At times you may have
conflicting feelings as well: when tensions arise and incomprehension is at its highest, you want out, then perhaps things calm down and you find yourself thinking that «it's not so bad».
No matter who made the decision to end the relationship, it is normal to experience
some conflicting feelings as you deal with being at a new place in your life; a place where you didn't necessarily expect to be.
Not exact matches
I think a lot of people in the tech world
feel conflicted as they begin to see friends and colleagues in a different light.
Parents are,
as usual, left
feeling guilty and confused by the
conflict between what's recommended and what
feels possible.
«It
feels like there is a
conflict of knowing that
as entrepreneurial ventures grow and succeed, jobs are created, which in turn stimulates the economy.
As a younger manager, she may
feel anxious or
conflicted about providing you with honest feedback.
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As I'm writing this, I can see all the religious people saying all atheists should be fired because they bring the devil into the place of work... so I
feel the need to provide the caveat:
conflict with their objectives in a way that is sanely and reasonably shown.
His self - image will be colored by his unresolved
conflicts and fantasies about his body,
as well
as his perception of how you really
feel about him.
As someone who often wishes I could create a safe,
conflict - free bubble to exist in, I wonder how we're supposed to navigate the tense and awkward moments with others, particularly during a season when it
feels most difficult to avoid them.
There is a real difference between theology - in - the - books and theology - in - the - life, but I wouldn't want to describe that
as a
conflict — to do so is to set up an opposition between what the Spirit said about God (which is, after all, recorded in a book) and how God actually
feels.
Successful couples reported identical
feelings and / or described their partner's
feelings accurately approximately twelve times
as often
as did seriously
conflicted couples.
Conflicted feelings from this source may make the wife ambivalent about her new status
as mother.
You say our values are in
conflict and yet I believe murder to be wrong and bad for human society
as is any violence against other humans and I would bet you likely
feel the same way.
In the same and in other schools uncertainty about the meaning of the ministry comes to appearance also in the
feeling of
conflict in a faculty between its loyalty to a traditional idea, such
as that of the preacher, and its sense of obligation to denominational officials, alumni and churchmen in general who urge a more «practical» education.
All these
conflicts make themselves
felt as anxiety.
Did the bad blood between Judeans and Galileans have roots in the ancient
conflict between Judah, that bastion of orthodoxy, and Israel, whose distance from the Temple was
felt to be religious
as well
as social and geographic?
Perhaps in this process we have some hint
as to the way in which the mind of ancient man, less adept in handling abstract concepts, was led to express the
conflicts he
felt among the unseen forces about him in the form of stories of the gods and spirits.
In this case, the wife discovered through marriage counseling that her inner
conflicts about herself
as a woman with sexual needs and
feelings were expressing themselves nonverbally.
Women who advocated nonviolence
as the superior social ethic for dealing with
conflict felt the need to defend themselves against the charge of antifeminism by the militants.
A torrent of painful,
conflicted feelings flowed;
as these were experienced and talked through, there seemed to be a release of tension in his struggle for inner liberation.
At the same time, h0m0 who are bothered by or in
conflict with their
feelings but who are either uninterested in changing, or unable to change, their orientation can be helped to accept themselves
as they are and to rid themselves of self - hatred.
We bring the gay demons out of these individuals so they can become who god intended them to be... Facing the reality that you have unwanted homosexual
feelings can cause tremendous turmoil — especially
as a child whose
feelings conflict with deeply held values, beliefs and life goals.
The powerful
feelings of
conflict, loneliness, guilt, hope, passion, rage that came out «in living color,»
as one youth commented, opened the doors to honest, open sharing.
«I can still
feel our anxiety
as we were taught
conflicting beliefs which we could not live and yet which we dared not admit, even to ourselves, that we did not live.
The initial paradox of this paper concerned an apparent
conflict between the directness of works of art in expressing
feelings and their indirectness
as vehicles of truth.
For the «internal diversity» which Bradley could only place in
feeling as one
conflicting metaphor among others (cf. ETR 196), becomes in Whitehead the actual entities of which
feeling is the «intermediary» (PR 88); so conceived, Bradley's «togetherness is appropriated within a pluralist framework.
