To communicate with your pet
in cat language, you can slowly blink back and turn your head to the side in a relaxed manner to show you are at ease and aren't a threat.
If feral cats have the same range of meows as their fully domestic counterparts
then cat language probably evolved for inter-cat situations and is merely modified for the cat - human situation.
See,
cat language isn't too hard to learn and it's actually fun once you get the hang of it.
Like love,
cat language is universal.
Could he have said something in «
cat language» to offend her?