Whether the person comes under pressure or threat, on the one hand, or merely fighting his inner resistances to admitting he needs help, on the other, the counselor should assist him in getting his negative or
conflicting feelings out into the open.
Not exact matches
It's hard to
feel like you are wanted when you are relegated to the outside due to
conflicting viewpoints and a church
out of touch with its patrons.
A Christian observing the
conflict over the canon might be excused for
feeling like a child watching his brothers fight it
out over his toy «Canon,» after all, like so many of our political and cultural concepts, was stolen from the Church, or more charitably, it was borrowed and never returned.
Suppose that we have been understanding; that, without probing or pressing, we have grasped the subtle and specific nature of the interior and
conflicted viewpoint of the person, and have begun to help him sort
out and clarify all these inner
feelings.
If this article has struck a nerve then see if the integral understanding brings clarity to the
conflict that does not make a polarity
out of old / new, spirituality and religion, self and society, belief and faith, practice and self
feeling.
and similar attempts among the Jewish and Islamic communities and world bodies, have, through their interfaith work, created a new ethos for addressing issues when religious
feelings are brought
out in
conflicting situations.
For example, the functional paralysis of a middle - aged man's arm expressed the immobilizing
conflict between the unconscious desire and the fear of striking
out in rage at a person on whom he
felt passively de-pendent.
Using
conflict effectively, on the other hand, is a way of bringing deeper issues and
feelings out into the open so that the
conflict has a chance of being resolved to everyone's satisfaction.
We bring the gay demons
out of these individuals so they can become who god intended them to be... Facing the reality that you have unwanted homosexual
feelings can cause tremendous turmoil — especially as a child whose
feelings conflict with deeply held values, beliefs and life goals.
The powerful
feelings of
conflict, loneliness, guilt, hope, passion, rage that came
out «in living color,» as one youth commented, opened the doors to honest, open sharing.
But the message behind this presentation of
conflicting views is that we have to experiment, try things
out and see what makes us
feel our absolute best.
In her book The Bonds of Love, Jessica Benjamin talks about the struggle the mother has while dealing with the constant willfulness, the clinging, or the tyrannical demands typical of the rapprochement: «What the mother
feels during rapprochement and how she works this
out will be colored by her ability to deal straightforwardly with aggression and dependence, her sense of herself as entitled to a separate existence, and her confidence in her child's ability to survive
conflict, loss, and imperfection.»
In fact, Turgeon argues that it's better to work
out your difficult
feelings in front of your children than avoiding
conflict altogether.
Either your husband just hasn't figured
out that he's the dad yet (which I can understand, since while 12 weeks is an eternity in some ways, it's a blink of the eye in others), or he's
feeling conflicted or stressed and is showing that externally as indifference.
Our online courses are perfect for families who
feel overwhelmed by all of the
conflicting information that's
out there about baby sleep and want someone to break it all down for them.
If you
feel out of sync with your spouse on a daily or weekly basis, that
conflict is keeping your family from being as truly nurturing and constructive as it can be — and even those petty irritations with your spouse are probably sucking the joy
out of day - to - day family life.
I mention these organizations not as an endorsement of their views but merely to point
out why a well - meaning parent could easily
feel conflicted about flavored milk, getting one message from Jamie Oliver and another, diametrically opposed view from a trusted pediatrician or pediatric dietician.
Also, acting
out may be his way of dealing with
conflicting feelings he doesn't fully understand.
The baby kicks all the time and I just
feel like he is healthy and taking his time, but I
feel so much external pressure to induce or to get the baby
out of there in a timely manner (not the least of which is that my in - laws have booked a cross-country flight for next week to meet their new grandbaby), and I
feel so
conflicted — I don't know what to do!
Don't
feel you have to supervise them constantly; your child needs to develop and practice skills in communicating, negotiating and dealing with
conflict with their peers and you just need to be ready to step in if things get
out of hand.
For example, your child might say to a sibling, «When you call me names I
feel angry,» instead of merely yelling or striking
out during a
conflict.
«Bring me back next week and I'll tell you about that... I do
feel the slightest bit of movement that some of the people of goodwill — all of the people who are putting this together — are starting to see that how can their mission ever be realized if it's born
out of
conflict?»
When asked to describe a situation when you had a
conflict with another lab member, for example, don't simply lay
out the facts of the time that you had a disagreement about author status; tell the interviewers how you
felt while you were in that situation.
Conflicting goals increase our stress levels, and, in turn, stress makes us
feel that we are running
out of time.
In contrast, other said they had received little or no training, were provided with
conflicting or insufficient information to make decisions, and
felt the need to make their own plans for getting
out of the building — including negotiating stairs by walking slowly with crutches or assistance, crawling, sliding or seated in a manual wheelchair.
The main benefit of getting closure is that it helps you work
out powerful or
conflicting feelings that might be putting your life in stall.
