Sentences with phrase «by guilt about»

I've heard so many stories of women who couldn't or even didn't want to breastfeed and were subsequently racked by guilt about it, and I think that just detracts from the joy of raising a baby.

It's doubtful that Dr Amy is motivated by guilt about breast feeding all of her children.

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But Wylie spoke with particular passion about his own feelings of guilt for helping to develop an advanced new form of political targeting that was used by people whose conservative politics are the opposite of his own.

I think you are attempting to minimize the RCC's significance / guilt by linking it to a misunderstanding about se.xual orientation, i.e. look the clergy is not any more dangerous to children than average, just like gays aren't.

Although I believe guilt plays a role in our lives by making us conscious of our higher calling, I also believe that if we get caught up in feeling bad about minor things, we are wasting our time.

Those Christians killing natives and mistreating them did so in part BECAUSE they were told it was okay by their pastors and priests, they were directly dehumanized from the pulpits that allowed their members to go about their murder and mistreatment without guilt or punishment.

Guilt by association isn't about being responsible for your transgressions, it's about being guilty for other's transgressions.

* Or are you susceptible to «guilt bombing» because you've been trained by «negative conditioning» to respond to demands that you perform, give, serve, learn this, don't do that, you must say this, you can't be that, keep off the internet, don't gossip about leaders... or else!

AA immediately reduces many of the stresses of guilt and fear by allowing the alcoholic a new way of thinking about his problem.

By straightening out some of his past messes, he reduces both his guilt about the past and anxiety about the future.

Talk about guilt by association!

I think many of us are so programmed by the church to feel guilt constantly about our very being, that we have trouble having the dignity of saying, «Yes, I am worth being treated well by others.»

Unlike the Christian god that wouldn't ever change his mind or doctrine... except for cursing the world for eating an apple... except for telling Abraham to sacrifice his son, but then stopping him... and except for killing nearly all life on Earth and then because of the guilt says I'll never to do that ever again - in exactly that way... and except for deciding that 2 of himself (Father and Spirit) weren't enough any more, and creating / fathering / spiriting as Son... and except for forgiving all sin, when «In the beginning» he had cursed the universe for the eating of an apple, by having his creation torture and kill his only begotten Son... and except for having to repeat himself about the unchanging eternal rules, to Abraham, Moses, Jesus, Saul / Paul, Mohammed, Joseph Smith, Bahá «u «lláh, David Koresh, and a whole host of others... and except for... and except for...

It seems that for my Western Christian friends, if missionaries did not justify by their field labors the guilt the West carries about the mischief of the white race in the rest of the world, then other missionaries would have to be invented to justify that guilt.

Consequently we know nothing except that man was created by God as God's personal partner in a sacred history of salvation and perdition; that concupiscence and death do not belong to man as God wills him to be, but to man as a sinner; that the first man was also the first to incur guilt before God and his guilt as a factor of man's existence historically brought about by man, belongs intrinsically to the situation in which the whole subsequent history of humanity unfolds.

She rebukes Dr. Dysart: «If you knew God, Doctor, you would know about the Devil...» Unable to share guilt with her husband, baffled by her son's criminal behavior, she finds refuge in that old trick of religionists: accusing the devil.

Their energy is wasted by guilt from unfinished, past happenings and by anxiety from fantasies about catastrophic future dangers, which they strive to ward off by frantic planning and rehearsing.

You operate from the evangelical bully pulpit, that was built upon the fears of millions and millions of people, by the use of intimidation, guilt tripping and the taking advantage of people's weaknesses.You speak from an arena of safety, privileges and comforts that Paul didn't even dream about.

Now the sources mentioned above — plus the Wall Street Journal, Associated Press, USA Today, and others — have looked into the facts and found that the crisis was made up by folks who parlayed white guilt about racism into a very profitable thing.

Consequently, the kinds of problems raised by what the Bible says about the character of God or the world or his will for man must be faced openly, without fear or sense of guilt.

That memory is about births given to barren women, bread given to desperate peasants, shepherds to scattered sheep, forgiveness given to those immobilized by guilt.

For instance, when Revelation talks about the unsaved being cannibalized by the believers in Jesus, it is referring to the guilt that is on our hands if we do not strive to convert our friends to the faith.

Hmmmm... keeping their flock in the dark and feeding them guilt until they are crushed by their own weight... what isn't Christian about that????

As a day, and no more, it reminds us first to protect ourselves from AIDS, and from communing too closely with others in the process, while at the same time it assuages our guilt at being one of the lucky ones by encouraging us to «remember» the saints of AIDS, about whom we know almost nothing but that they had it.

