Parents and carers may unintentionally contribute to the pattern of undesired behaviours by giving
children attention when they occur.
If we only pay
children attention when they throw a tantrum or hit their sibling, rather than when they are playing quietly, they are much more likely to act up.
Instead, it's about refusing to give
your child attention when he's acting obnoxious.
This means giving
your child attention when he behaves well, rather than just punishing him when he does something you don't like.
Not exact matches
«There is no bells of the church to wake us up or... tell us what day to stop working and pay
attention to our families and our
children, no shabbat to tell us
when we should be making love to our partners; it's all on us» she said.
Not that I would need him to be toted out and displayed in public or anything like that, in fact, I felt it was wrong
when it was done so much during the election - after all young
children should be sheltered from the crazy
attention that follows the Palins around - but the lack of mention of his presence makes it pretty clear he is not taking this bus tour.
When a parent lets a
child die from diabetes because they refuse to get medical
attention because they thing god will fix them, we have no choice but to show the religious that their believe is irrational and dangerous.
its sad
when parents use their
children to make a point or get
attention, who knows maybe the kid did nt care about wrestling her at all...
When I bring this to their
attention you should hear all the absurd attempts at trying to rationalize the senseless slaughter of innocent
children.
How do we give our
children the
attention they deserve
when we can't shift our focus from the distractions around us?
I think it's ridiculous that so much energy is spent on debating largely inconsequential parenting decisions
when so very little
attention is given to the
children who DO N'T HAVE PARENTS.
Downing also calls
attention to the images that had been incubating for years in Lewis's fertile imagination and that suddenly came to life in the Narnia stories, and Jacobs suggests that we should hardly be surprised
when a writer with a long record of concern for moral education turns to writing stories for
children.
When a woman tries to call her family to meals and they are so bent on their own pursuits that they do not come, or tries to correct a
child who pays no
attention, or talks into the telephone to discover suddenly that she has been cut off or that the other party has hung up the receiver, she is not really speaking to anyone.
When the
children pressed up against Jesus, hungry for His
attention, He didn't push them away in order to get after «the more important» things.
Sad
when you whiners complain about human rights... you'd rather see innocent
children and the elderly die because they can't afford medical
attention than give them a chance.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens
when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving
attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interested in.
When children throw a tantrum for
attention, parents learn to ignore it so that they will stop.
A monk of the Holy Mountain says that
when small
children turn their
attention in some direction and laugh without a reason, it means that they see their angel.
World responsibility in education further entails serious
attention to the teaching of foreign languages, beginning in the early years of school,
when children can quickly and naturally learn another tongue in the same fashion as they learned their native language.
Even though black people make up 40 percent of our nation's missing
children,
when black people make up only 13 percent of our population, these missing persons generate very little media
attention.
It is noteworthy that, in contradistinction to the older Bible - centered training in the past, most of these students had come up through the modern graded Sunday Schools in which not the Bible but the
child has been central; in which the Bible has been brought into the focus of
attention only
when the situation demanded it.
«Broken Tail Light», a powerful spot featuring Jamie Lynn Sigler, draws
attention to a complex issue facing undocumented Americans — what happens to
children when their parents are deported.
Can she have
children and sweep them along with her, the way Pat does with Tyler, showering him with love and
attention on airplanes and bus rides, taking him and his nanny on road trips whenever he can go... then steeling herself and walking out the door alone
when he can't?
I love being able to work from home, but I do sometimes feel guilty
when I have to work and the
children want
attention.
When mothers are especially vulnerable, it would seem wise for
child and family professionals to pay particular
attention to supporting positive and substantial father -
child interaction.
I've been married and divorced twice, but
when I divorced the first time — in my 20s, with no
children — I never paid
attention to any articles about reinventing myself as a divorcee.
When everyone had more
children the amount of care and
attention that we showed each
child was reduced.
They also can't help it, they're not people and act on instinct and
when you have a
child, depending on the
child, they are bound to take up most of your energy and
attention.
Joint
attention is demonstrated
when the
child is simultaneously engaged in an activity with another person or group of people.
When a
child has been having problems in the classroom, such as not completing assignments, fidgeting in their seat, not paying
attention, or talking during class, their teacher may begin to think ADHD.
One survey taker explained, «It's not my preferred method, but in a dangerous situation,
when the
child isn't listening, it gets their
attention and is a physical reminder to make a better choice next time.»
When we come home with a new baby, all the
attention suddenly shifts to the new arrival, and the older
child is supposed to just accept it happily and even welcome it.
Avoid eye contact and don't make any conversation
when your
child is looking for your
attention.
Show your
child that
when he holds up her end of the bargain — speaking to you in a respectful and calm manner to express what she wants or thinks — she earns and gets your
attention.
They can also help with entertaining the older sibling, but that
child, too, needs and wants your
attention, especially
when they have been without you for a couple of days while you were in the hospital.
Lucy H. Pearce in The Rainbow Way advises mothers to manage these intense feelings by giving their full
attention to their
child when it needs it, to carve out a separate space, however short at first, for their poem, their painting, that is, their «creative baby.»
As your
child ages, you'll notice that he or she gets more and more excited about meal time and pays a lot of
attention to what older
children and adults in the family are doing
when they eat.
Rather than paying
attention to your
child only
when she's misbehaving, try to catch her acting appropriately: «Thanks for playing with Charlie while I change his diaper.
When a
child starts exhibiting behavior problems, parents will try anything they can think of to get a handle on the situation: consequences for negative behavior; rewards for positive behavior; behavior charts; talking about the behavior; talking about how to change the behavior; ignoring the behavior in the hope it will stop if you don't give it
attention; talking about positive ways your
child can get your
attention.
When you don't respond calmly, your
child will work even harder at his tantrum to try to get you to pay
attention.
If this is the case, ask yourself if you're so busy that the only time your
child gets your undivided
attention is
when she misbehaves and you send her to time - out.
Thank her
when she shows special sensitivity toward your
child or pays him extra
attention.
Jump in to help
when necessary, but pay
attention to hunger cues and signs that your
child is full.
Worse is
when you're trying with all your might to resist and your
child pulls out the big guns by doing something that he knows has gotten
attention in the past.
When your
child is older, it's important to teach him to accept your giving
attention to other
children.
If your main concern is that your
child isn't listening to you or paying
attention when you're doing an activity together, you may want to take a look at whether or not you could be contributing to the issue.
A lot of
attention was also brought to the rearward facing debate in 2012
when the American Association of Paediatrics changed their recommendations to say that they recommend all
children should remain rearward facing until 2 years of age.
When there are several
children in the room, give the most
attention and praise to the
children who are following the rules and behaving well.
When your
child sits in your lap as you read aloud, he doesn't just enjoy books, he also enjoys the security of your undivided
attention.
It's important to pay
attention to your
child's daytime behavior and nighttime sleep for clues about
when to help them transition.