They blame themselves rather than blacks for the ceaseless black - white evolutionary
conflict that white earthlings self - deprecatingly refer to If theres not racist
feelings then why would whites move
out when blacks move in?
For Mana, showing up for practice and competing in the meet are acts of open defiance, and Ariki isn't the kind of character you want to make angry, which pulls the openly
conflicted Gen into the center of a potentially violent situation — one that
feels like something
out of a Paul Schrader movie (say, Travis Bickle's foolhardy attempt to liberate Iris at the end of «Taxi Driver») rather than the sort of climax audiences might anticipate from this otherwise Disney - appropriate inspirational drama.
The trio of enemies also provides a great deal of opportunities for
conflict, making this Spidey
outing feel more violent.
Even if the level of other characters» own development decreases as they move down the food chain of plot importance (Some speak of their lack of
feelings of worth and act upon them, others give themselves neat nicknames and show off their abilities, and one seemingly appears only as fodder for the villain (After the pronouncement that said character is dead, we half expect the follow - up to be «And we have killed him»)-RRB-, there is at least this
conflict of ideas between its central characters playing
out as though it, instead of nifty superhuman talents, is what matters the most.
While many love stories never delve much deeper than the initial attraction and union of two people who must overcome obstacles to finally come to equal terms, The Painted Veil differs by starting
out with an uneasy union, with characters that have many
conflicting feelings for one another at varying times, never quite able to come to a mutual understanding of what they mean to each other.
Once there, Kitty engages in an affair with another married British diplomat named Charlie Townsend (Schreiber, The Manchurian Candidate), and does
feel actual love for the man, but is faced with
conflict when Walter finds
out about the affair.
I'm not somebody who
feels there is any subject too raw, sensitive, or serious for popular entertainment (I can honestly say that I
feel A Nightmare on Elm Street 5: The Dream Child largely informed my attitude towards abortion), and Earthquake effectively places the Katrina
conflict in an artistic context, stressing, in its underhanded way, the power of community in bringing the best
out of people following a catastrophe.
Come to find
out, producer and star Ryan Reynolds
felt equally as
conflicted at first, thinking that the scene was «cheating» the rest of the movie.
An
out - of - the - ordinary zombie (named R)
feels the need to protect a human named Julie, and as they develop their relationship changes occur within R as well as the zombie population causing
conflict and fighting between the two groups.
While the clubhouse storyline has a naturally - occurring and persuasive
conflict, the corresponding tension in Umi and Shun's relationship doesn't bear
out as convincingly, and Umi's frustration and sadness can
feel slightly over-wrought.
Yet, thanks to the restrained performance from lead actor Lior Ashkenazi, who lets discomfort crackle across his stoic features like breaking glass, we can
feel the endless
conflict playing
out within his soul, and across the rest of this desolate landscape.
But if the story of furious, vengeful Mildred (Frances McDormand) and her racist cop nemesis Dixon (Sam Rockwell) has a certain resonance, it also
feels out of any particular time, in the sense that anger, racism, and man's inhumanity to (wo) man are not brand - new
conflicts in 2017.
However, those are just the extra bells and whistles of what turns
out to be a surprisingly interesting romance, with a strong lead performance by Lathan as a woman
conflicted between her heart and the guilt she
feels in a relationship that many still consider to be taboo.
Ken's
conflicted feelings towards his profession of choice, and Ray's despair at what he's done both slowly seep
out during their conversations.
Complaints from three vendors who
felt unfairly shut
out of the program led to an investigation and a series of reports by the Department of Education's Office of the Inspector General citing supposed lapses by Reading First staff and potential
conflicts of interest among contractors and panelists reviewing programs.
Help them learn to resolve
conflicts without acting aggressively by teaching them the basics of talking things
out: staying calm; allowing each person to have his or her say without being interrupted, blamed or put - down; using «I messages» to convey
feelings; and considering another's point of view.
Many times we find
out they lack
conflict resolution skills, or need more large muscle activity or have something trigger their
feelings that flood them so they have difficulty processing information or following directions.
So instead of questioning the choices of your students in moments where your classroom
feels like it is
out of control or where
conflict has occurred between kids, start questioning your own choices.
That tremor you
felt in the force last week as millions of people suddenly cried
out and then were silenced wasn't the result of some interplanetary
conflict.
The pages of Bijou Roy chronicle Bijou's predicament:
Conflicted by her parents» deeply
felt Indian principles and those of her own modern American lifestyle, Bijou struggles to carve
out an identity.
If you
feel this is a
conflict of interest and may make it difficult to trust and work with the counselor, you may want to seek
out a firm that doesn't compensate their employees in this manner.
There is so much
conflicting and false information
out there on this subject that I
feel needs clarified.
Conflict happens when cats
feel back in a corner with no way
out.
This may sound a tad unfair, as the core game and its missions are indeed excellent and the broader scope of the level map makes the
conflict feel more fleshed
out (as enemies can move between maps too, so defending a fleet of ships three maps away becomes as much of a skill based issues as well as a deeply tactical one).