In the account about Nero's blaming the great fire of Rome in 64 C.E. on Christians, he wrote: «Nero fastened the guilt and inflicted the most exquisite tortures on a class hated for their abominations, called Christians by the populace.

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Some of the residents of Mapleton react to the tragedy by disappearing into their own sense of guilt about the way they have lived their lives.

Negative religion blocks this precious inner feeling by spawning neurotic guilt about asocial and antisocial feelings.

As passionate as I was about social justice and alleviating poverty, child sponsorship struck me as an old - fashioned model for giving in which a few select children essentially walked through a breadline to receive meals, schools supplies, and medical attention from far - away white «saviors» whose first - world guilt was eased by letters ensuring that their contributions made a difference.

This piece will stay with me, when I do have those moments of guilt - usually inspired by someone's judgement or off - handed comment about what I should be doing.

Being told by a professional that I needed to use formula alleviated the ridiculous guilt I had about doing so.

Any residual guilt about this by mothers is countered and massaged by public opinions which overwhelmingly express disgust at breastfeeding beyond the 12th month mark.

We need to be released from guilt about our children, not further bound by it.

My guilt about not being able to breastfeed was based on misinformation that is routinely trotted out by lactivists.

We're all afflicted by it and if you think about it, mommy guilt was probably the first pang of pregnancy you felt.

I don't believe the emotions felt by mothers who don't breastfeed or who wean early are as simple as «guilt»: when we really examine mothers» feelings about things gone wrong, it is rarely guilt that they are expressing, especially about not breastfeeding or not breastfeeding as long or as completely as they would have liked to: well informed mothers who reach for the bottle after a struggle with breastfeeding know they have done the best they could with the resources they had at the time (health, energy, knowledge, support)-- these mothers may feel deeply sad and disappointed, they may be grieving, but guilt isn't an appropriate label for these overwhelming feelings of loss for themselves and their babies.

Today's first question is about feeling overwhelmed by exclusively pumping, and dealing with guilt about needing to cut back.

Feelings of guilt may be triggered by external factors - like an over zealous health professional telling us about the hazards of artificial feeding, as we are reaching for the bottle — but these are OUR feelings.

Or at any rate, gets at me, by reminding me that there is another way to feed my child and that I should feel zero guilt about it whatsoever.

And as I mom shame myself from the past about the present and incur the mom guilt that follows, another thought dawns on me: as a second - time mom, with all the benefit of my great wisdom (that's a joke, by the way), I also judge first - time mom me.

for those having guilt about not breastfeeding, i highly reccommend «the ultimate breastfeeding book of answers» by jack newman, MD and Teresa pitman... yes, there are valid reasons not to breastfeed exclusively, but there are solutions other than formula!

You'll hear a statistic about the ton of landfill waste likely generated by a baby in disposable diapers in our classes, but you won't hear us giving a mom a guilt trip about her carbon impact.

The Benefit Fraud Dept within the DWP remains woefully ill equipped and under resourced, and this must also be addressed by a future Tory Govt, along with stiffer sentences for benefit fraudsters, a lower threshold in terms of proving guilt, and a drastic tightening in the criteria for claiming I.B. Chris Grayling repeating a few tired old soundbites about forcing single mums back to work will just re-inforce the impression that we want to send little kids up chimneys again.

«The U.S. Attorney's comments are impossible to construe as anything other than opinions about Mr. Silver's guilt,» the motion filed by Mr. Silver's attorneys, Joel Cohen and Steven Molo, argued.

Research led by Sophieke Russell at the University of Kent in Canterbury, UK, holds important lessons about how juries arrive at decisions of guilt and sentencing — and possible pointers for achieving genuine justice in courts.

Hopefully, we're telling people who don't know as much about us who we are by doing TV segments and showing off some of the great things we have on Guilt to larger markets.

Synopsis: Described by director Adrian Lyne («Fatal Attraction») as «an erotic thriller about the body language of guilt.»

Haunted by nightmares and guilt - ridden about deaths she feels responsible for, Tris impulsively cuts off her hair, giving herself a Jean Seberg look in preparation for the Joan of Arc - type battles that are to come.

This is best embodied by Hunt, who has a heartbreaking scene where she lays out a series of «if only» statements when talking to Kelly about guilt the girl feels over her friend's untimely death.

Likewise, the tension explored by the plot is not that brought about by the highly - publicized match against Riggs, but the guilt and concern felt over the risks of having their very - secret lesbian affair discovered.