Whatever supposed benefit you hope to get out of harshness, criticism, scolding or conflict, is far outweighed by
the damage done to self - esteem.
In my opinion, they are critical for educating any child, and most importantly, for reversing the earlier
damage done to self - esteem, which can cause blocks in motivation.
What King did not initially realize was how deeply flawed white Christian thinking is regarding race and the psychological
damage done to the self - image of blacks.
Not exact matches
Matthew addresses the incredible
damage done by Christians who teach LGBT people
to hate their sexuality, which can not so easily be separated from their very
selves.
If a mild coronary or other physical illness forces them
to slow down for awhile, and if this gives them the occasion
to take stock in themselves and they realize that they have been forsaking the important things in life for the unimportant, then any physical pain and any
damage done to their career would be more than offset by their recovery of a proper sense of values, by their recovery of their
self.
He was both
self - consciously and instinctively orthodox in his Catholicism but also believed that Christianity needs
to take advantage of the incomplete truths of other religions
to overcome fully the
damage done to the faith by the modern denigration of the transcendent and the beautiful.
That is, he can (and observably he often
does) elect
to live in
self - contained ways, denying his drive towards fulfillment in manhood, failing
to share in rich commonalty with his fellows, seeking satisfactions which are so partial, limited, and defective that they impede and
damage his basic drive as a total personal organism — an organism which is on the way
to realization of its richest and widest possibilities.
Much of the
damage that has been
done to Catholicism in recent decades — by the abuse scandals, by the ongoing horror stories of mid-twentieth century Catholic life in Ireland, by forms of intellectual dissent that empty Catholicism of the patrimony of truth bequeathed
to it by the Lord, by the counter-witness of Catholics in public life who fail
to stand firm for the dignity of the human person at all stages of life and in all conditions of life — is a matter of
self - imposed wounds, which Church authorities have an obligation
to address.
Because it is so vitally important
to point out that
doing the wrong thing is bad in the first place, is
damaging to our
selves, and harms our relationship with God, we can and must continue
to speak about sin.
it will make you wonder if there is a spirit beyond our bodies,,, or all of it is in the brain itself... I see how hard it is for stroke victims
to return
to their old
self after the brain has been
damaged... and I wondered sometimes if the person I knew was even in the body anymore... It is a question I
do not have a firm answer for... but I like
to think the spirit exists and just can not use the brain anymore... it is like a computer interface that is
damaged and the body has failed
to repair itself... Our brains can reroute data, or rebuild some
damage..
and than move on and
do the next task, and just try
to just make a decision... as procrastination has
done more
damage to my career prospects and my
self - growth than at least trying something new probably ever would've
done (assuming it's a well moderated activity with emergency nearby or a casual hobby lol).
Joining a club of arsenal s stature has its ups and downs.There is a requirement of how our players should perform when on the pitch.The following is a list of players who were wrong
to choose arsenal.Aaron ramsey - Even though he is the most favoured of all players at the club now.I cant help but think how it would have gone for Him if he decided
to search for other greener pastures.He was a clear talented footballer during his time at cardiff but he hasnt been raised with the discipline at arsenal.You can always see ramseys all round strengths but sadly Its not helping him or the club with his foward moving pleasurr.He is so Over used and its sometimes difficult for him
to get used
to the rythm of the game.With time you realise he gets low ib confidence and his engine gets wasted.He needed somebody who would have managed him properly and with care and that person is certainpy not wenger.You would have been better off at Manu mate.Calum chambers - Came us a very talented player from southampton with raw talent.He was very good at first but wenger found a way
to reduce his level of confidence.His inexperience was left exposed and wenger
did nt
do anything
to resolve that problem and instead He looked for other talented players.Alex oxlade chamberlain - Another very talented player who needed only his skilled sharpened and his character modelled.That and he was ready
to become a world beater.But wenger decided
to let him run and run like a headless chicken causing him
to be often injured and
damaging his confidence.Who knows what would have happened
to him gad he decided
to look for more greener pasture.He is surely a much better player than this.Theo walcott - Another player who was tipped
to have a very bright future.He had it in him.But all he needed was an appropriate manager who would nurture him with discipline and help him with his talent.But on Coming
to arsenal he was given Much more responsiblities putting more weight on his shoulders on top of that another player who was recklessly managed with his talent and never coming off age because his character wasnt properly shaped.Mesut ozil - Al right i agree he perfoms well just recently.But imagine all the legendary players he was often compared
to during his time at real madrid.On coming
to arsenal he found no rotation often overused, suffered many injuries and his confidence dwindled.It is pretty clear arsene
does not take any responsibility for players.And when at arsenal you have
to be your own manager.You need not rely on your manager otherwise you might continue being the same player for the next many years.That is why each and every player are what they are because of their own efforts and wenger had nothing
to do with it.Van persie was the same player for over 7 years untill he himself decided
to change.Wenger only organises and prepares tge team while the rest is in your court.It is not what so many people make it out
to be.Thats why we need
to pressure wenger more than our own players.They are their own
self managers and wenger needs
to take that responsibility
If he doesn't have the time
to devote
to his class or
to the homework, he may not excel, and that could
damage his
self - esteem and possibly also his GPA.
