largest Christmas community online.

For the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing with issues such as fear of rejection, failure, shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday life.

Some people, including pastors and other church people, may be reluctant to raise the issue of children's experience of divorce because they don't want to add to the guilt or shame felt by divorced parents.

I find it so sad that so many people believe the lie that the enemy feeds us that these destructive behaviors are healthy and that they should ignore the feelings of shame brought on by sin.

I hate the way you Atheists bully people by making them feel shame about every part of their lives that doesn't revolve around hypocritical evil.

It's a shame those feelings are often followed by a tight waistband and a generous helping of guilt.

our mental attitude, belief and motivation is what is really killing us, shame we do not have a manager who can make even the most average of players feel like they are Pele or Maradona, because if Wenger is such a manager, we would have been out of sight of the other by now, and yes, with Flamini and all the other lightweights in the squad in tow

I wonder if we by chance we would win the leuage, would you guys feel proud about it or rather feel relief and a little bit of shame?

They are right.As a matter a fact, I feel myself ashamed sometimes seeing Alexis giving everything, imploring the rest of the team to press, to play the game, to do all they can to win.And the team response?Lazy primadonas watching the clock for the end of the game, being more preocupied for their haircuts, beards or tatoos than running.An army of lazy caterpilars led by a senile, totally outdated manager.How can you retain a player of such calibre inside of this stinky organization.Without determination and spirit, football is nothing, just wasted time.Arsene doesn't understand that, Alexis and the fans do.The fans are doing the right think, for Chileans is already becoming a national embarrasement, a natinal shame having their best player, an icon of Chile, wasting his skill and ambition in such mediocre team.

It's a crying shame that a club stooped in prestige and supported by hundreds of millions across the globe feel the need to undermine the competition by using it as a means of rotating their squad.

I would definitely use a doula again and it's a shame that doctors feel threatened by them instead of welcoming them onto their birthing teams.

I don't know if I'll ever have the balls to post info or bring it up in conversation... But then * I * feel shame because of how many people (and babies) I know that could have been positively affected by a discussion or article on the topic.

The guys dealing with crying (start by putting on headphones, crank them up, and take the baby for a walk in the stroller) report back they get good at it and the feelings of frustration (and shame) turn into one of «dad to the rescue».

We might come down harder on them or sometimes actually «over-function» by completing their work for them — anything to avoid our own feelings of shame, embarrassment, failure or fear.

As part of the healing process, the child needs to express her terror, rage, grief and shame, and have these feelings accepted and validated by her adoptive mother.

Alfie Kohn's New York Times article, «When A Parent's «I Love You» Means «Do As I Say»,» explores the damage this kind of «conditional parenting» (recommended by experts like talk show host Phil McGraw and Jo Frost of «Supernanny») causes, as the child grows to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of self - worth.

There are also controversies and ethical considerations surrounding the means used by public campaigns which attempt to increase breastfeeding rates, relating to pressure put on women, and potential feeling of guilt and shame of women who fail to breastfeed; and social condemnation of women who use formula.

Well, I've long felt that as someone who is intimately familiar with the culture and climate of Christian parenting, Gary Ezzo exploits the fears of many Christian parents by portraying families who don't follow Babywise as families where the children usurp the authority of the parents and bring shame on them with their selfish, demanding behaviors.

Thirdly: If a book doesn't acknowledge point number two then it is likely to be causing guilt or shame to be felt by those who don't agree with the experiences of the author and is therefore one which I would see as causing readers to lose their own sense of self.

The truth is, to some moms they do have a preference and feel bad saying it aloud for fear of being shamed by others.

In fact, a recent survey done by BabyCenter.com found that 94 % of Moms have experienced «feeling shame over issues ranging from the amount of time they spend with their kids to the kind of diapers they use.»

While shame, as a normal emotion, is felt from time to time by everyone — being the result of conflicting interactions within a social group — it generally doesn't have long - lasting effects on a child's self - worth as long as the child is able to lean on a supportive, unconditionally loving parent to help him process his feelings.

