The bill's backers insisted that runaways are a social rather than criminal problem, and that receiving homes, crisis centers and mental health agencies are better prepared to handle abandoned
children than punishment - oriented law - enforcement agencies.
Not exact matches
For this reason the
punishment is of a more serious kind
than in a
children's school.
God thought a fitting
punishment for making fun of hid baldness was to send bears to maul no fewer
than 42
children.
You seem like someone who is interested in these kind of word studies so maybe you know if this is accurate or not: Someone else pointed out to me that the word for «
punishment» in the sheep / goat passage is a Greek word that has more of a correction / discipline /
child - training / restorative / purifying focus
than «
punishment» does in English.
Rather
than promoting positive qualities (like verbal skills), poor parents tend to let
children go their own way and then use harsh
punishment when they get into trouble.
While time - out may work well when he's younger, sending your
child to his room as a teenager may seem more like a reward,
than a
punishment.
If you're being the coach and encouraging your
child along the way, rather
than the judge with the reward or
punishment at the other end, your
child will definitely gain a sense of being capable and develop higher self esteem from the inside (as opposed to hanging their self esteem on external approvals).
Rather
than using rewards or
punishments to cajole or direct behavior, Kohn suggests we put the relationship at the center of parenting to attend the larger aim of meeting a
child's basic need to feel loved unconditionally.
Rather
than trying to control
children's behavior with bribes, yelling, and
punishments, peaceful parenting families experience more joy by
It's not exactly clear what's behind the trend of more parents moving away from corporal
punishment — it could be a result of doctors and other
child health and welfare experts spreading the word about extensive and well - researched evidence showing a clear link between corporal
punishment and negative outcomes for kids, or it could be that this form of punishing kids is less socially acceptable
than it used to be, or a combination of both factors.
Two Thousand Kisses is based on guiding your
child from infancy to adulthood using connection and encouragement through the ups and downs of life rather
than punishment and control.
Punishment is about controlling a
child, rather
than teaching the
child how to control himself.
Teaching
children to make amends for bad behavior or help them learn self discipline, rather
than using
punishments is far more effective as your method for disciplining
children.
In addition to having held several prestigious positions in her field, she founded more
than one organization herself, including The Association of Infant Mental Health and EPOCH, (End Physical
Punishment of
Children).
Every discipline situation you face rather
than requiring a
punishment is an opportunity to teach your
child what he is feeling or needing and what words and actions may be used to express them more appropriately.
I think the proper use of positive time outs (meaning avoiding using them as
punishment) can have a positive affect on some
children younger
than others and that most likely stems directly from the
child's temperament.
Use natural and logical consequences to teach
children, which are more effective
than punishment, and doesn't instill fear.
A time - in modifies the traditional time - out in that it gives tantrumming
children a break to calm down and self - regulate before other positive discipline techniques are used, rather
than using isolation as a form of
punishment as in the traditional time - out.
Physical
punishment is better for relieving a parent's anger
than discouraging a
child's bad behavior.
Between Parent and
Child by Dr. Haim Ginott Based on the theory that parenting is a skill that can be learned, this indispensable handbook will show you how to: • Discipline without threats, bribes, sarcasm, and
punishment • Criticize without demeaning, praise without judging, and express anger without hurting • Acknowledge rather
than argue with
children's feelings, perceptions, and opinions • Respond so that
children will learn to trust and develop self - confidence
Parents are encouraged to look at
child behavior in a different perspective
than a
punishment - based mindset.
Heligirl is chock full of tools, articles, advice and first hand experiences of this positive parenting philosophy that encourages raising capable
children through cooperation, respect and connection rather
than punishment.
Even when parents choose non-violent means to control their
children such as isolation (i.e. time - outs) and behavior charts and other
punishment / reward tactics, the basic truth is that they are modelling manipulation and coercion and are focused on controlling a
child's behavior externally rather
than working with them to help them learn to control their own behavior through an internal guidance system.