What it would
do, if you have a
self operated food service department, is probably cause some
damage to the finances of your school district.
What I needed most as a child was
to learn how
to handle losing in a way that didn't
damage my
self esteem.
Alfie Kohn's New York Times article, «When A Parent's «I Love You» Means «
Do As I Say»,» explores the
damage this kind of «conditional parenting» (recommended by experts like talk show host Phil McGraw and Jo Frost of «Supernanny») causes, as the child grows
to resent, distrust and dislike his parents, feel guilt, shame, and a lack of
self - worth.
You mothers are lazy,
self - concerned and obviously choosing
to ignore the
damage you have
done to your children for your own convenience.
Beware: as much as we might feel the need
to go back over the job our toddler has helped out with (
to ensure it has been completed
to our high standards),
doing this can
damage their
self - confidence and ultimately their desire
to be independent.
We
did just that but the months of therapy turned into years and one therapist turned into three all of whom threw in the towel as
did my wife who found the various treatments and exercises the Sex Therapists gave us (what they called «homework»)
to be frustrating and very
damaging to her
self esteem.
Dr. Spock has been blamed for a generation of lax parenting, a charge that must have seemed more credible in the 1960s than it
does now, when parents are told that banishing disobedient children
to another room for a few minutes will
damage their
self - esteem.
All three representatives are also African - American and strongly hinted at a weakness Mr. Sanders, a Vermont independent and
self - described socialist, has yet
to overcome, even as he appears increasingly likely
to do damage to Ms. Clinton in New Hampshire and Iowa: black and Latino voters still don't support him or even really know who he is.
While I find the last point unlikely, the first two points could still
do a lot of
damage to Taiwan economy; at the same time that a declaration of independence will mean almost no practical improvement of the status quo of a Taiwan that is already
self - governing and with foreign relations.
Such behaviors include extreme weight control methods, such as diet pills,
self - induced vomiting, laxatives and diuretics; cosmetic surgery and Botox injections; spa treatments, such as hair removal by waxing (which has been associated with rashes and infections) and gel nail polish (
done with UV curing and associated with DNA
damage to the skin that can result in premature aging and possibly cancer; and tattoos or piercings.
It's realizing you're not
damaged after all, and it's all
to do with
self - love, anyway.
We are well aware of the
damage magazines and celebrities and runways and the like
do to our
self - love, but how often
do we consciously acknowledge the power mannequins have over us?
Despite plenty of scientific evidence that diets don't produce lasting results for most people and despite countless numbers of dieters, most of them women, thrown into a lifetime of
damaging despair, low
self - esteem, and
self - hatred thanks
to failing diets, our culture still blindly adheres
to the low - calorie diet as the panacea for all life's problems, including those extra pounds.
Don't
do it if you're not really sure, because breaking your word to yourself is damaging to self - estee
do it if you're not really sure, because breaking your word
to yourself is
damaging to self - esteem.
Take it from a
self - aware man who used
to do exactly what he
did... he was looking for female approval
to boost his
damaged self - esteem, probably caused by a love he lost too.
