Not exact matches
While
shame, as a normal emotion, is
felt from time to time by everyone — being the result
of conflicting interactions within a social group — it generally doesn't have long - lasting effects on a child's self - worth as long as the child is able to lean on a supportive, unconditionally loving parent to help him process his
feelings.
It is a huge responsibility that can bring up
feelings of fear, doubt,
shame, worry, stress, and increased marital
conflict.
Although many children benefit from the use
of group time to address
conflict and this approach can promote inclusion, as opposed to exclusion (e.g., time out), as a response to challenging behavior, it is important to develop methods and awareness so children do not
feel shamed during the process but rather part
of a trusting community
of problem solvers.
We may criticize, withdraw,
shame, explode, intimidate, shut down or submit as we try to deal with our hurt
feelings and disappointment during times
of conflict.