Not exact matches
But
over the past half - century, researchers have developed a tool kit for estimating the toll, including
household surveys, tallies of media reports of violence, and comparisons of census data before and after
conflicts.
When parental leave is offered exclusively to fathers, research by Andreas Kotsadam and Henning Finseraas in Norway shows that
over the long term, couples share domestic tasks more equally and have 11 % fewer
conflicts over the division of
household labour.
If you have a multiple - cat
household, and you think competition
over resources may be a source of
conflict, try creating an «atmosphere of plenty.»
Since Dr. Gottman, author of The Relationship Cure, started his Love Lab, more than 100 couples have agreed to talk about their subjects of chronic
conflict — the distribution of
household tasks, decisions about the children, the management of family finances, relations with in - laws, disagreements
over smoking and drinking, and so on.
Joint custody * increases *, not decreases, covert resentment and
conflict, because it permits the parent who is not spending the day - to - day time raising the children and operating the
household to exercise veto power
over decisions made by the other, and if so inclined, to meddle and interfere, creating stalemate between the two parents, followed by power plays attempting to break it.
It causes more fights than sex or
household chores, and
conflict over money predicts divorce better than other topics of dispute.
The psychological well being of adults in the
household is affected by economic hardship, 25 as is the marital relationship.26 Disagreement and
conflict over the use of the limited money available, 27 and loss of warmth and affection and mutual parental respect, 28 have been shown to be associated with economic hardship.
Raising awareness nonjudgmentally about your irritations
over your spouse's spending habits, awareness of your spouse's need for more support with
household chores, your perceptions of the expectation of your mother - in - law about holiday traditions, and
conflicting ideas about ideal parenting practices allow you to be a dispassionate observer of your inner and outer circumstances.