Minister for Gender, Children and Social Protection, Otiko Afisah Djaba is on a three - day advocacy tour of the Northern Region against
child marriage which is hampering girl child education.
My financial goals are
my childrens marriage which would be around 10 years from now, so I would like to hold funds for atleast 10 to 15 years long term.
Not exact matches
In its intrinsic supernatural reality,
marriage includes three goods: the good of exclusive, personal, reciprocal fidelity (the bonum fidei), the good of welcoming
children and educating them to know God (the bonum prolis), and the good of the indissolubility or indestructibility of the bond, the permanent foundation of
which is the indissoluble union of Christ and the Church,
which is sacramentally represented by the
marriage (the bonum sacramenti).
Through the 1950s, however, all Christians of whatever stripe held to what Wilcox calls «the ideology of familism» that invested
marriage, childbearing, and the household with sacredness, and in
which, at least since the Industrial Revolution, men were the chief economic providers while the domestic sphere and the welfare of the
children were chiefly the domain of women.
First, it extends the logic of the redefinition of
marriage which the earlier legislation on no - fault divorce required: Marriage is no longer a lifelong, monogamous bond between two people of the opposite sex intended for the raising of children and the provision of a stable family environment; rather, it is a relationship of mutual convenience, to be dissolved as and when it becomes inconvenient to the contracted parties to main
marriage which the earlier legislation on no - fault divorce required:
Marriage is no longer a lifelong, monogamous bond between two people of the opposite sex intended for the raising of children and the provision of a stable family environment; rather, it is a relationship of mutual convenience, to be dissolved as and when it becomes inconvenient to the contracted parties to main
Marriage is no longer a lifelong, monogamous bond between two people of the opposite sex intended for the raising of
children and the provision of a stable family environment; rather, it is a relationship of mutual convenience, to be dissolved as and when it becomes inconvenient to the contracted parties to maintain it.
One of the first instructions to man was to «Be fruitful and multiply» Jesus touches on the concept of avoiding
marriage in order to serve the Kingdom of God,
which is what He did; Jesus never married and had no
children, and He is our example.
So, in summary,
marriage,
which is primarily for having
children, is a good, because offspring, faith, and sacrament are goods.
According to ancient Jewish canon (law) a priest (of
which Jesus was one) was required to be at least 30 years old, married and have
children BEFORE becoming a priest so that he would be able to understand the problems and conflicts of
marriage and parenthood.
Nor is it fair to compel a
child from a home that embraces historic Christian sexual norms to attend a school in
which the teachers portray homosexual practice or open
marriage as just one of many equally acceptable lifestyle options.
Such a development would fall outside the whole moral history of humanity that, whatever the diverse legal forms, has never lost sight of the fact that
marriage is essentially the special communion of man and woman,
which opens itself to
children and thus to family.
But he also has his rights in regard to married couples -
which means that, in marrying, a man and a woman also take on special duties towards God: duties to marry so as to create a home, duties to accept generously the
children God wishes to give them, 6 duties to maintain a united
marriage and a united home that will both keep the spouses engaged in the task of learning to love, and help the
children grow in the reflection of their parents» and of God's love.
(The tendency of some parents, of course, is to blame «outside bad influence» and ignore the problems within their
marriage which are disturbing the
child.)
Parent growth groups
which also emphasize the crucial role of fathers and stress the enrichment of
marriage (
which ours did not) are, in the long run, more helpful to both
children and parents.
My family had a false complaint against us and
child and family services wanted to take our kids away from us
which in the end they could not dig any trash up on me or anyone else, but that event has caused a crash of my
marriage and not sure where that is going to end up.
The only valid
marriages are those
which produce
children.
My own statements about the way in
which the decline of
marriage contributes to the difficulties facing the working class were singled out as suggesting that unmarried women with
children were somehow responsible — blaming the victim.
The growth counselor's function is to help such persons as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so as to avoid further hurt to each other and to their
children; agree on a plan for the
children that will be best for the
children's mental health; work through the ambivalent feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each person's infected grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills
which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better
marriage.
When parents in a society with race lines look with apprehension upon the
marriage of their
child to a person of a different race, they have in view the indignities and disabilities
which the unjust society will visit upon the couple and upon their
children and their
children's
children.
As he often does, however, Schama overextends and trivializes his argument, interpreting the composition, with Anslo at its elevated center, as a portrait of a
marriage in
which the domineering husband «leans heavily toward his wife, benevolently overbearing, just short of bullying,» while Aeltje, «her head slightly cocked like an obedient pet or a contrite
child,» patiently accedes to his diatribe.
The nuptial Mass, then, is suffused with meaning,
which deepens over time as the couple matures in their
marriage, settles in a community, and (God - willing) has
children.
The dumping of all adults into a unified life style called
marriage may guarantee to a military empire the
child - warriors it needs and to an economic empire the consumer - citizens it is greedy for — but it can not guarantee the existence of the authentic cell of society
which is love - justice.
But once (within
marriage) generosity has been fulfilled in a particular couple (
which only they can determine in conscience), need «each and every act of sexual intercourse» be open to the gift of
children without destroying the symbolism of the conjugal act as complete self - gift to each other?
The reason the government has ANY control over
marriage is not a religious one but one that involves the welfare of
children which families may have or adopt.
The point at
which many
marriages jump the track is in overinvesting in
children and under - investing in the
marriage.
In contrast, the couple
which has stayed connected through the previous stages or achieved re-connection during the
child - leaving stage, finds that the empty nest offers them all sorts of new opportunities for enjoying their
marriage.
e. man + brother's widow, («Levirate»
marriage) f. rapist and his victim, (Deuteronomy 22), g. male solders and their female prisoners,
which can include virgin girls, who are still
children, h. as «assigned», (female slave to the owners male slave).
