Codependent is a word used to describe a relationship where one person excessively relies on the other, and both people become emotionally dependent on each other.
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People
in codependent relationships often tell small lies to one another to keep each other happy.
The best way to break free
of codependent behavior is to have a support system outside of your relationship, whether that's friends, family or a counselor.
Maybe before, even though we were very happy, we were kind of
codependent on one another and lacked a healthy autonomy.
Instead, he went so far as to label her
as codependent even though her postings showed that she obviously wasn't.
Melodie Beattie, author of
Codependent No More, has spoken at the church, as has Karen Casey, author of Each Day a New Beginning.
Adversely, your child may
become codependent on someone who is unhealthy for them, such as a «parent - child relationship» or someone else who is uninvolved in their life.
Secure: People with a secure attachment style are not afraid of intimacy and are also
not codependent.
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Codependent partners suffer from low self - esteem, causing them to be more focused on filling their partner's needs than knowing and satisfying their own, according to Guenther.
I think our religions and cultures, our beliefs and our character, are so interwoven,
so codependent, so symbiotic, that it's no longer helpful to distinguish them.
The most notable lesbian feature films in the programming were Jamie and Jessie are Not Together (d. Wendy Jo Carlton), or as I preferred to call it «Jessie can do better», Hannah and the Hasbian (d. Gordon Napier) and
Codependent Lesbian Space Alien Seeks Same (d. Madeleine Olnek).
It has had no ontological identity; it is
codependent upon a Church that it has left and has erroneously called itself a church.
Even when I could barely tell what was going on on the crowded battlefield and my troops were a little
too codependent, I enjoyed directing the action and jumping in to be part of the carnage.
The frenetic verbal humor bouncing off all of the self - reflection over who the characters are hurting with their various
codependent shenanigans produces something like a millennial echo chamber, complete with Jurassic Park and Ninja Turtles references.
One thing I have learned as well is that growing up in an alcoholic - addicted and
codependent family from many generations - I personally NEED more of the emotion based stuff - not a lot, but some.
the most disturbing thing to me is the light hearted tone of the film as it unravels the tale of two so obviously sick and desperately
codependent individuals.
There's consensus that a person is more likely to
exhibit codependent behaviors if their familial background was dysfunctional.
I am not sure it is about being strong —
many codependents are very strong for a very long time, coping with an addict and covering up for them and managing them and all the emotional stuff that goes with it, alongside doing jobs and looking after kids as effectively a single parent.
There is a significant benefit from real care taking,
whereas codependent care taking is dysfunctional.
On Sunday, the Sun clashes with self - sacrificing Neptune warning us to create clear agreements — and
avoid codependent overgiving — before we proceed.
The Human Magnet Syndrome accounts for one of the most common couplings we see — the pairing of caretaking, empathetic, and
altruistic codependents with selfish, arrogant, controlling, and harmful narcissists.
If the cycle continues and is passed down as codependency patterns within the family system, the children may be likely to enter
into codependent relationships and pass codependency patterns down to their children as well.
We have argued for years that these two tracks are interdependent —
even codependent.
Once the sexual abuse survivor has children of her own, she in turn
models codependent behavior to her children.
«If you are
feeling codependent or think that you may have an anxious attachment style, then you may have some trouble getting in touch with what you are feeling, because you may be overly wrapped up and concerned with how your partner is feeling,» writes therapist Jeff Guenther on his website.
Exploration, understanding and acceptance of these past events can promote and reinforce mindfulness and one's sense of wellbeing, while decreasing negative patterns of
codependent thoughts and behaviors.
Here's another observation: to add to the complexity of the problem, it is
often codependent.
We are
also codependent on many of these species for cleaning our air and water, for nurturing the foods we consume, and other beneficial
Instead, sororities throw a number of joint parties, or «mixers,» with fraternities throughout the year, which make the two
organizations codependent.
The novelty of the entity, its temporality and change from one moment to the next, are
codependent phenomena.
I was appalled by this and felt she was a horrible parent... selfish in the extreme, and probably doing irreparable harm to her child by causing her to be
unhealthily codependent.
Sure, it had been a complicated few weeks as Governor Andrew Cuomo and the Working Families Party,
bitter codependents, tried to agree on a deal that would give Cuomo the WFP's ballot line this fall in exchange for the governor's publicly pledging to get behind a progressive policy agenda.
«Inner bonding has helped us to love and care for ourselves, so that we share our lives and love from a full and connected place
without codependent expectations.
Thanks to my therapist, I've discovered that while I'm not a full -
blown codependent, I do have some characteristics that I am addressing.
Krista lives in the middle of nowhere with her amazing hubby and two
codependent dogs that love to hate each other.
Know that feeling this way after being recently divorced is not only completely normal, it's one of the inevitable side - effects of being in a
mainly codependent relationship.
There's evidence to suggest that people who grow up in unstable families where issues like addiction, abuse, traumatic experiences, and neglect are more likely to
develop codependent characteristics.
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