In articles where the theme is «how I coped with the worst divorce experience ever» the cheating tale is told from the perspective of a (usually female) spouse who picked up the pieces after discovering their cheating partner.
He toldtales about his exes, family members, and business partners cheating or abandoning him, justifying it with, «You know my history, that's why I get paranoid, and that's why you can't do this.»