«There is an accumulating body of knowledge based on many studies that shows only minor differences between children of divorce and those from intact families, and that the great majority of
children with divorced parents reach adulthood to lead reasonably fulfilling lives.»
Not exact matches
If, during the separation or
divorce process, you are unable to
reach a custody agreement (also known as a
parenting agreement)
with the other
parent of your
child, the courts will step in and impose rules and restrictions.
This has long
reaching effects in
divorce and family law cases dealing
with child guardianship,
child custody, the residency of a
child and the contact or
parenting time the
child receives.
Family Mediation Service The main features of the Family Mediation Service are as follows: a) The FMS is a free professional and confidential service for couples, married and non-married, who have decided to separate or
divorce and who together want to negotiate the terms of their separation or
divorce; b) Mediation helps parties
reach an agreement that meets their interests and those of their
children; and c) The FMS also deals
with a small number of cases which involve conflict between other members of a family (e.g.
parents and
children, grandparents and grandchildren on issues such as wills).
Specifically, compared
with children who grow up in stable, two -
parent families,
children born outside marriage
reach adulthood
with less education, earn less income, have lower occupational status, are more likely to be idle (that is, not employed and not in school), are more likely to have a nonmarital birth (among daughters), have more troubled marriages, experience higher rates of
divorce, and report more symptoms of depression.8
For example, although both parties may want the
divorce, the
divorce is considered contested if there are still disputes over what time the
children should spend
with each
parent; or if the spouses have not
reached a final agreement on the amount or duration of alimony; or if there remain disputes over distribution of property or debt.
But your
parenting style has far -
reaching effects on your relationship
with your
children, and both will need extra time and attention in the months after a
divorce.
So far from these topics being off - limits, any MHP seeking appointment in a court case needs to fully inform the parties prior to their consent [123], of information about the following kinds of potentials for bias and agenda: whether the MHP has been married or
divorced, and how many times, and under what kinds of circumstances, and how the MHP currently feels about those events; whether, if
divorced, the MHP went through litigation over custody or property, and such details as whether the MHP had problems paying or receiving
child support, as well as the custody arrangements of the MHP's own
children and how these worked out and everyone's feelings about them; the MHP's own personal experience taking care of and spending time
with children, within and without the scope of «
parenting», and
with regard to
parenting, whether that was
parenting as a primary caregiver, married or single
parent,
with or without household and third party help, or as a working
parent or stay - home
parent, and for how many
children, and for how long, and the outcomes from all of that; i.e. how much time has this person actually spent caring for
children on his or her own, and how well did this person's own family systems function, and is this person in fact an «expert» in creating a functioning family and raising happy, healthy, successful
children with good outcomes, nay «best» outcomes, thoroughly well - adjusted and having
reached the very pinnacles of their innate potential.