Once you realize that a low sense of self - worth — stemming from not truly feeling valued by and connected to the parent — is at the root of the bullying, to lower how good the child feels about herself even more by shaming her could boomerang in a terrible way.

That feeling of shame was also expressed by the moms you interviewed who utilized egg freezing and gestational surrogacy to have children.

• When the parents» rules are broken and the child feels guilt and shame, the feeling of guilt can be removed by confession and accepting the consequences bravely.

That is the story of this country, the story that has brought me to this stage tonight, the story of generations of people who felt the lash of bondage, the shame of servitude, the sting of segregation, but who kept on striving and hoping and doing what needed to be done so that today I wake up every morning in a house that was built by slaves.

The shame and sense of failure I was experiencing lifted, and I felt more supported rather than judged by myself.

The bingeing normally involves eating excessive amounts of food, often when not hungry, followed by intense feelings of guilt, depression and shame.

Focus on you, what you can do today, and LEARN as much as you can so you don't get sucked in and bamboozled by all the ads and fake fitspo that will make you feel like your body isn't good enough, perfect enough, skinny enough, fit enough and all the rest of the ways those slick pictures secretly shame us into feeling.

I do not condone excessive restrictive practices or anything that stimulates (or is stimulated by) feelings of shame or guilt.

I decided to become an Eating Psychology Coach because the entirety of my college career and young adult life, my thoughts, emotions and behaviors were ruled by the shame I've felt about my body.

For the person whose life is dictated by the cruel whims of their digestive system, this can feel like shame and blame.

He punished Justin Long's selfish podcast - hosting protagonist from Tusk — a man who profited from other people's misfortunes and felt no shame about cheating on his girlfriend — by making him the prey of a psychotic old man who took his obsession with walruses to a Dr. Frankenstein - like extreme.

The stakes on I, Tonya were made clear to Quinn and his publicity veep Christina Zisa when they spent last Thanksgiving ice skating in Portland with Harding herself, and allayed her fears that her six - year - old son not feel the same level of shame that the skater did when she became scarred by the scandal that ended her skating career.

It's just a shame, then, that the gameplay of Payday 2 feels so tired and uninspired by comparison.

For a story about, for some of its runtime, a show's star (Keaton) being undermined by his co-star (Norton) it feels like a bit of a shame (though, I'm sure intentionally so) that Ed Norton does actually steal so much of the movie away from Michael Keaton.

The cast all come out on top and there is hope in the final frames that we have a good journey ahead of us, it's just a shame this journey felt like nothing more than a speeding bullet that missed the target by a small yet worryingly meaningful margin.

Still, it's easy to get a feel for his insecurities, the shame he feels when he can't live up to being the man his wife Priscilla (Elisabeth Shue) believes he could be, all of that filtered through a lens of a changing world rushing to pass men like him by whether they want it to or not.

Human Rights Watch report3 notes that while its research hasn't found «a pattern of abuse that could be considered systematic» the rights body «findings raises serious concerns about abuses by AMISOM4 soldiers against Somali women and girls» with survivors of sexual exploitation expressing feelings of «powerless» to fearing «retaliation or retribution, as well as the stigma and shame that the abuse could bring» and others, despite being engaged in exploitive relationships feared loosing «their only source of income» (HRW, 2014, September, p. 25).

I see some clear connections to behavior charts, and I am reminded of Pernille Ripp's blog post on charts and shaming, forcing me to ask, «If I am hoping to engage my most challenged students in a gamified instructional model, would they feel supported by a leaderboard?»

The well - documented Type 1 stressors include experiences such as being impersonated, receiving a barrage of personal attacks, and being outed, shamed, or humiliated publicly, whereas the lesser - documented Type 2 involves a curious or controlling boy / girlfriend or friend constantly breaking into social media accounts or smartphone devices to read digital communications with others, feeling smothered by the quantity of digital communications with close others, and feeling a pressure to comply with requests that reveal something considered highly personal and private.

Parents are not talking to other parents about some of the incidents that are happening because they often feel guilty and shamed by it, and they are concerned with their child's privacy.

Feelings of shame, helplessness, and loss of self - worth are borne by each generation in the belief that the next generation will undo the past harm and humiliation.