One thing I have learned as well is that growing up in an alcoholic - addicted and
codependent family from many generations - I personally NEED more of the emotion based stuff - not a lot, but some.
Not exact matches
Sure, it had been a complicated few weeks as Governor Andrew Cuomo and the Working
Families Party, bitter
codependents, tried to agree on a deal that would give Cuomo the WFP's ballot line this fall in exchange for the governor's publicly pledging to get behind a progressive policy agenda.
There's evidence to suggest that people who grow up in unstable
families where issues like addiction, abuse, traumatic experiences, and neglect are more likely to develop
codependent characteristics.
The best way to break free of
codependent behavior is to have a support system outside of your relationship, whether that's friends,
family or a counselor.
My specialities include: Individual,
Family, and Group Counseling, Positive Discipline for the Spirited Child, Conflict Mediation Skills, Raising Self - Esteem in School Age Children, Reducing Anxiety in School Aged Children, Divorce and Separation Counseling,
Codependent Behaviors, and School Problems.
Mollie has experience with individual adults and couples concerning the following areas: Understanding the opposite sex, Feeling overwhelmed, Self Worth, Anxiety, Trauma: Adult & / or Childhood (Inner Child work), Anger issues, Long Term Illness: patient & / or caretaker hurdles and hurts, Recovery from addiction: follow - on guidance,
Codependent relationships, Wellness challenges, Purpose of Life and
Family issues.
Usually the result of being brought up in a dysfunctional
family creates
codependent patterns which sabotage your happiness.
I also work with
family members, resentment and
codependent traits, to assist the change process and healing in clients»
family dynamics as well.
As a recovering
codependent, relationship expert & marriage and
family therapist I want to help others recover from codependency as well.
If the cycle continues and is passed down as codependency patterns within the
family system, the children may be likely to enter into
codependent relationships and pass codependency patterns down to their children as well.
Melody Beattie, author of
Codependent No More puts it like this: «As we develop healthy boundaries, we develop an appropriate sense of roles among
family members, others, and ourselves.
Parents need to be aware of
codependent patterns within the
family system so that they can recognize when it's necessary to break the cycle.
What destroys marriages on the non addict spouse's side is the unwillingness or inability to come to terms with how distorted he or she has become in the presence of the addiction, for example, by enabling the addiction, being
codependent, and creating coalitions with other
family members.
Jim Seibold, PhD, a licensed marriage and
family therapist, concurs: «[Marriage] is meant to be interdependent, not
codependent.
Family therapy focuses upon helping families communicate more clearly, become interdependent (but not codependent), and increase harmony within the family
Family therapy focuses upon helping
families communicate more clearly, become interdependent (but not
codependent), and increase harmony within the
familyfamily unit.