Since the early 1990s, the majority of couples choose to live together before marriage, but fewer
cohabiting couples now end up marrying and more of them separate without ever getting married [14].
More often these are
cohabiting couples now, however, which reflects that they are the fastest growing family type and the fall in divorce numbers.
Not exact matches
In fact, same - sex marriage advocates can
now take the rhetorical high ground: «At a time when heterosexual
couples are merely
cohabiting, at least we believe in marriage as an institution.»
(One could
now add, for example, the data indicating the greater incidence of violence among
cohabiting, as compared to married,
couples.)
While a few of my middle - aged divorced friends are
now in
cohabiting relationships, I don't know many long - term
couples who never married — just three, and of them only two have raised their children without «a piece of paper» or a ring on a finger.
Because of these increases in cohabitation, about 40 % of American children will spend some time in a
cohabiting union; 20 % of babies are
now born to
cohabiting couples.
And
now, 18 scholars, including W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project and Dr. John Gottman of the Gottman Institute, are warning
cohabiting couples of the negative impact kids face in these living arrangements.