Not exact matches
Of these, roughly 5,000 were committed
by a
stranger during the commission of a random crime; the others — over 70 per cent — resulted from spouses killing spouses, parents killing
children or vice versa, lovers killing lovers, etc..
The three biggest worries expressed
by parents in the survey were «
stranger danger» (21 %), that their
children may experience bullying (19 %), and that their
children may see inappropriate content (18 %).
The contradiction is summed up
by the presence of more than 100,000 Filipinas in Hong Kong, many of them women with university degrees, working as maids to
strangers»
children as a means of providing for their own back at home.
A
child who is molested
by a
stranger will probably tell someone about it shortly after it has happened.
A
child disclosing abuse may be removed from the home, forced to live with
strangers, may have to endure an uncomfortable medical examination, may have to speak with adults about uncomfortable sexual matters, and will often be ostracized
by their families, and in their homes, schools and churches.
The nationalism mainly apparent in Deuteronomy's acute martial sensitivity speaks in discrimination against the
stranger even in worship (alas, contemporary worship practices remain
by and large in this sense deuteronomic), and to the bastard
child, then — as down to our own time — there is harshness (23:3 ff.
A spokesman said «It was a kind of sex education lesson but
by untrained inspectors without the consent of parents or the school,» In a sane world this would be an entirely reasonably response: in what other situation could a complete
stranger approach a group of young
children and ask them about same sex attraction?
The Eerie poetry that small girls chant (or compose) as they skip rope and the
strange rhythmical games involving hand clapping or bouncing balls that
children improvise on city streets have been recorded
by an imaginative sound engineer named Tony Schwartz, in what the New York Times the other day called the most original piece of work ever put on records.
Build the foundations of empathy and trust in your
child by responding to a
child's cues, dealing with
stranger and separation anxiety, working through tantrums, responding to the emotional needs of older
children and much more.
Statistically speaking, the risk is still very small that a
child will be abducted
by a
stranger.
And while
children are certainly affected
by stressors outside the home, like neighborhood violence or abuse
by a
stranger, it is true that for a majority of
children, the most significant threats to the development of their stress - response system come from inside their home.
And colleges and universities spend time and money running seminars led
by academics and mental health workers that cater to the concerns and preoccupations of anxious parents as they leave their
children in the hands of
strangers.
As for the existence of people on the internet who are evil & exploitative of
children, yes they exist (I know I prosecuted a few myself when I was a lawyer), but the sad truth is that
children are more likely to be harmed
by people they know best than
strangers.
By 18 months, many
children are able to say a fair number of words, but it's not unusual for those words to be difficult for
strangers to understand.
We love to inspire (and be inspired
by) the WHOLE
child — the wise, the wild, the
strange, and the sweet.
It's difficult and heartrending to have to teach our
children not to engage with
strangers or get in
strange vehicles or be charmed
by someone luring them with a story of a kitten or puppy.
Indeed, while parents worry about «
stranger danger», they often fail to realise two things: their
children can be more at risk from online grooming and sexting, and that according to one
children's charity they are actually 90 per cent more likely to be abducted
by someone they know than a
stranger.
Korean
children are often escorted overseas
by strangers who take them from the only place they have ever known, ride with them on an airplane, and then hand them over to their new parents in the airport after a long, disorienting trip.
Alfred Sacchetti, an emergency room doctor in Camden, New Jersey, and spokesman for the American College of Emergency Physicians, says it's common for parents to worry more about their
child being abducted
by a
stranger than about his riding in a car without a seat belt or playing near an ungated swimming pool — even though car - and water - related accidents pose a far greater threat to kids than abduction.
What a securely attached
child - OR ADULT - looks like: competent, self - confident, resilient, cheerful much of the time, anticipating people's needs (not from a co-dependent place), empathic, humorous, playful, tries harder in the face of adversity; not vulnerable to approach
by strangers because won't go to
strangers (as adult, out - going without being foolhardy), good self - esteem, achieving, able to use all mental, physical, emotional resources fully, responsive, affectionate, able to make deep commitments as appropriate, able to be self - disclosing as appropriate, able to be available emotionally as appropriate, able to interact well with others at school and in jobs / careers, likely to be more physically healthy throughout life, self - responsible, giving from a «good heart» place of compassion, has true autonomy, no co-dependent self, because of well developed internal modulation system, less likely to turn to external «devices» (addictions) to modulate affect
Babies and
children who should have stayed with their parents get adopted
by strangers instead.
I got to be pretty good at brushing off the comments and ignoring the unwanted advice, but the more I looked into it, the more stories I heard about parents of breastfed babies being hassled
by family members,
strangers or even their own doctors about the lack of «adequate» weight gain, regardless of the size of the parents or the health of the
child.
An infant or
child abandoned
by the birth mother; neglected in the orphanage; sometimes abused or injured; then put in the arms of complete
strangers from a different culture is going to be traumatized.
