we already faced and went through what many married
couples go through being married for 40 to 50 years such as death
of a parent, death
of many family members from different things (most deaths they were 20 and 40 yrs old), gun voilence due to an adult not locking the gun away, the victims were 12 years old, a
house fire that destroyed just about everything, car
accident which resulted
in surgery with 2 years unable to work, inlaws, rasing children, ect...)