This is especially true in
marriages in
which the spouses have used the
children as a primary way of relating or as a means of avoiding intimacy (by always having the
children between them as a buffer).
How about the more pragmatic factor that the law with regard to
marriage is for the sole purpose of addressing the special circu - mstances of the family unit
which includes raising of
children.
Believers need to learn about the ways in
which marriage advances the emotional, social, and economic welfare of
children.
As for the conclusion of Aidan O'Neill QC, that schools will be within their statutory rights to dismiss staff who refuse to use stories or textbooks promoting same - sex
marriage and that parents who object to gay
marriage being taught to their
children will have no right to withdraw their
children from lessons, does that sound at all unlikely, given the cases of the Strasbourg four,
which were considered by the European Court of Justice in September?
We now live in a culture in
which about half of all
marriages end in divorce; in
which nearly half of all
children spend part of their childhood in fatherless homes; in
which women and men who put their families first are falling behind economically and professionally; in
which many of the nation's youngest citizens are starving for parental time and attention, and often for basic material necessities.
Clearly the «traditional»
marriage in
which it is automatically assumed that the man will earn the money and be more or less dominant and the woman will raise the
children and be more or less submissive —
which has been and still is the commonest pattern in Western society — is changing.
In liberating our
marriages we give our
children a precious gift, the model of a mutually - fulfilling man - woman relationship,
which is one of the best preparations for their future.
Jesus answered evenly, speaking important truth about the earthbound nature of
marriage which will give way to the greater life promised to the
children of» the resurrection (that beautiful phrase, lost on those with no ears to hear).
As Catholics, we believe that sex is for having
children within a state of love
which is
marriage.
Also, if it can be proved that one of the parties never intended to have
children,
which is one of the ends of
marriage, this could also nullify the vows.
A break in one connection, such as attachment to a stable community, puts pressure on other connections:
marriage, the relationship between parents and
children, religious affiliation, a feeling of connection with the past, even citizenship, that sense of membership in a large community
which grows best when it is grounded in membership in a small one.
The parables disclose with what pleasure and tolerance he surveyed the broad scene of human activity: the merchant seeking pearls; the farmer sowing his fields; the real - estate man trying to buy a piece of land in
which he had secret reason to believe a treasure lay buried; the dishonest secretary, who had been given notice, making friends against the evil day among his employer's debtors by reducing their obligations; the five young women sleeping with lamps burning while the bridegroom tarried and unable to attend the
marriage because their sisters who had had foresight enough to bring additional oil refused to lend them any; the rich man whose guests for dinner all made excuses; the man comfortably in bed with his
children who gets up at midnight to help his importunate neighbor only because he despairs of getting rid of him otherwise; the king who is out to capture a city; the man who built his house upon the sand and lost it in the first storm of wind and rain; the queer employer who pays all of his men the same wage whether they have worked the whole day or a single hour; the great lord who going to a distant land entrusts his property to his three servants and judges them by the success of their investments when he returns; the shepherd whose sheep falls into a ditch; the woman with ten pieces of silver who, losing one, lights the candle and sweeps diligently till she finds it, and makes the finding of it the occasion of a celebration in
which all of her neighbors are invited to share — and how long such a list might be!
It has long been held that sexual virtue requires chastity and
marriage, that the reproductive flourishing of human beings is best accomplished by spouses committed to one another and to their
children, and that actions
which frustrate this flourishing — adultery, abandonment, and so on — are for that reason both irrational and immoral.
A marital enrichment group, a family camp, a
child - study group, a youth fellowship, a preparation for retirement group, a nursery program, a senior citizen club, premarital counseling,
marriage counseling, pastoral care in bereavement, parent -
child counseling, and the entire spiritual growth and educational thrust of the church — all these are examples of resources
which are designed to stimulate the growth of personality toward the realization of each individual's potentialities.
The older teleological view measured morality against man's rational - animal nature; in the sexual realm, this meant evaluating sex acts by reference to the common good of
marriage,
which integrated spousal union and the bearing and rearing of
children.
A practical argument for a stable
marriage is that an intact family is the best milieu in
which to raise
children.
Mary's surrender at the foot of the cross to a plan that could in no way have been part of her own for herself or for her
child figures as the centerpiece of her proposal of a Catholic feminism,
which locates the foremost value of women not in forms of service to others (
marriage, motherhood) but in service to God, in the decision to surrender to his plan.
Enrichment of their lives and
marriages will benefit themselves, their adolescent
children, and all the social institutions, including the churches, in
which they have a prominent part.
Operating under the myth that sexual involvement is always delayed until
marriage and that the family is the only normal setting for
child - rearing, this coalition opposes programs of «optional parenthood» in
which having a
child is a matter of choice rather than of chance.
This giving of one's self,
which is the definition of conjugal love, must lead in its normal development to paternity or maternity in a spiritual sense, just as
marriage does in a physical sense through procreation, rearing, and education of
children.
Children, rather than sexual intercourse, «are the true purpose of marriage, which should therefore be not regarded as consummated until such time as there is a prospect of children» (
Children, rather than sexual intercourse, «are the true purpose of
marriage,
which should therefore be not regarded as consummated until such time as there is a prospect of
children» (
children» (p. 166).
- A new specialist FGM service
which will include social services, to proactively identify and respond to FGM; this will be supported by an ongoing package of work led by the Chief Social Worker Isabelle Trowlernew programmes to prevent
child and forced
marriage in 12 developing countries
Both partners in the
marriage have lied,
which not only destroys their relationship, but hurts their
children.
Sure the Gosselin kids have matching clubhouses and cute clothes and constant activities and memories from expensive vacations, but now they don't have a strong
marriage to look up to...
which is one of the greatest gifts parents can give their
children.