I thought something similar when I read,
in Claire Dederer's recent novel Poser, her description of a north Seattle mom for whom «breast - feeding was simply the first
item in a long, abstruse to - do list: Cook organic baby food, buy expensive wooden toys, create an enriching home environment, sleep with your child
in your bed, ensure that your
house was toxin free, use
cloth diapers, carry your child
in a sling, dress your child
in organic fibers.»