This type of
child disciplining does not effect your child's self esteem and it also establishes in their mind that what type of behavior that you expect of them.
Not exact matches
When a team member at Windsor Regional Hospital leaves work early to watch their
child in a sports meet, for example, they can
do so without being concerned about being
disciplined or using up a valuable vacation day.
God is love, but love
does involve
discipline (think
children, boundaries, etc.) Christians
do acknowleged that God
does have emotions.
Do you
discipline a
child to make up for what they
did?
I'm beginning to see what it looks like to come as a
child to my Heavenly Father, heeding the wisdom of Solomon, «My son,
do not despise the Lord's
discipline, and
do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord
disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.»
Does that wisdom in include support for slavery, discriminations and beating
children with sticks for
discipline like the Bible says?
I concluded at the time of the riots that of all the things the government now needed to
do, it was the married family which most urgently needed to be rebuilt: I was and remain as certain of that as anything I have ever written, and I have been saying it repeatedly for over 20 years: I was saying it, for instance, when I was attacking (in The Mail and also The Telegraph), as it went through the Commons, the parliamentary bill which became that disastrous piece of (Tory) legislation called the
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their
children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children, which even, preposterously, gave
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to
discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their
child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the
child and the nature of the smack.»
So
does God STILL support slavery and beating helpless
children with rods for
discipline?
The volume includes two additional studies on theologians who, although they hold quite pessimistic views on the nature of
children,
do not endorse physical
discipline: the Reformer John Calvin and the 18th - century American Calvinist Jonathan Edwards.
In this most elementary area of parent -
child relationships, such a notion rescues
discipline from connotations of punishment and has the further virtue of counseling foresight, according to which the best
disciplining parent is the one who anticipates that from which the
child alone can not protect himself and
does something about it before the
child is injured.
Proverbs 23:13 - 15 ESV
Do not withhold
discipline from a
child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.
As Bede said, «a
child does not contradict the professors».5 The
discipline was strict.
Nor will its use demand payment of fare, and no longer will His
children need travel across land or sea, no, but upon the winds of the air as like He
does, and shall dwell upon the clouds in great floating cities away from the foulness of the earth's sand upon which will crawl the wicked
children, and the wicked hostesses except those which He sees fit to allow to visit the cloudy cities for reasons of firm
discipline... (10:45) Round shapely... (10:63) And as it is written so shall it come to pass while I
do live.
Do we not do the same when we are disciplined by our parents as children or by our employer when we call ourselves adults, don't we want to «get our own back» don't we relish it when they become ill or have an accident and we say «it serves them right» justice has been don
Do we not
do the same when we are disciplined by our parents as children or by our employer when we call ourselves adults, don't we want to «get our own back» don't we relish it when they become ill or have an accident and we say «it serves them right» justice has been don
do the same when we are
disciplined by our parents as
children or by our employer when we call ourselves adults, don't we want to «get our own back» don't we relish it when they become ill or have an accident and we say «it serves them right» justice has been
done.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on
discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and
disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should
do and be, or what other people think he should
do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and
do well and are interested in.
You seem like someone who is interested in these kind of word studies so maybe you know if this is accurate or not: Someone else pointed out to me that the word for «punishment» in the sheep / goat passage is a Greek word that has more of a correction /
discipline /
child - training / restorative / purifying focus than «punishment»
does in English.
But even if we agree that a father may
discipline a
child... in a healthy relationship this
does not represent boundaries, it represents... love.
But irritating as it may be for small
children to be waving a sharpened stick around our ankles (and requiring as it
does firm
discipline), the stick doesn't threaten our eyes.
Sabi God is not surprised by our actions disappointed maybe just like in a family when the fathers
children do the wrong thing.The amazing thing with God is that is sovereign and all the mistakes we make he uses them to build up our faith or if we refuse to listen he will
discipline us for our good.
Do you discipline and train your children as you ought, or do you often avoid the issu
Do you
discipline and train your
children as you ought, or
do you often avoid the issu
do you often avoid the issue?
There should never be reason to use physical force to
discipline a
child, all that
does is teach them that at times of anger it is okay to be violent.
Coming, as they often
do, from families with a history of
child and wife abuse, alcoholism, promiscuity, poor nutrition, a lack of
discipline and low academic achievement, they find adjustment to stricter, often fundamentalist standards difficult.
