Here are some examples of the types of phrases I believe you should avoid saying to
your child during an argument.
Not exact matches
So if your
child says, «You never take my side; you're always on my brother's side,»
during an
argument, and you reply, «No, that's not true,» that's also a form of invalidation.
By the way, you wouldn't want to ask that question
during an
argument, because it will just draw out the fighting and give your
child more ammunition.
When you're raising or helping to raise a
child that is not biologically your own, whether you're a stepparent in a blended family, have adopted or foster
children, or are bringing up your grandchildren, kids may sometimes use this fact against you
during the heat of an
argument.
HOWEVER I do think that the concerns over the possibility of heavy metals in some tattoo inks are a very valid
argument for waiting until your
child is older and having less milk
during the day (and / or night).
When one spouse has had very little to do with caring for and raising the
child or if
during the initial separation the
child has been made a part of disagreements and
arguments, the court will need to know that.
Questions
during the Q&A portion of the press conference included his plans
during his scheduled visit to Albany on March 4th, why he expects to convince legislators who he has not convinced, whether he's concerned that the middle school program will be pushed aside if there is a pre-K funding mechanism other than his proposed tax, where the money to fund the middle school program will come from, how he counters the
argument that his tax proposal is unfair to cities that do not have a high earner tax base, how he will measure the success of the program absent additional standardized testing, whether he expects to meet with Governor Cuomo or Senate Republican Leader Dean Skelos
during his March 4th trip, what he would say to a parent whose
child planned on attending one of the charter schools that his administration refused to allow, whether he doubts Governor Cuomo's commitment or ability to deliver on the funding the governor has promised, what are the major hurdles in trying to convince the state senate to approve his tax proposal, whether there's an absolute deadline for getting his tax proposal approved, whether he can promise parents pre-K spots should Governor Cuomo's proposal gointo effect, and why he has not met with Congressman Michael Grimm since taking office.
Z.K.L. was allegedly to have grabbed and pushed his wife
during a heated
argument about the raising of their
child.
We recently watched an appellate
argument in a
child custody dispute where the panel directly questioned the father's counsel about his failure to pay support or try to see his
child during the pendency of his appeal.
Their
argument is that women have a primeval urge to hang on to wealthy men to provide for their
children during the long period of pregnancy and childrearing.
During the
child custody hearing, each parent will be allowed to present an
argument.
Perhaps there was a bad break - up from the mother, or an
argument during the
child's older years.
Nurturant - involved parenting items assess the extent to which parents are aware of their
children's activities, talk with their
children about issues that bother the
children, listen to their
children's perspectives
during arguments, and consider the
children's opinions when making decisions on family matters.
If you can't see goodness in your
child during a tantrum or
argument, think of a time when you felt connected with your
child and responded with kindness.
Scales used to assess inconsistent maternal enforcement of rules, loud
arguments between the parents, low maternal educational aspirations for the
child, maternal possessiveness, maternal use of guilt to control the
child, maternal anger toward the
child, parental cigarette smoking, parental supervision of the
child, paternal assistance to the
child's mother, paternal role fulfillment, and maternal verbal abuse were obtained from the DPI and instruments assessing maternal
child - rearing attitudes and behaviors that were administered
during the maternal interviews.28 - 31 Measures of maternal punishment, parental affection toward the
child, parental time spent with the
child, and poor parental communication with the
child were administered
during the maternal and offspring interviews using scales assessing parental warmth, parent -
child communication, and parental support and availability.28, 29,31 Data regarding parental home maintenance and maternal behavior
during the interview were provided by interviewer observations.
Early development consists of critical periods
during which
children are vulnerable to exposures.34 Delays in
children's development occur cumulatively and start as early as conception, which supports
arguments for early investments.35 The impact of different nutrients on
children's development depends on timing, dose and duration of deficiencies.8, 36 Parenting practices and home environments also influence
child development and may either accentuate or attenuate the effects of poverty, which directly affects
child outcomes.37 Thus, potential intervention effects can vary according to timing, exposures and environmental conditions.38 For these reasons, it is important to consider trajectories of
child development across a spectrum of ages, not just any one age.39
Cardillo's
arguments in «Intimate Relationships: Personality Development Through Interaction
During Early Life» discuss how the intimate relationships one has in the early stages of one's life (such as mother -
child, friendships, and peer interaction) form one's personality.
During a
child custody hearing, a judge will make a determination about a parenting plan and custody based on
arguments from both sides, as well as a number of other factors.
If your
children, roommates, friends, neighbors, and extended family have been present
during arguments with your partner, you may have felt guilt, shame, or embarrassment.