In a related article, Durrant and Ensom4 summarize research done over the last 20 years suggesting that the physical
punishment of
children is associated with increased levels of
child aggression and is no better at eliciting compliance
than other methods.
Even in the face of study after study detailing the detrimental effects of physical
punishment on young
children, more
than ninety - percent of American parents still admit to spanking their toddlers and preschoolers, even if they don't believe that it is a good alternative.
Authoritative parents still believe they are an authority over their
children but that authority comes with compromise, emotional warmth, praise and discipline rather
than harsh
punishment.
But any
child can explain to you that timeouts ARE
punishment, not any different
than when you were made to stand in the corner as a
child.
Avoiding harsh
punishment and focusing on behaviors rather
than the
child is also helpful.
Positive parenting is a way of guiding
children so that they learn responsibility rather
than using
punishment as a form of discipline.
The goal of positive discipline is to teach
children inner - discipline, which comes from a highly developed conscience rather
than the use of
punishments that may include external force, shame, humiliation, isolation or coercion.
Even parents who use
punishment - based parenting approaches other
than physical
punishment find that they must escalate and escalate to keep their
children under «control.»
According to Straus, it has decreased only slightly from 1985 when studies showed 90 percent of parents used corporal
punishment on toddlers and more
than half continued to inflict it on
children up to the early teen years.
Rather
than simply following the rules because they fear
punishment (as they might with authoritarian parents), the
children of authoritative parents are able to see why the rules exist, understand that they are fair and acceptable, and strive to follow these rules to meet their own internalized sense of what is right and wrong.
Children who are subjected to corporal
punishment are no more likely to refrain from bad behavior
than those who are not.
In Canada, more
than 400 organizations have endorsed the Joint Statement on Physical
Punishment of
Children and Youth.46 A subset of these organizations is listed in Appendix 1 (available at www.cmaj.ca/lookup/suppl/doi:10.1503/cmaj.101314/-/DC1).
ADHD Secret # 2: Use Reward, not
Punishment One of the most important things to realize about children with ADHD is that they respond much better to reward than to p
Punishment One of the most important things to realize about
children with ADHD is that they respond much better to reward
than to
punishmentpunishment.
Punishment can create resentment and
children may seek revenge by doing something much worse
than the original action.
Today, as we celebrate SpankOut Day April 30th — an annual observance founded by the Center for Effective Discipline (now part of the Gundersen National
Child Protection Training Center) to bring attention to the need to stop physical
punishment of
children and promote nonviolent discipline — I want to encourage everyone to take this movement a step further
than ending spanking as a discipline method.
I was a strong - willed
child and can heartily vouch for the need of such
children to be met with love, respect, and understanding rather
than harsh discipline and
punishment.
The results suggest that
children with ADHD avoid
punishment more often over time
than typically developing
children.
Muslim
children on average gave the highest rankings and sought harsher
punishments than either their Christian or secular counterparts.
There are 1000 rules that nobody can recall,
punishment tariffs that absorb more time from adults
than children, and bureaucratic processes so long - winded that nobody has ever read them.
EW: When you start pursuing your approach, rather
than the reward and
punishment approach, how long before teachers might see a difference in a
child?
If
children are, in part, creatures of the state — and Pierce did not say there is no legitimate state role in education —
than punishment is legitimate.
The word discipline could become a more appealing idea when it is viewed as a kind of learning experience for
children rather
than punishment or pain.
Take away the cyberbully's cellphone and computer If you're seeking
punishment for someone who has hurt your
child or you want to establish prevention methods in your community, keep in mind that for teenagers, there's nothing worse
than being without their computer or cellphone.
Nobody can assess a
child's level of responsibility better
than a parent, which is why parents should have the right to make decisions about his or her
child's level of independence without fear of
punishment.
In other words, if the
child isn't subject to too much parental control, it is more likely that their «good» behavior will stem from their own inner motivation rather
than being motivated by external rewards or because of fearing
punishments.
They tend to focus more on
punishment than guiding and teaching their
children good behaviour.
By responding to your
child you will create a bond that is far greater
than any reward or
punishment.