Of course, the entire point of Machete Kills is that its protagonist — a
self - styled secret assassin too - often referred
to as a Mexican James Bond —
does rather a lot, his willingness
to chase, kill, destroy and inflict serious
damage the reason for his cinematic being.
Director Bennett Miller is wise not
to condemn Capote's actions — or, more appropriately, lack thereof — but instead objectively observes how this conflict between his
self - absorption and his moral responsibility leads him toward a tragic set of circumstances that, once he realizes the
damage he has caused, he is too late
to prevent — even if he were wont
to do so.
Some studies indicate that grouping can
damage students»
self - esteem by consigning them
to lower - tier groups; others suggest that it produces the opposite effect by ensuring that more advanced students
do not make their less advanced peers feel inadequate.
Heavier sanctions required for schools that
do not boost test scores have previously been shown
to be counter-productive; • The requirement that limited English proficient students score «proficient» on English exams is
self - contradictory, as is the provision that most children with special needs demonstrate competency in the same manner as other students; • Education is being
damaged as students are coached
to pass tests rather than taught a rich curriculum that will help prepare them for life in the 21st Century; and • The federal government has failed
to adequately fund the law.
Children are aware of groups and it
damages self - esteem and sets expectations that the more able can only
do the more challenging work where the rest of the class can feel they have nothing
to offer.
But the blight caused by academic selection at 11 is not just economic the
damage done to» 11 + failures» can last throughout life, affecting
self - worth, ambition and confidence.
The people running our public schools don't want
to damage a student's
self - esteem.
Going deep inside the
Self - Help and Actualization Movement (fittingly, the words form the acronym SHAM), Salerno offers the first serious exposé of this multibillion - dollar industry and the real
damage it is
doing — not just
to its paying customers, but
to all of American society.
That's not only harsh, it's
damaging and
does a discredit
to self - published authors that have a great book
to share.
And why, if he truly hates women,
does he in the end seek help from a woman — someone as straightforward and
self - disciplined as he is unsure and seemingly out of control —
to repair the
damage to his mind?
Yesterday, GoodEReader posted a viewpoint on the
damage that
self - published authors allegedly
do to the state of literature, presumably just by existing.
Although McGee eventually dispatches his antagonist, it is not before much
damage has been
done, both
to the people he was trying
to protect and
to his own sense of
self.
Yeah, he might be a distraction from my true purpose, but when he offers a healing hand
to soothe the
damage from my past, I'm helpless
to resist.All I ever wanted was
to know who I am, but my journey
to self - discovery might just lead
to the destruction of mankind.My name is Della
Doe Deare and this, well, this is my story.
There were a few online resources for
self - published authors on the Internet, mostly in the shape of blogs, but I found they often had distinct biases or were actually spreading information which was didn't go far enough, was sometimes inaccurate, and worse could actually be
damaging to an author's chances of
self - publishing success.
Minor reactions generally don't need any treatment but it's important
to realize that although the noticeable reaction will be
self - limiting, there is most likely being
damage done at a cellular level which could show up weeks, months, or years later as chronic health problems.
The dog, itself,
does the
damage with
self mutilation due
to the severe itching.
They have undertaken a
self imposed Marine Environmental Plan
to ensure their day cruises program
does not
damage the Great Barrier Reef's fragile environment.
For those familiar with Maslow's hierarchy of needs, our pinnacle need —
self - actualization — would include reducing our impact, reversing some of the
damage that's been
done, and inspiring others
to do the same.
I think not only my, but Brutal Gamer's appreciation of what Splash
Damage are trying
to do with Brink has been
self evident since last year's EuroGamer Expo.
Enemies come in all manner of shapes and sizes with varying weaponry and armour such as some enemies have a cloaking device, while others have physical shields that are held in front of them, but
do not cover their feet providing a weakness that can be taken advantage of, although some enemies have
self - contained shields that will withstand a certain quantity of hits before exposing the enemy
to taking
damage.
From our need
to be right all the time, our arrogance and our
self - importance — our egos can
do a lot of
damage, especially when it comes
to marketing.
He starts with a sampled phrase clipped from the babble of a daytime talk - show («It didn't seem
to matter») or a fractured bit of overheated tabloid copy, «Kurt Cobain's
damaged self - image.»