It still amazes me how many women share their very negative
church experiences at the hands of its so - called leaders, only to have them ridiculed, dismissed, or silenced.
Not exact matches
Notwithstanding that I consider that there are some such flaws in the approach adopted by the Judge, I consider it is important that the
church does acknowledge, as I do, that we were, and I include myself,
at that time only
at the beginning of learning how to deal with disclosures of abuse, and leaders such as myself did lack
experience and training.
An evangelical caucus, formed early in the Assembly, issued programmatic recommendations to the policy committee, and,
at the conclusion of the Assembly, released a letter to
churches and fellow evangelicals regarding their
experiences.
I was amazed
at first, then after several hours, my amazement turned to disappointment, disappointment that — I had never known that what I was
experiencing was
experienced by every man in the
church, including the leadership.
Caroline, I'm sorry you're
experiencing that
at your home
church.
This is theological exegesis
at its finest: informed by historical - critical scholarship, but going far beyond the biblical dissecting room to show how the
experience of the Risen Christ both formed the
Church and impelled it into mission.
At a
church we once attended, we were assigned a new pastor, a middle aged man who had not pastored before, but felt his
experience in leading home bible study groups well - qualified him to lead our
church, a congregation of about 80.
I'd say my own
experience with a God - connection
at church, as one who is «up front» leading worship, runs the gamut.
As First
Church Estates Commissioner, I will be able to build on all my
experience both in financial services and
at Christian Aid and that's part of what is exciting about it.
So I'm not sure why you included the «appearance of cool» in your list, since (
at least in my
experience) pastoral abuse can and does occur in all types of
churches.
Experiencing the kindness of strangers offered relief to Mormons who had been feeling «a little under siege,» said Bennett, who first got to know Romney through
church in 1978 and worked with him for five years
at Bain & Company, a global consulting firm that Romney eventually led as CEO.
I have a new Christian blog aimed
at those who may have had bad
experiences with
churches but still have a great longing in their heart to know more of God.
They recently gave a Sunday morning talk
at a local
church on their
experiences (or as Don says, «I realized in Mozambique that real change in our world first requires real change in us — in me and in you».
Because it was my pastoral
experience that congregants rarely supplied
at least 10 % of their income to God - be that through their local
church or to other worthy causes.
I never had that
experience or feeling while
at my grandparents
church.
https://redeeminggod.com/adults-have-left-the-
church/ Many of those who «leave» the Sunday morning system find that they have not left
church at all, but have only just started to
experience church and be the
church the way they had always dreamed of.
The reason for the decline in
church - going Christians is the lack of Love those in the «world»
experience at church or by so called «Christians»... IMO.
Through the internet, I've come to find that others have
experienced cult - like or abusive practices
at «Christian Fellowship Ministries» or Potter's House
churches associated with Wayman Mitchell.
A few years prior I'd had a harrowing
experience at another
church, wherein I nearly lost my job for reporting a suspected abuse situation to the authorities, rather than hand it off to my boss.
Chris Butler, pastor
at Embassy
Church on the south side of Chicago, told the federal appeals court: «For the majority of
churches, the pastors are like me and
experience at some level the same problems that we're trying to face in the community.
I love it because of your honesty, and I love it because I think it echoes what a lot of people
experience in
churches when they suspect abuse, but don't say anything - the ignoring of the intuitions, the pull of «belonging» to the greater group, the shame associated with telling, the pain when they * do * tell and then are immediately ostracized (so painful, when I'm guessing you thought you «belonged»
at the table, and were only participating as you thought you had right to?
I know her hard work and service over
at Redeemer Presbyterian
Church far exceeds her job description and that many, many people have been blessed by her wisdom,
experience, insight into Scripture, and grace.
Such was the tension that many evangelicals
experienced at the forum, held
at NorthWood
Church in Keller, Texas, November 12 - 14.
You see, I've gone through extremely painful
experiences, not only in the
church but
at the hands of the
church.
In my
experience the reformed traditions (baptists, presbyterian, and many independent
churches; the puritans and anabaptists also came from this branch) can tend toward legalism; the pentecostal traditions (
Church of Christ, Assembly of God, vineyard, many independent
churches etc.) can tend toward biblical literalism and a bit of a herd mentality; the lutheran tradition can tend toward antinomianism, while the anglican and wesleyan traditions do the best
at shooting down the middle (though I am admittedly biased).
