Families that set strict,
clear expectations for their children are happier, according to Scott Haltzman, MD, author of The Secrets of Happy Families.
By creating successful opportunities for children to interact within the family, setting
clear expectations for their children, and in practicing consistent and contingent family management, parents can positively influence their child's behavior.
Overly permissive or indecisive parents jeopardize their children's development when they fail to set
clear expectations for their children's behavior, or to say «no» when necessary.
Not exact matches
The new system could be an opportunity to make a
clear new cultural statement about fatherhood, with higher
expectations on their involvement — akin to the
expectation on mothers — in a way that would make it less acceptable
for fathers to drift out of their
children's lives.
Two things are critical here: first, have your
expectations for how you want your
child to respond be both simple and
clear.
At these times parents need to remain
clear - thinking, especially around your family's values and
expectations for your
child.
«Involved» here means that you are talking to your
children about safety in the areas below,
for example, and have established
clear expectations, limits and consequences
for unsafe choices, rather than hovering.
Instead, psychologists recommend an authoritative parenting style — neither permissive nor dominating — that sets
clear expectations; helps
children meet those
expectations; allows consequences
for violations of limits; uses age - appropriate, democratic decision - making; and is warm, loving, and pleasurable.
Above all, I want you to love the journey of parenting even with all its ups and downs and I strive
for you to form those deep bonds with your
children, set
clear family
expectations, and know that you are being your best parenting self.
Have a private conversation with your kids» mother and create a discipline plan together, with
clear boundaries and
expectations for your
children.
Sitting in the middle of the table were the authoritative, or democratic parents who are an integration of the other two parenting styles — setting
clear rules and
expectations but also encouraging discussion and give - and - take — especially as their
children get older and are able to take more responsibility
for themselves.
Adults caring
for children often have questions about how to set
clear expectations and manage behavior effectively.
«Labour wants to ensure the national curriculum sets
clear expectations for the knowledge and skills
children and young people should reach by a certain age,» he said.
Strategies include helping
children solve problems and manage strong feelings, reinforcing positive behavior, setting
clear rules and
expectations, and providing effective consequences
for misbehavior,» says Spring Dawson - McClure, PhD, assistant professor in the Department of Population Health at NYU Langone and co-author of the study.
Similarly, the counsellors and psychotherapists currently working in schools said that common difficulties faced were «schools» understanding of counselling and psychotherapy
for children» (57 per cent), followed by «
expectations not being
clear» (30 per cent).
Many times educators skip to the brainstorming, creation, and delivery of specific behavior interventions
for children when
clear classroom procedures, routines, and
expectations have not...
What is equally
clear is the educators who combine high
expectations for all their
children with a thirst
for improving their classroom practice, a commitment to strong, collaboratively forged school - wide programs, and plain old - fashioned hard work can meet great
expectations for the
children with and
for whom they work.
Many times educators skip to the brainstorming, creation, and delivery of specific behavior interventions
for children when
clear classroom procedures, routines, and
expectations have not been established.
As with so much public policy, it is a
clear communication in action of the
expectations we have
for our society, especially when it comes to ensuring that every
child gets a high - quality education.
In the process, Obama and Duncan are retreating from the very commitment of federal education policy, articulated through No
Child, to set
clear goals
for improving student achievement in reading and mathematics, to declare to urban, suburban, and rural districts that they could no longer continue to commit educational malpractice against poor and minority
children, and to end policies that damn
children to low
expectations.
A school with a traditional structure that provides
clear standards and
expectations may be a good choice
for some
children, while a school that allows extra freedom and places more responsibility
for learning on the
child may work well
for other
children.
Schools where ALL
children successfully learn share certain key characteristics that have come to be known as the Correlates of Effective Schools: a
Clear & Focused Mission, a Safe & Orderly Environment, High
Expectations for Success, Opportunity to Learn / Time on Task, Positive Home - School Relations, Frequent Monitoring of Student Progress, and Strong Instructional Leadership.
But other reformers have sat on the sidelines, cowardly silent about the problems of the waiver gambit, inexcusably failing to remember that education policymaking is about
clear communication in action of the
expectations we have
for our society to ensure that every
child is provided high - quality education.
Even if you consider the growth, the mere fact that only 57 percent of black students are expected to achieve proficiency is one
clear example of the low
expectations Virginia's state education and general political leaders have
for some
children.
As I have argued back in July, the levels of proficiency set by states, like other aspects of public policy, are
clear communications in action of the
expectations we have
for our society, especially when it comes to ensuring that every
child gets a high - quality education.
; 5 items from the National Longitudinal Survey of
Children and Youth19 addressed the frequency with which they set and enforced clear expectations and limits for their children's behavior (control, eg, «When you discipline this child, how often does he / she ignore the punishment
Children and Youth19 addressed the frequency with which they set and enforced
clear expectations and limits
for their
children's behavior (control, eg, «When you discipline this child, how often does he / she ignore the punishment
children's behavior (control, eg, «When you discipline this
child, how often does he / she ignore the punishment?»
Children with ADHD often benefit from adapting instructions for different areas of difficulty in education settings and can benefit from setting clear expectations and routines and having prolonged discipline strategies to help develop children's self - management ab
Children with ADHD often benefit from adapting instructions
for different areas of difficulty in education settings and can benefit from setting
clear expectations and routines and having prolonged discipline strategies to help develop
children's self - management ab
children's self - management abilities.
For example, a specific activity such as a trip to the movies with a friend may be more successful for your child than a sleep - over where plans and expectations are not as cle
For example, a specific activity such as a trip to the movies with a friend may be more successful
for your child than a sleep - over where plans and expectations are not as cle
for your
child than a sleep - over where plans and
expectations are not as
clear.
Democratic parenting style involves setting up
clear rules and
expectations for children, and having open discussions.
Positive parenting strategies aim to build a
child's self - esteem and improve behavior by using detailed instructions,
clear expectations, positive recognition, and rewards
for accomplishments.
It recognizes that
children need help, boundaries and
clear expectations to know how and when to take responsibility
for their actions.
Instead, psychologists recommend an authoritative parenting style — neither permissive nor dominating — that sets
clear expectations; helps
children meet those
expectations; allows consequences
for violations of limits; uses age - appropriate, democratic decision - making; and is warm, loving, and pleasurable.
Authoritative parenting is where the parent sets
clear guidelines, rules and
expectations for the
child to follow.
Similarly at home, it's the routine and ritual of morning time and brief but important connections made that can pave the way
for children and adults to have
clear expectations about the day and carry out the responsibilities of the morning smoothly without nagging and hassle.
> Learn how to define
clear and appropriate
expectations for your
child, based on their developmental age, and their specific and individual needs.
Our free kids reward charts and behavior charts are great
for setting
clear expectations with
children and they help to motivate kids to improve their behaviors through positive incentives and rewards.