Not exact matches
The distinction between the nuclear and traditional family was also blurred in the recent report on human sexuality by the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) titled Keeping Body and Soul Together: «Although many Christians in the post-World War II era have a special emotional
attachment to the nuclear family, with its employed father,
mother at home, and two or more school - aged
children, that profile currently fits only 5 percent of North American households.»
Working
to normalize
attachment and nursing with our
mothers, Heartline is committed
to ensuring a
mother's connection
to their
child, empowering them
to believe that they are the best
mother for their
child.
«But
Attachment Parenting International supports parents in all walks of life, including mothers who are unable to breastfeed, and I was able to learn how to meet my child's attachment needs through sensitive responsiveness beyond breastfeedi
Attachment Parenting International supports parents in all walks of life, including
mothers who are unable
to breastfeed, and I was able
to learn how
to meet my
child's
attachment needs through sensitive responsiveness beyond breastfeedi
attachment needs through sensitive responsiveness beyond breastfeeding.»
One study in Germany several years ago examined specific ways in which fathers and
mothers cultivate close
attachments with their
children during the early years, and which of those early parental practices lead
to deeper, long - term
attachments during later stages of childhood.
As a culture, we seem
to operate under the misguided notion that
attachment - style parenting is one in which parents — and particularly
mothers — sacrifice their lives entirely for the good of their
children, and compete over who can breastfeed the longest and make the most nutritious baby food.
Where
child conduct is an issue, fathers can be as effective change agents within families as
mothers; delivering a parent education programme
to both
mother and father is more effective than delivering it
to just one parent; and each individual parent's sensitivity towards their
child (and their
child's
attachment to them) is enhanced when both parents are included in the intervention (O'Brien 2004).
«Troubles» between the parents can also influence each parent's relationship with their
child: for example couple conflict is negatively related
to both
child -
mother and
child - father
attachment (Frosch et al, 2000).
Therefore in order
to support secure
attachments between
mother - and -
child and father - and -
child, the needs, experiences and behaviour of both parents must be addressed.
The
mother -
child attachment bond shapes
child's brain, which influences his self - esteem, expectations of others, and ability
to attract and maintain successful adult relationships.
A
child who weans gradually is able
to maintain his emotional
attachment to his
mother very easily, rather than needing
to cuddle an inanimate object such as a soft toy or blanket.
I briefly covered what happens
to attachment when the
mother and
child are separated right after birth but did not cover these other separations.
Children have
attachments to other people other than their
mothers, but they do not show this
attachment the same way.
By night, she's a wife,
mother to 2 gorgeous
children and a co-sleeping, lactivist, intactivist,
attachment parenting, and natural birth supporter.
Parents» marital conflict is expected
to influence
children's and adolescents»
attachment security
to the
mother by reducing the responsiveness and effectiveness of her parenting (Markiewicz, Doyle, & Brendgen, 2001).
Remember too, that
children with
attachment disorders often exhibit their worst symptoms
to their parents, especially their
mothers, while charming others.
I found a psychologist who deals with
attachment - only
to discover that she only works with
mothers who feel themselves unable
to bond with their birth
children.
Many parents worry that if
mother was unavailable due
to illness when she had her baby, or a
child was adopted at age six, the window of opportunity for establishing a strong parent /
child attachment will have been irretrievably lost, and their youngster will be incapable of forging deep
attachments as an adult.
From API's perspective, the less complicated childbirth is, the easier it is
to establish that
mother - infant bond that eventually blossoms into a secure parent -
child attachment.
As a
mother of seven, and former therapeutic foster parent
to 51
children,
attachment and Attachment Parenting have been a constant in my life for the last
attachment and
Attachment Parenting have been a constant in my life for the last
Attachment Parenting have been a constant in my life for the last 28 years.
While not all
mothers are able
to breastfeed,
Attachment Parenting International recognizes that breastfeeding — as well as breastfeeding behaviors while giving a bottle of pumped breastmilk — is one of nature's best teachers of new parents in how
to sensitively and consistently respond
to their baby as well as learn
to develop the reciprocity of a healthy relationship between parent and
child.
It's vital for
children to form a secure
attachment to their
mother.
According
to Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., psychiatrist and leading expert on trauma and how it affects the brain, as many as 80 % of abused and neglected infants and
children develop disorganized / disoriented
attachment relationships, which are expressed as unpredictable approach and avoidance patterns towards
mother, the inability
to accept comfort from caregivers, rage at
attachment figures, and pathological self - regulatory behaviors.
We met with a psychologist during our adoption and she (and those in her profession) actually encourage adopted
mothers to nurse their
children (even if they are 3 or 4) because bonding and
attachment is so vitally important
to becoming a successful adult.
These two
mothers founded
Attachment Parenting International (API) because they felt parents needed support and education
to help them raise well - rounded
children.
According
to the World Health Organization, La Leche League International, The American Pediatric Association and
Attachment Parenting International, a breastfeeding
mother should continue
to nurse — once the minimum recommended length of breastfeeding is met — as long as it is «mutually desired» by herself and her
child.