At an old job I had, a co-worker once told me about a
church who expressed their concern for a student
experiencing anxiety being on a mission trip.
Just because you and a friend shared a mountaintop
experience together
at a
church retreat 10 years ago doesn't mean you have a right to know their heart today.
My
experience is that it's rarely because the
church has become «dead» as was suggested but they have become offended
at something, and basically they have lost their love for you and the people!
Recently I received another invitation to attend a «worship
experience»
at a nearby
church.
Pastors blaming and shaming their congregation (btw, calling for accountability and guilt
at one's wrong actions, that isn't «shame»), and congregations blaming and shaming their pastors (btw, calling into question immoral, illegal, or dysfunctional conduct), is not the
church, but it is often seen and
experienced in
churches.
If your not
experiencing that
at your
church then why do you show up?
«
At the bottom of this is the humility of the Crucified, which will always be contrasted by the great powers of the world, but which generates a real hope that is manifested in the creative vitality of the
Church: in her communities and her movements, in the new responsibility of the laity, in ecumenical relations, in liturgical and spiritual
experiences.
It has been my
experience that those
church leaders who are more into control and performance will get very uncomfortable and irritable when someone joins the group who actually want to talk with God in order to learn from Him, rather than talk (or yell)
at Him in the hopes of sounding super-spiritual and maybe even manipulating something out of Him.
I left the last
church I was
at because events following being vulnerable with someone about difficulty I had
experienced with being mistreated.
Understanding Hinduism can help Christians recover their mystical traditions and allow the
Church to communicate with people today
at the level of
experience rather doctrine.
On the one hand, there is his clear conviction that he did not become a Christian, despite his having been baptized and reared in the
church, until he had a conversion
experience while an undergraduate
at Oxford.
My
experience at the
church has been valuable and helped me acquire skills that directly benefit my current position.
Last week I wrote a post on spiritual refugees (people who have left the
church and
experience feelings of spiritual homelessness) and spiritually displaced persons (those who are still within the
church and
experience it as unhealthy for them but feel trapped
at the same time).
Share What would an atheist
experience at your
church?
I did however
experience two weeks ago
at our worship gathering (what I call it cause we do very little serving so doesn't justify the name worship service I feel) and I talked about that
church you posted about once — the one where the biker is involved and the pastor leading the
church out into their community — and turned it on our congregation asking, what can we do in our community?
To keep the people in the posture of spectators while
at the same time affording them the vicarious
experience of participation via professionals enables the
church to reap the benefit of one of the most powerful dynamics of our time.
For some
churches to talk about conversion is to talk about proselytism, for others the
experience of Jesus Christ as a personal
experience is
at the heart of conversion.
At least he mentions three possible temptations: a) One can manipulate a person with previous bad
experiences in another
church.
If the
church's theology were informed more by biblical expectations of a redeemed creation and less by general religious longings for ecstatic
experience and timeless truth, Christians would find themselves
at the very least congenial toward those who, with a passionate «loyalty to things» and a «cosmic act of allegiance,» struggle to unpack the secrets of life on this planet and to work with it toward a new day.
I applied to study on the foundation course
at Moorlands College, having had very little
church experience.
As president of a university that drew to itself all of New York's land - grant income besides a founder's ample endowment, White's dislike for the
church colleges, intensified by their resentment of Cornell's wealth, drew him to appreciate the animosity Henry Tappan had
experienced at Michigan:
Then on Sunday
at St. Patrick's: «For all of us, I think, one of the great disappointments that followed the Second Vatican Council, with its call for a greater engagement in the
Church's mission to the world, has been the
experience of division between different groups, different generations, different members of the same religious family.
At the same time, in Brazil, there is one offshoot of the Universal
Church started by women and largely directed by them, and the testimony of many women is that their
experience of the Spirit has given them a new identity.
Yet,
at the same time, the
church first
experienced itself as
church, first used the word ecclesia to describe what it was.
A genuine philosophy of history regarding the beginning8 of genuinely human history, and a genuine theology of the
experience of man's own existence as a fallen one which can not have been so «in the beginning», would show that where it is a question of the history of the spirit, the pure beginning in reality already possesses in its dawn - like innocence and simplicity, what is to ensue from it, and that consequently the theological picture of man in the beginning as it was traditionally painted and as it in part belongs to the
Church's dogma, expresses much more reality and truth than a superficial person might
at first admit.