I have lots of
conflicting feelings; it is a wonderful way to end my career,
as good
as it gets.»
As with the ads I accept on my blog, I need to
feel like I can honestly endorse the company without any
conflicts of interest.
My best advice on the
conflict that arises between new dads and moms, whether together or not, is that she will be driven by her
feelings at the time, and being removed from much of the stress she will be experiencing (up every 2 hours; perhaps on her own), your best move is to be
as patient and helpful
as possible, with a focus on building a workable relationship for the long term.
As I watched I couldn't help
feeling conflicted.
That can lead to jealousy and competition with their child's caregivers, which can cause negative consequences, she notes, such
as creating «distance between caregiver and parent or inadvertently place the child in a loyalty
conflict where she
feels she is betraying her parent when she cares for another adult.»
You can also help him understand that it's okay to have
conflicting emotions, such
as when he
feels both nervous and excited about his new tumbling class.
Practicing negotiating
conflict helps children develop an internal compass, so that they can
feel from inside what respectful power - sharing is,
as opposed to an abuse of power.
I also
feel that «
conflict of interest;» I would have been willing to do anything for that magical perfect exclusive breastfeeding relationship, including go without sleep or adequate nutrition and turn into a raging hell - beast
as a result, but it was such a relief to get five, then six, etc., now nine hours of sleep at a time at night, probably due to the formula part of the combo feeding, that I don't know now whether I would change that if I could.
When you're
feeling a work - family
conflict, it's easy to idealize the life you would have
as a stay - at - home mom.
- Cope with your child's negative
feelings, such
as frustration, anger, and disappointment - Express your strong
feelings without being hurtful - Engage your child's willing cooperation - Set firm limits and maintain goodwill - Use alternatives to punishment that promote self - discipline - Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise - Resolve family
conflicts peacefully
The overwhelming focus on negative aspects of life and
conflict in the news colors our perception
as well and can either numb or desensitize us or increase our general anxiety load, or leave us
feeling helpless over events outside our control.
Whenever I hear about schools using BMI
as a measurement of their success in providing greater nutrition, I
feel very
conflicted.
In her book The Bonds of Love, Jessica Benjamin talks about the struggle the mother has while dealing with the constant willfulness, the clinging, or the tyrannical demands typical of the rapprochement: «What the mother
feels during rapprochement and how she works this out will be colored by her ability to deal straightforwardly with aggression and dependence, her sense of herself
as entitled to a separate existence, and her confidence in her child's ability to survive
conflict, loss, and imperfection.»
yet you on a high horse tear into her not just about her ideas or thoughts because the
conflict with your
feelings but
as a person which is a very low spot to be... I tried to dig deeper and talk but the biggest concern or problem isnt about the stance itself people take it so personally from guilt or whatever it is that they stoop down and attack her for where she sits if it was planned or not what she is wearing... is that really the problem?
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Even though I had to tell my body NOT to push, my body surrendered to the urge and I
felt like a bucking bronco
as my brain and body
conflicted with this.
Polls suggest that men
feel as great a
conflict between work and family
as women do (and in some polls, a greater
conflict).
Nobody told me that those other sexual acts could be just
as weighty
as «The Real Thing,» that these alternative types of intimate contact were likely to produce just
as many
conflicted and pleasurable
feelings.
Either your husband just hasn't figured out that he's the dad yet (which I can understand, since while 12 weeks is an eternity in some ways, it's a blink of the eye in others), or he's
feeling conflicted or stressed and is showing that externally
as indifference.
Later, there will be many misunderstandings, or lost opportunities for being in sync with each other — for
feeling understood —
as there are
conflicts between the interests and imperatives of children and parents.
One commentator has suggested that, psychologically, the children deprived of contact with one parent may suffer
feelings of loss akin to mourning
as well
as uncertain or
conflicting attitudes about men, who most often are the noncustodial parent.
The way to know if you are truly acting
as your child's emotional partner, and in alignment with your authentic parenting style is to check in and see how you
feel after resolving a
conflict with your child.
If you are adjusting to a new identity
as a mother, you may
feel conflicted in your relationship with your friends
as you are not quite sure of yourself and how these relationships will evolve.