In order for the child to move into mutual recognition (simultaneously recognizing themselves and others) the primary caregivers must assert their
own conflicting needs.
Once you have recognized that a break
from conflict needs to happen, what you do with it will determine whether the time apart will be beneficial or detrimental.
This leads to problems as soon as they encounter another child with their
own conflicting needs — for example, both of them want the same toy.
Also, accepting what one can't change in the area of
conflicting needs in a marriage is easier if the satisfaction quotient is already rising.
When persons are feeling hungry emotionally, perhaps unloved or unappreciated, it's almost impossible to
resolve conflicting needs.
Families with high
conflict need mediation even more to avoid the high costs of litigation and the deepening conflicts that result from the adversity inherent in court litigated «divorce solutions».
As a child nears the age of two, he or she experiences considerable stress
involving conflicting needs around dependence and independence.
Bill White, whom we met in Chapter I, illustrates the way in which
conflicting needs create problems within a relationship.
A Downing Street spokesman said in response: «The PM has been clear that both sides in the
Gaza conflict need to observe a ceasefire.
Yet Julie's lack of strength, her stubbornness and
conflicting needs keep her from deciding on anything, including whether she wants John.
A Parenting Plan that leads to
less conflicts needs to be written extremely clearly so that both parents will find it easier to make the challenging transition from relating to each other as a married couple to divorced parents who are beginning to learn how to co-parent together effectively.
Children caught in their parents»
divorce conflict need concrete skills and strategies to manage the strong emotions they feel (anger, hurt, fear, sadness, worry, and confusion) so that they can avoid aligning with one parent and unnecessarily rejecting the other.
At first glance these two vehicles don't look like obvious choices for comparison, but both bracket a knotty core of
conflicting needs for buyers wanting a small - ish wagon that can cope off - road and also provide comfortable touring on the bitumen... All while costing less than $ 50,000 but scrimping on few of the comfort, convenience and safety features expected for a vehicle priced above $ 40,000.
(16) The «Parent - Child» games described by Berne (Chapter 3), usually involve such
conflicted needs in both parties.
We have found that while cooperative couples more readily choose to mediate, families with high degrees
of conflict need mediation even more due to the high costs of litigation, which often provokes additional conflict.
Real estate interests have found themselves on the front lines of the smart growth issue, trying to articulate a position that balances
potentially conflicting needs: maintaining the quality of communities through preservation of space and control of congestion, and allowing market forces to generate local growth.
Third is helping them to improve their communication skills, which allows them to feed each other more fully, resolve conflict constructively, and discover compromise solutions to the problem of divergent or
conflicted needs.
The danger in
all conflicted needs is that ordinarily the individual is aware.
But it is precisely the task of our Christian principles of obligation both to actualize lovingly and to mediate justly between these overstated and
conflicting needs.
The conflicting needs sometimes renew the anger that is felt toward the one from whom the break was first made — a woman.
Instead he urged those gathered to continue their reconciliation work: «Each week of
conflict needs a year of reconciliation because once you kill someone, they tell their children «you can't trust them, they killed my friend» and it goes on down the generations.»
Then through Adult - to - Adult negotiations, they may work at resolving
their conflicting needs by constructive compromises that enable some of each person's needs to be met.
You're really stuck between your two children with
their conflicting needs.
Instead of a battle of
conflicting needs, the two together can achieve shared satisfaction and harmony.
All the participants in
the conflict need to come out with something.»
Electronic balloting has yet to reconcile two
conflicting needs in the polling place: Any election must proceed under a cloak of anonymity.
We wanted to know whether natural selection favours camouflage, and whether
the conflicting need to have bright sexual signals might impair its effectiveness.
It was also more apparent in female lizards, probably because males have
a conflicting need to stand out against the rocks to attract mates.
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Conflicts need to be addressed sooner rather than later to avoid letting problems affect morale and productivity,» says Hoekstra.
As corresponding author of this study Ken Kurosaki explains, «The use of Yb shows we can reconcile
the conflicting needs of TE materials through carefully selecting the right metals.
The free market offers little incentive for companies such as Honeywell to improve their pH sensors because the market — ocean researchers and the beverage industry — is relatively small and has
conflicting needs; a sensor that may be perfectly adequate for cola carbonation may not work well in the deep Pacific.
It's easy to think that
every conflict needs to get resolved in one sitting, but some disagreements are too big to break down at once.