(followed closely by: - «I have a personal relationship» with «God / Jesus» and - «If you are a good parent, don't you
discipline your
children when they misbehave?»
So then the
child does not follow through and the parent smacks him with a belt or a cane lightly — for
discipline purposes to teach the
child a lesson.
Although the converts were
disciplined people and
did good works from two fronts the vindictiveness was exerted: among people whose traditions were disturbed, there circulated atrocious lies, namely: Christians practiced incest; they devoured
children in the secret assemblies, etc..
In the same way that the zero - tolerance approach to
discipline sends precisely the opposite psychological message to disadvantaged kids than what we now know they need in order to feel motivated and engaged with school, so
do many basic elements of traditional American pedagogy work in direct opposition to what the psychological research tells us will help those
children succeed.
In the same way that we
do not expect a first grader to learn calculus, it is important to understand what age appropriate behaviour is and to shape your expectations of your
child and your
discipline (teaching) according to what a
child can reasonably be expected to understand at any given age.
Our
children are messed up because we don't
do good enough
discipline and let them get away with anything.
Positive
discipline means getting beyond a
child's bad act and figuring out why the
child acted the way he or she
did, said Adam Frank, a Takoma Park resident and co-leader of Takoma Attachment Parenting.
There are some things where I don't have quite as much confidence - gentle
discipline, for instance, because of less support for it in person and the fact that it has so many variables (working w / a
child's behavior has much more grey area than «I always comfort my baby when she wakes up in the night,» which makes it more of a challenge)- so somethimes I
do feel judged for my
discipline choices, and sometimes I don't live up to my own standards - making me more suseptable (sp?)
And it's pretty hard not to form a strong connection and get to know your
child really well when you
do breastfeed, spend lots of time with them, wear or carry them everywhere you go, are available to them all night, use positive
discipline and practice the other principles of attachment parenting.
Iben Sandahl, a licensed narrative psychotherapist, MPF, and author of the acclaimed parenting book, The Danish Way, told Mother magazine that
children who are raised by parents who
do not employ an ultimatum - based system of
discipline are much more inclined to both value and exhibit respect as opposed to fear or apathy.
Disciplining your
child doesn't mean punishing him; it means teaching him right from wrong.
Ensure that your
discipline teaches your
child «what to
do instead.»
What you probably didn't expect was that someday — despite your best parenting efforts — your
child would not only refuse to respond to your
discipline, but the behavior would actually worsen over time.
Remember, too, that
disciplining your
child doesn't mean controlling her — it means teaching her to control herself.
Disciplining your
child is fine, but how
do you know if you're getting close to the line of being too strict — or worse?
What you probably didn't expect, though, was that someday — despite your best parenting efforts — your
child would not only refuse to respond to your
discipline, but the behavior would actually worsen over time.
When a
child does something that goes against the rules or expectations it is fine to
discipline this way.
Do not withhold
discipline from a
child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.
The well meaning advice and thoughts of naysayers just don't bother me anymore... well, okay sometimes they
do... like when they insinuate that my choices on vaccines or positive
discipline border on
child abuse or neglect... then I have a few choice words to say.
Disciplining a
child while angry is definitely in that category of don'ts.
Often, parents forget that the point of
disciplining children is to give them firm guidelines and limits so that they
do not need to be punished.
Learn how to
discipline together with your partner so your
child doesn't view one of you as the «bad guy.»
When kids
do something wrong, authoritative parents will
discipline by trying to guide and teach their kids, and modify what they expect from kids depending on the situation and a
child's individual needs.
Effective
discipline techniques at this age include continuing to praise good behavior, focusing your
child's efforts, what they can
do and change, rather than innate traits (such as «you are smart»).
Trying to force your
child to
do something won't teach self -
discipline.
By encouraging those who still advocate corporal punishment to see the facts behind reasons parents today think corporal punishment works and breaking down those reasons to see why those reasons don't stand up to facts and examination, we can protect the most vulnerable members of society:
children, who should be taught how to behave correctly on their own and develop the skills to regulate their own behavior so that they don't need to be constantly
disciplined and who should not be physically hurt so that they obey at that particular moment, without learning how to regulate themselves in the future.
Parents who practice permissive parenting don't
discipline or impose rules; they don't want to have any conflict with their
children believe kids should regulate themselves.
If you always use the same
discipline method, like simply telling your
child to stop an activity, this only
does half the job.