Internationally adopted
children who are abandoned and spend their earliest months in an orphanage or foster care, and then are adopted
by strangers are at high risk for PTSD and RAD (Complex Trauma).
Traumatic events which are caused
by a close family member and result in physical harm or a major disruption in a
child's life circumstances will have a worse effect on the victim than trauma inflicted
by a
stranger or non-human event.
For more statistics and an analysis of the number of
children reported missing versus the number of children actually abducted by strangers, please see the Second National Incidence Studies of Missing, Abducted, Runaway and Thrownaway Children conducted by the Department of Juvenile Justice & Deliquency Prevention: http://www.ncjrs.gov/html/ojjdp/nismart/03/
children reported missing versus the number of
children actually abducted by strangers, please see the Second National Incidence Studies of Missing, Abducted, Runaway and Thrownaway Children conducted by the Department of Juvenile Justice & Deliquency Prevention: http://www.ncjrs.gov/html/ojjdp/nismart/03/
children actually abducted
by strangers, please see the Second National Incidence Studies of Missing, Abducted, Runaway and Thrownaway
Children conducted by the Department of Juvenile Justice & Deliquency Prevention: http://www.ncjrs.gov/html/ojjdp/nismart/03/
Children conducted
by the Department of Juvenile Justice & Deliquency Prevention: http://www.ncjrs.gov/html/ojjdp/nismart/03/ns5.html
There were other acts of kindness
by strangers who recognized what an ordeal it is to travel with three small
children.
Others dread vacations, knowing that siblings, grandparents, or
strangers will judge and condemn their
child and,
by proxy, their parenting.
The
Strange Situation developed
by Mary Ainsworth has become one of the most commonly used procedures in
child development research.
She writes, ``...
by the time
children get big enough to venture out on their own — to the grocery store, to a friend's house down the street — their parents feel
strange about letting them go, believing the world to be a dangerous place.»
If your little one experiences «
stranger danger» or separation anxiety pretty strongly lately or is upset
by overstimulation, then a big party full of people that are going to want to dote on your
child is probably not the best choice.
You can further illustrate the difference between trusted adults and
strangers by using family photo albums and magazines to quiz your
child.
And while many parents may warn
children about
strange adult men, the fact of the matter is that the average age of most sex offenders is 14 — according to a 2000 report
by the Criminal Justice Source Statistics.
Even if you're a stay - at - home kind of family, your
child can catch a contagious disease from a neighbor, a friend, or a complete
stranger who sneezes as she walks
by you in the grocery store.
Run the names being considered
by a few trusted confidantes and ponder on any nicknames or
strange spellings that may be a stumbling block to a
child down the road.
In cultures where they don't have this constant bombardment, the men find it
strange that gown men get excited
by breasts as they just see them as being for feeding babies / young
children.
By the end of the week these brave and wonderful children were ordering ice cream by themselves from complete stranger
By the end of the week these brave and wonderful
children were ordering ice cream
by themselves from complete stranger
by themselves from complete
strangers!
Avoidant attachment is characterized
by a lack of preference for the parent over other
strangers; these
children rarely seek out their parents for comfort.
Back in the day,
children were breastfed
by friends, relatives and even
strangers, a common practice referred to as «wet nursing.»
Experts say that
children between the ages of 1 and 4 are more likely to be killed
by fire, burns, drowning, choking, poisoning, or falls than
by a
stranger's violence.
While these
children can be comforted to some extent
by other people in the absence of a parent or caregiver, they clearly prefer parents to
strangers.
Healing Dismembered Families: Adopting - Back the Adult
Children We Lost to adoption as infants Restoring the legal ties («filiation») severed
by strangers when they took our infants
by force and coercion.
Allow me to reframe comedian Wanda Sikes great line from the Correspondent's Dinner awhile back: «I always tell my
children if they see two cars pass
by, and one has Cheney (Bolton) and the other has a
stranger, always get in the car with the
stranger.»
«Even Darwin observed that
children tickled
by a
stranger would rather scream than laugh.»
The scientists tested 30
children and ten adults, asking them to judge a dog's emotions
by listening to its barks in three different situations: alone, facing a
stranger at a gate, and when playing.
«It is actively encouraging
children to meet
strangers by sending suggestions of people who match their profile.
Set in a
strange, colorful land populated
by fairy tale characters, SHREK is a hilarious comedy that will win over audiences of
children and adults alike.
One king was a fornicating libertine, another captivated
by a
strange animal, while one of the queens was obsessed
by her wish for a
child.
Strange and unsettling things begin to happen almost immediately - animals turn malevolent, crops fail, and one
child disappears as another becomes seemingly possessed
by an evil spirit.
A disgruntled freezer manager, reduced to dressing in a penguin outfit to hand out fish finger samples, a
stranger who lays claim to Bob and Margaret's nearly - full trolley and the local criminals, Beany and Boney.Later, Margaret challenges an aggressive woman's approach to disciplining her hyper - active
child, resulting in flying accusations and a near punch - up that is resolved
by the stores own Conflict Resolution Officer.