Kids Matter helps support children and their families who have experienced trauma by assisting schools to create environments where
children feel valued and supported, are taught skills to understand, express, and manage their emotions, and are able to seek help when times are tough.
When partnerships are formed and both families and
children feel valued, understood and respected, this goal is more easily reached.
I am talented at making special needs
children feel valued and accepted.
When children are little and parents practice active listening, parents can develop good patterns of communication that help
their children feel valued and understood.
The idea is to help
each child feel valued as an individual.
Make
your child feel valued because unfortunately in our society, the quiet ones often aren't.
And when you show interest, it helps
your child feel valued and important.
Learning is most effective if
the child feels valued by the mediating person.29
What counts is not the quantity of time, but the extent to which the access parent and child have a relationship in which
the child feels valued.
Not exact matches
As the organization grew, Johnson
felt a hunger to step out and share his story with people who are uncertain, or ex-Christ-followers, struggling with belief in an age where evangelicalism seems to have given up its core
values in the name of bringing alleged
child molester, Roy Moore, into the Senate.
To hold that same - sex marriage is part of the fundamental right to marry, or necessary for giving LGBT people the equal protection of the laws, the Court implicitly made a number of other assumptions: that one - flesh union has no distinct
value in itself, only the
feelings fostered by any kind of consensual sex; that there is nothing special about knowing the love of the two people whose union gave you life, whose bodies gave you yours, so long as you have two sources of care and support; that what
children need is parenting in some disembodied sense, and not mothering and fathering.
Children feel anxiety when they go against the culturally approved
values as these are embodied in the
values of their parents.
Children learn to organize their behavior to meet their needs according to culture's
values and thereby
feel the security of a deeply
felt sense of well - being and belonging.
Reacting to the findings, Rev Dr Sandra Millar, head of life events at the Church of England told Premier: It can
feel like the pressure to do something material for them [
children] is overwhelming but actually, in the long - term, when we look back at our parents, what we remember about our mums are those
values [they taught].»
In the name of stability of life and
values, our
children are presented with role models of adults who (at least on the surface) make every effort to block out the
feelings and influence of the
child.
It is easy for parents to
feel left out, or angry, or doubtful about the
value of it when their
child is involved in counseling.
When
children do not share the
values and attitudes of parents about sexuality, marriage, or family, parents
feel they have failed.
Tears of pain and joy openly and unashamedly accepted from time to time, in parents as well as in
children, teach a
child the
value of deep
feeling in experiencing life to its fullest.
We bring the gay demons out of these individuals so they can become who god intended them to be... Facing the reality that you have unwanted homosexual
feelings can cause tremendous turmoil — especially as a
child whose
feelings conflict with deeply held
values, beliefs and life goals.
This is important because it helps create a situation where dads (by which we mean the full diversity of men with a significant caring role in
children's lives, including biological and other fathers and father - figures), as well as mums (in a similarly diverse sense),
feel comfortable and
valued — in the context of a culture which still privileges women as more naturally suited to caring, and more important as parents (and by extension, less important in other contexts, eg the workplace).
But the key is to parent in a way that is consistent with your own
values... because all this will pass eventually and what will be left is your relationship with your
children and how you
feel about what happened.
We look to our
children's achievements as tangible evidence that our own lives have
value — and when they fall short of our expectations, no wonder we
feel anxious.
• 8 out of 10 people (80 %) think fathers should
feel as able as mothers to ask for flexible working • 8 out of 10 women (80 %) and more than 6 out of 10 men (62 %) agree that fathers are as good as mothers at caring for
children • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 42 % strongly, that society
values a
child's relationship with its mother more than it
values a
child's relationship with its father • Almost 6 out of 10 (59 %) agree with the statement that society assumes mothers are good for
children, fathers have to prove it • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 50 % strongly, that there should be a zero tolerance approach if fathers do not take on their parenting responsibilities • Almost 7 out of 10 (67 %) agree that dads should be encouraged to spend time in school reading with their
child • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 50 % strongly, that dads should be able to stay overnight with their partner in hospital when their baby is born.
