None of this is true: RYC has taught me to move my body correctly in every movement I do, and I can finally practice different sports knowing the variations that will not put my core at risk, plus I can lift my heavy
children without feeling pain!
As a
child I used to suffer tortures of shyness, and if my shoe - lace was untied would
feel shamefacedly that every eye was fixed on the unlucky string; as a girl I would shrink away from strangers and think myself unwanted and unliked, so that I was full of eager gratitude to any one who noticed me kindly; as the young mistress of a house I was afraid of my servants, and would let careless work pass rather than bear the
pain of reproving the ill - doer; when I have been lecturing and debating with no lack of spirit on the platform, I have preferred to go
without what I wanted at the hotel rather than to ring and make the waiter fetch it.
no one is blaming anyone else — the
children are free to continue loving each parent fully
without fear of betraying other parent or
feeling disloyal (this may be the toughest challenge for many parents, but it is CRUCIAL if you want to protect the
children from
pain and maladjustment).