While she took time off
to raise two
children, she collaborated with several colleagues in researching, filming and writing articles on
mother - infant bonding,
attachment and separation.
Timely and appropriate maternal sensitivity
to the infant's behaviour is a central component of
mother - infant relationships and healthy social and emotional development.20, 21 Maternal depression may disrupt the maternal -
child relationship, 22 contribute
to maternal failure
to respond appropriately
to infant signals23 and lead
to insecure
attachments.24 A
mother's failure
to respond
to the crying infant can have important immediate and lasting consequences for infant development.
Attachment - based intervention for enhancing sensitive discipline in
mothers of 1 -
to 3 - year - old
children at risk for externalizing behavior problems: a randomized controlled trial.
But, going back
to your post, one of the things I loved best about this book was the way that she challenges the all - consuming
attachment parenting norm (along with any other norm you can think of), painting
mothers as free agents, making difficult choices for their own and their
childrens» survival.
Post-partum depression poses substantial adverse consequences for
mothers and their infants via multiple direct biological (i.e., medication exposure, maternal genetic factors) and environmental (i.e., life with a depressed
mother) mechanisms.8, 9 From the earliest newborn period, infants are very sensitive
to the emotional states of their
mothers and other caregivers.10, 11 Maternal mood and behaviour appear
to compromise infant social, emotional and cognitive functioning.11 - 15 As
children grow, the impact of maternal mental illness appears as cognitive compromise, insecure
attachment and behavioural difficulties during the preschool and school periods.6,16 - 19
According
to Bowlby,
attachment also serves
to keep the infant close
to the
mother, thus improving the
child's chances of survival.
It's important for me, as an
Attachment Parenting
mother,
to treat my
children with love and respect, but it's also important for me
to treat my spouse with love and respect.
If the
child seems disturbed - continues
to cry, etc., consideration should be given
to a prompt return
to the
mother or other primary
attachment figure.
While
mothers are more likely
to form secure
attachments by comforting their
children when they are distressed, fathers are more likely
to provide security in the context of the controlled excitement of play or discipline.
found that depressed
mothers with lower levels of
attachment anxiety showed improvements in sensitivity
to child cues relative
to those with higher levels of
attachment anxiety and those who did not receive home visiting.
Research on resilient
children indicates that they need only one secure
attachment figure
to be successful, and it can be a
mother, father, relative, or other caring adult.
Don't even get her started on
attachment parenting, which in its most basic form is when a
child sleeps in their parents» bed and is strapped
to their
mother in a sling.
«In Big John's ideal world,
children were
to be taken from their
mothers during their third or fourth week: If not,
attachments were bound
to develop.
AP brings balance and self - acceptance
to mothers, embracing our imperfections and even recognizing how the repairs we make with our
children strengthen and grow the
attachment relationship.
Many AP moms work outside the home: «[Sears] says about 60 % of
mothers with
children in his pediatric practice work outside their homes, and indeed, some career
mothers are drawn
to an
attachment parenting model that helps them get close
to their babies when they finally come home from work.»
Many of the existing theories of love centered on the idea that the earliest
attachment between a
mother and
child was merely a means for the
child to obtain food, relieve thirst, and avoid pain.
Sure it's better if at least the
mother (or the father) engages in an attached style of parenting, but if your goal is
to create
children who thrive, a balanced feminine and masculine
attachment is part of the equation.
«
Attachment is a special bond between parent and
child; a feeling that draws you magnet - like
to your baby; a relationship that when felt
to its deepest degree causes the
mother to feel that the baby is a part of her.
I bring a unique alchemy of insight (M.A. Marriage and Family Therapy and Certified Educator of Infant Massage), experience (2 decades helping thousands of
children and gentle parents), passion (media advocate for natural sleep, breastfeeding, parenting, and learning), and heart (unschooling and
attachment parenting
mother of 3)
to the Sage Parenting book series, eclasses, and coaching.
While Katherine and Jacky reported
to the Daily Mail that Katherine was the surrogate and had no
attachment to baby Caspian, genetically, Katherine is the
mother of the
child.
Previous
attachment research has demonstrated the importance of the
mother - infant relationship
to children's emotional development, but there is still relatively little research on the role of fathers, the marital relationship and the family as a whole.
I spent some time writing about this in «Good Night, Sleep Tight ``, but I thought it would be helpful
to write more about how
to create a balanced, secure
mother - baby
attachment with your
child.
«When people become more informed and learn about different practices — like baby «wearing» or other ways
to enhance
mother -
child attachment and health,» she said, «they may find they need a product we carry.
Of great blessing was
to publish the book with a cover that captured the essence of an
Attachment Parenting family — the Paris - Barnet Ress family of Nashville, Tennessee,
mother Elizabeth Paris, father Jay Barnet Ress, and
children Zachary and Elysha.
In regard
to children's
attachments to their
mothers, based on reports from only 60 % of the
mothers, the 51 frequently overnighting infants had more insecure
attachments (43 %) than the 219 occasional overnighters (16 %) and the 364 non-overnighters (25 %).