Your positive attitude and unconditional acceptance will literally rub off on your child and make
your child feel accepted and good about himself or herself.
Dr. Perry says the key is to help
our child feel accepted and safe with us.
Emily adds, «Families can build healthy relationships with their children through consistency, comfort, care and play, and making sure
children feel accepted, loved and appreciated.
Not exact matches
The parent
accepts him, and the
child feels a wonderful euphoria.
Each partner must do his «grief work» — the work of his personality in letting go of the
children emotionally,
accepting the reality of their leaving and dealing with the varied
feelings these events bring.
Additionally, we recommend that they give the
children explicit permission to be honest in expressing their
feelings, and that the counselors in turn be open and
accepting of all that is shared with them.
I recognize that this might be considered by some to be a bit of a gamble with our
children's faith, but I
feel like it allowed our
children to
accept Jason's loss of faith with less anxiety.
Perhaps the humanity of the unborn
child that everyone instinctively recognises is easier to suppress if you don't wake up in the night
feeling a baby turning somersaults inside you nor be expected to
accept chronic sickness because taking anti-nausea drugsmight harm the tiny life you are incubating.
Having never
felt accepted, the
child grows up unable to
accept himself and, therefore, unable to
accept others or
feel accepted by them.
Etiologically speaking, the parent who does not
feel accepted, by himself and others, is unable to give his
child the warm, vital experience of being
accepted.
Since the standards of parental expectation are perfectionistic, the
child can never really
feel accepted.
Unfortunately, many men (husbands and fathers) have not led by example or had good loving relationship with their wife and
children but become abusive, lazy, unspiritual, and the
children of those fathers begin to
feel distrustful to men and could steer towards
accepting women who have possibly been more obedient to God or seem more pure.
Jennifer Fulwiler could not
accept that her newly born
child was nothing more than a complex set of chemical interactions, or that her own
feelings of love could be accounted for that way.
The mother and father who are open to and
accepting of their own negative
feelings are far more able to tolerate their
child when behavior is difficult and angry
feelings run high.
Correcting behavior without condemning
feeling, listening to and
accepting fears and worries without taking charge in an overprotective way, allowing free rein to the developing need for freedom while at the same time holding fast to the limits appropriate to his age — these are the continuing bases of parent -
child intimacy.
Can the parents say «No» when the
child runs into the street, and prevent him from doing it, while at the same time
accepting his
feeling of anger and frustration at being thus limited.
Usually such parents have not been able to admit to or
accept strong negative
feelings in themselves, and thus project onto the
child their own
feelings of badness.
Tears of pain and joy openly and unashamedly
accepted from time to time, in parents as well as in
children, teach a
child the value of deep
feeling in experiencing life to its fullest.
This does not suggest that parents
accept any action the
child chooses for expression of his
feelings.
A first step would be to become consciously aware of the ways in which their
children express their
feelings, and to let them know verbally that these
feelings are
accepted.
If, during the toddler and young -
child stage, parents are sensitive and
accepting enough to help the
child to understand how he
feels, and to put their understanding into words and actions, they and the
child are well prepared for the next stage of parent -
child intimacy.
This implies
accepting the
child's individuality, his physical drives, and his
feelings.
I hadn't known about this center's work, and it is highly illuminating and also offers hope for those of us who'd like to see men
feel accepted and embraced in that role My only concern is that of the 31 fathers in this study most were at home with babies / young
children (meaning they probably hadn't been married too long) and the mean number of years spent caregiving was slightly greater than 5; I wish the authors indicated how many had been doing it for 17 years.
I don't understand why it's necessary when we're talking about young
children who seem to need help recognizing and
accepting feelings, both their own and in others.
Your
child identifies with these kids she's hanging out with in some way — maybe they have something in common that drew them together, or she
feels accepted in this group.
If you find that your
child feels pressured to behave in a certain way in order to be
accepted by her friends, then you need to take a closer look at whom she is hanging out with.
It means your
child wants to
accept the love you're offering, and needs your help to let go of those upset
feelings that are in his way, before he can connect with you.
Social psychologist Susan K. Perry on the importance of teaching your
child to
accept losing without
feelings of bitterness or...
Research shows that when parents regulate their own emotions and
accept their
child's emotions, the
child learns to manage his or her
feelings and behavior earlier than other kids.
With Lucas I
feel more confident in my parenting and
accept the fact that people may judge me but I don't care because I now know that I am doing what is right for my
child and for my family instead of trying to pressure him to fit.
«If parents don't
accept the hurt their
child is
feeling, they can't help their
child overcome it.»
It's important to let your
child know you understand and
accept their
feelings before you say or do anything else.
Children want to
feel accepted and valued.
If there's any sign of disappointment, be
accepting, realizing your
child's
feelings will fluctuate over time.
The My
Feelings Poster is a great tool to jump - start discussions about feelings with children as young as 3 and how to accept, learn from, and mana
Feelings Poster is a great tool to jump - start discussions about
feelings with children as young as 3 and how to accept, learn from, and mana
feelings with
children as young as 3 and how to
accept, learn from, and manage them.
We also can choose to
accept the season we are in when we have young
children and have nice quiet days spent at home instead of cramming in lots of activities and ending up
feeling rattled at the end of the day.
I haven't been able to find work in an environment where I
feel like my methods are
accepted, and other
child care givers tend to scoff at me and call me incompetent
Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy principally involves PLACE - creating a Playful, Loving,
Accepting, Curious, and Empathic environment in which the therapist and parent attune to the
child's «subjective experiences» (
feelings, and thoughts) and help the
child make sense of them by reflecting back and validating those experiences to the
child by means of eye contact, facial expressions, gestures and movements, tone of voice, timing and touch.
As part of the healing process, the
child needs to express her terror, rage, grief and shame, and have these
feelings accepted and validated by her adoptive mother.
Make cookies, play games, go for a walk, dig in the garden, ride bikes, read, go to the park, blow bubbles... pretty much anything you do together will communicate to your
child that you love and
accept her despite her anger at you, and that you're not holding her
feelings against her.
Children feel their mother's confidence and readily
accept it.
Kids who co-sleep, according to Healthy
Child,
feel more
accepted by their parents.
Accept and help the
child to name strong
feelings during brief conversations (the
child can not talk about these
feelings or the experience for long)
One way to help
children deal with rejection and disappointment is to talk through problems or difficulties, recognising and
accepting their
feelings.
In such cases, allow plenty of
child - directed play time,
accepting free (but safe) expression of all
feelings (including anger / hate / disgust / fears / etc.).
But I don't think it's as
accepted to say out loud «I don't have that crazy in love
feeling with my
child.»
Your job for the next ten years or so is to help your
child understand the difference between a real danger (
accepting a ride from a stranger) and something that just
feels like one (the «witch» in the space between the wall and his bed).
Adults» role should be to help a
child to understand, first, that his actions caused another
child to get hurt (either physically or emotionally), and then, begin the process of having a
child accept responsibility and
feel accountable for his own actions.
If you can
accept these traits, then you will be less likely to push your
child to engage in more social activities than he
feels comfortable with.
We will always do our very best to make your
child feel loved,
accepted, respected and precious and stimulate and support their talents.