Will
the child feel betrayed when she finds out that the parents have been listening?
Not exact matches
Though I certainly hope everyone who sponsored a
child or made a donation will continue to support World Vision, I can see how this effort would make you
feel betrayed, as though it were launched under false pretense.
Though I sincerely hope everyone who sponsored a
child or made a donation will continue to support World Vision, I can see how this effort would make you
feel betrayed, as though it were launched under false pretense.
That can lead to jealousy and competition with their
child's caregivers, which can cause negative consequences, she notes, such as creating «distance between caregiver and parent or inadvertently place the
child in a loyalty conflict where she
feels she is
betraying her parent when she cares for another adult.»
By not being forthcoming, parents can cause their
child to become angry because they
feel betrayed.
Vicki
feels cheated,
betrayed and resentful about her income disparity with Mike and for having to carry the whole workload of raising the
children.
Just read a post by an older
child who had 2 younger siblings die from homebirth, and how traumatic it was for the rest of them even though they were told it was inevitable (God's will)-- and how absolutely
betrayed and devastated she
felt when a 3rd baby survived the same (cord around neck) because hospital birth.
But if it takes longer, your
child might
feel betrayed, says Myers - Walls.
She also wrote that it's good to avoid blame so, «the
children are free to continue loving each parent fully without fear of
betraying other parent or
feeling disloyal.»
Child feels safe, not
betrayed, and it really really works.
If their
children do everything that is asked, yet graduate from high school unprepared for college what comes next, parents
feel betrayed.
I've met many non-Indigenous people who are now aware that they or their families took part in the removal of Indigenous
children from their families either knowingly or unknowingly, and as a result,
feel ashamed,
betrayed and sorry.
no one is blaming anyone else — the
children are free to continue loving each parent fully without fear of
betraying other parent or
feeling disloyal (this may be the toughest challenge for many parents, but it is CRUCIAL if you want to protect the
children from pain and maladjustment).
If you think about it logically you can see that if a
child (no matter what age even into adulthood) sides with Mom they
feel they are
betraying Dad.
The parent who has been
betrayed may
feel they want to explain to their
children that it is not their fault.
Fathers of young
children who were not guaranteed continued close contact
felt particularly outraged and
betrayed by the system, which was seen as unfair and biased toward mothers.
The authentic
child feels like he
betrayed his mother by cooperating in the «mom - bashing» exchange with his father.
Further, when the
child comes to care for the stepparent, he or she may struggle with the new emotions, as the
child may
feel that love for the stepparent somehow
betrays his or her biological parent.
Never start a sentence with «If your father / mother really loved you...» Don't allow your
feelings of being
betrayed to interfere with your support of your
children's need to love and be loved by your former partner.