promote a more realistic view of healthy
companionship marriage, both its beauty and its challenges;
The companionship marriage depends for its effectiveness on the growth process, in order to bring about changes that are essential if the couples are to adapt flexibly to each other in a shared life... Only by working patiently and persistently on the task of smoothing out the rough areas of their relationship can they reach the level of interaction that they desire... Unless the couples have made a clear commitment to each other that they intend to work for ongoing growth in their relationship, the strong likelihood is that they will do nothing about it, or that they will make a few half - hearted efforts and then give up (Mace, Close Companions, 1982).
She discusses several different types of marriages based on goals: starter marriage, parenting marriage, security marriage,
companionship marriage, etc..
This is what Susan Pease Gadoua and I call
a Companionship Marriage in our book, The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels.
Want to learn more about
companionship marriage?
Some men in minority cultures are finding, as they move into the middle - class world through job or profession, that friendship between women and men is possible and that
a companionship marriage can be more satisfying than the one they have grown up with and married into.
Dating serves a particularly important preparatory function with reference to the modern mode of
companionship marriages.
If it were acceptable for people to wed for a variety of reasons, perhaps we would see contracts of 20 years for a parenting marriage, * five - year renewable contracts for a financial security marriage, and two - year renewable agreements for
companionship marriages.
Not exact matches
Ephesians 5:21 - 33's teaching on
marriage is about changing that view of
marriage to one of unity and love — the kind of love that could transform the authority - subordinate nature of first - century Ephesian
marriages, into what God desires for
marriage in the New Covenant: oneness,
companionship and mutuality.
It is commonly argued that
marriage is no longer principally about the procreation and the rearing of children but that it centers instead on the
companionship of the couple and the building of a household.
After all, redefining
marriage to make it simply about emotional
companionship sends the signal that moms and dads are interchangeable.
So also the Christian faith should lead to understanding for those to whom life brings unwanted and difficult circumstances, such as those who want the
companionship of
marriage and are denied it, those for whom physical or psychological illness makes sexual experience impossible, those who have had tragic and wounding experiences and must find their way through them.
Furthermore, parents who enjoy their children, feel the fulfillment of participating in their growth, and share in the «one - flesh» unity of this ongoing experience have much going for the sexual and
companionship sides of their
marriage.
Sex without
companionship in
marriage is better than no sex at all; but its pleasure falls far short of sex within a relationship of loving and trusting.
For Christians,
marriage is about more than just
companionship.
All the studies of middle - class
marriages show that
companionship, the hallmark of the egalitarian
marriage, is one of the most important ingredients for a successful
marriage, especially for the wife, no matter what criterion or index is used to measure success.
These changes threatened me for a time but proved to be the beginning of a new phase in our
marriage with more equality, sharing, and
companionship.
The
marriage concept was created by a demon to control, while
companionship is created by synchronicity to expand.
For those couples who have the mutual caring, imagination and guts to struggle through to new ways of relating, a more satisfying
companionship -
marriage can result.
The contemporary
companionship model of
marriage — a relationship of genuine intimacy that is possible only between true equals — frees both partners to enjoy the co-nurturing of the new life they have created together.
So we can determine from that
marriage is about
companionship first and foremost — or as Adam's request goes — «I need a mate».
Love,
companionship, etc. is great, but it's not a reason for a tax break and all the other benefits you get from real
marriage.
The Fact is that
Marriage is not only for the purpose of S E X
Companionship, Convenience, more S E X but also for the greater purposes of Pro-creation and Re-production.
In our
marriage these mid-years have brought the most satisfying
companionship and the most stormy changes.
The purposes and goals of
marriage [between a man and a woman], is not just merely for Love,
companionship, S E X, and more S E X and LOVE.
Is there any a priori reason to suppose that among people who view
marriage as essentially sexual - romantic
companionship or domestic partnership and who construct their lives and relationships in line with that view, polyamorous partnerships will be more unstable than monogamous ones?
In others,
marriage is a provision for
companionship (Genesis 2) or the structure for relationships characterized by order and love (Ephesians 5:21 f.; Titus 2:4; 1 Peter 3:1 f.).
If God told me that my gay relationship was a sin I would certainly obey Him, but I am not going to get married, because I wouldn't put a woman through a
marriage and have sex with someone I am not attracted to for the sake of having kids to continue the species and having
companionship when I am old.
Sometimes these friendship lead to affairs, but even when they do not, the person is receiving
companionship and love from someone besides their spouse, and this tends to only drive deeper wedges into an already struggling
marriage.
Personally, I hope he did get to experience the love and
companionship that comes with
marriage.
Idealize
marriage, and the real complications of love and sex and
companionship and family will bite back.»
A major cause of disappointment and bitterness, and therefore of sexual unresponsiveness among mid-years women, is the lack of
companionship and sharing in their
marriages.
You don't think love is a good basis for
marriage, but I'm guessing that your current relationship is about love and
companionship.
I want
companionship more than sex (nothing a man can do that I can't do myself) or
marriage definitely.
Not
marriage or someone to live with necessarily, because I'm not sure I want that, just
companionship... oh, OK, and passion and sex.
An emotional affair is when a person not only invests more of their emotional energy outside their
marriage, but also receives emotional support and
companionship from the new relationship.
And while she writes that, it's revolutionary to be «fighting for
marriage to be about love and
companionship — and not about a strictly gendered economic or social power construct,» she misses the point that same - sex couples already had love and
companionship — what they wanted, and needed, were the legal and financial perks and protections
marriage grants them.
It may be a way for people who are friends and seek
companionship with shared interests, with sex or not, to be privy to the legal perks and protections of a
marriage license.
Since few believe that's problematic, and since people name
companionship as the No. 3 reason to marry, why is it «wrong» if a
marriage starts off that way?
«Social support provided by
marriage, and perhaps many other benefits of
companionship, are important for people with heart disease.»
Going into it, define what's important to you in a partner — maybe it's
companionship, long - term commitment or
marriage.
Christianity regards
marriage as a covenant ordained by God, with Islam revering
marriage as a central institute for
companionship and morality.
Our members are commitment - focused, dating with long - term love,
companionship and even
marriage in mind.
Skout was founded in 2007 by a team that wanted to «take online social interaction further than anyone had thought possible in the past,» whether someone was looking for friendship, dating, relationships,
marriage, or any other type of
companionship.
Studies have shown that
companionship is more important than love and
marriage, and having someone to share your life with is more than just a nice thing to have — it is essential to health and emotional well - being.
«There is much to learn from analyzing why you married each other and what led to experiencing a loss of trust,
companionship, and love (assuming the
marriage had that foundation to begin with).»
There are millions of senior people online now and many are finding everlasting love,
companionship and even
marriage.
With the development of BBW dating, people who are big, fat, thick, obese, chubby and plus sized have much more opportunities to find love, romance,
companionship, long term relationship even
marriage online.
People who are a part of such
marriages always find themselves in need of
companionship and love.
A minority of seniors may be looking for
marriage, but for the most part, seniors are just looking for meaningful
companionship (aren't we all!).