And so families need to use their interests to involve their
children to let their
children feel accomplished,
feel that they can create something that is really significant and good in the world, as well as understanding the important
values of the family.
In less than 30 seconds, the time you could have been spending pushing them aside, you can make your
child feel loved and understood and
valued.
When parents can't communicate to their
children, the
values that get communicated to us are generally the most dysfunctional person online or from the playground because then the
child is seeking their approval rather than
feeling safe to share who they are with the parent and then wanting to get a response from a parent rather than being afraid of getting a response from a parent.
This is a FAST way of making your
child feel loved,
valued and secure.
Attempting to find support among parents who do not share the same approach to
child - raising is like comparing apples to oranges, and the advice you receive is likely to deepen the sense of doubt being
felt, and therefore create guilt — not to mention conflict with your personal
values system, which creates its own set of uncomfortable emotions.
Children want to
feel accepted and
valued.
No matter the location or who attends a birth, women need to
feel valued, dignified, and empowered, especially when it comes to making decisions about how her
child comes into the world.
Neglectful Parents have little
value for the
child's ideas,
feelings or opinions, and
children raised with this style of parenting are likely to have difficulty with relationships later in life.
If you are particularly concerned about your
child feeling pressured on these tests, you may want to tell them that the test measures what skills they have learned, not their self - worth, their kindness, their
value as a friend to others, or anything else.
These benefits include but are not limited to the power of the human touch and presence, of being surrounded by supportive people of a family's own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment of home,
feeling less inhibited in expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions of comfort, being intimate with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired, expressing or practicing individual cultural,
value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all of which can lead to easier labors and births, not having to make a decision about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use of the cascade of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include
children (who are making their own adjustments and are less challenged by a lengthy absence of their parents and excessive interruptions of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and birth experience.
They could also be the early warning signs of a
child who no longer sees the
value in school and not
feeling motivated to do well — in other words, they are starting to develop a poor attitude.
Teach your
child how having others talk about themselves is a good way for your
child to help others
feel important and
valued.
And if a
child grows into an adult
feeling worthless, rejected or less
valued than others, this can cause all sorts of issues.
Spend time with your
child one - on - one so that they
feel valued and appreciated.
Her genuine friendship, and on call support during the prenatal and postnatal times are priceless (I still
feel like I can call her and ask her advice which I
value so much when it comes to raising this
child).
Pick up a piece of fruit or snack on some veggies instead of that unhealthy choice and not only will you
feel better but your
children will learn the
value of healthy eating.
Show your
children the
value of helping others and talk about how it also helps us
feel better about ourselves.
While it is important that your
child attempt to include everyone, you also need to let her know that she is allowed to
feel safe and
valued in a friendship.
You can share that with your
children, particularly if you
feel that the rationale behind your beliefs is part of your family's
values.
As these positive reinforcement examples will show, and as Dr. Nadja Reilly, a clinical psychologist and the associate director of the Freedman Center for
Child and Family Development, explains, it can also be a great tool for communicating to your child the actions or values that you feel are impor
Child and Family Development, explains, it can also be a great tool for communicating to your
child the actions or values that you feel are impor
child the actions or
values that you
feel are important.
Finally, I want to note that if you had a living
child before your loss, that boy or girl may
feel sad that they do not have a special name, like Angel Baby or Rainbow Baby, or have other ways that make them
feel valued like their siblings.
Your
child will
feel welcome,
valued & important.
Children who
feel that they are respected and that their opinions are heard and
valued and therefore don't have the angst to fuel negative attitudes
Children who trust and
feel trusted and don't want to lose what they instinctively know is of great
value ~ our mutual trust relationship
I think the key to avoiding the pitfall of labeling is to celebrate each
child, making sure they individually
feel loved enough and
valued enough.
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When
children feel heard and their contributions are
valued, they're generally more co-operative.