I spoke with International Board Certified Lactation Consultant Kristin Gourley to get her expert advice on common problems like
deciding on a birth control, finding the perfect nursing position, and even dealing with family members who think you should use a bottle so they can feed the baby.
So when it comes to the big choices, such as
deciding on your birth plan, considering an unconventional method might seem like more than you can handle.
It's important to note that the standards of birth centers vary, so it's best to ask specific questions before
deciding on a birth center — like their transfer rate (according to the American Pregnancy Association, 7 to 12 percent is reasonable), their equipment (do they have a birthing tub, for instance?)
Have
you decided on your birth team?
We decided on the birth control shot.
Have
you decided on your birth team?
Not exact matches
Instead of focusing
on «
birth control,» the Pope turns to the first of the cardinal virtues, practical wisdom (prudentia, phronesis), and speaks of the excellence of prudence in
deciding, in God's presence, how many children to have» how to «regulate» fertility.
If the Holy Spirit is
on all of our hearts at
birth that helps us
decide between right and wrong whether we choose it or not then more people should find it in their hearts to give to the needy.
The practice of infant baptism is the visible acknowledgement that from
birth the child is being shaped by his faith environment; and the practice of confirmation of baptism is the recognition that
on reaching years of discretion a person must
decide for himself between commitment and rejection.
Remember that Roe v. Wade
decided that states can not prohibit abortion based
on a «theory» that life begins before
birth.
I try not to put too much pressure
on myself to speak up as the token «Christian feminist»
on issues like these, but after reading multiple blog posts and articles this week from Christian men about women and contraception, I
decided to add my two cents as a pro-life woman of faith who supports affordable access to
birth control for women.
I was fortunate in that one of my best friends ended up
deciding on a midwife - attended home
birth for her second child.
At the same time, I understand why breastfeeding,
birth, parenting, etc., can be very emotional topics for many of us and why it can be hard to look at it and say, «Sometimes I reach or approach the ideal... sometimes I don't know what's best... sometimes I know, but I just couldn't... and sometimes I've
decided that
on this issue, good enough is good enough.»
Some fathers themselves may
decide not to seek registration
on the
birth certificate, nor to go to court for PR, because they believe these steps could • harm themselves (e.g. fears of liability for child support; and that contact with «the law» could expose them to prosecution in other areas) • harm the mother (e.g. her access to benefits) • harm their children (e.g. where his relationship with the mother is conflictual and unstable, a father may fear that by seeking PR his contact with his children will be disrupted or stopped).
Depending
on when you
decide to start your maternity leave, if your baby is born early, your leave starts the day after the
birth.
I have met many women who have given up
on their dream of having multiple children due to
birth trauma that was not acknowledged or healed, and many who have
decided to reopened the possibility for themselves after treatment.
When the
Birth Place and its accompanying Resource Center for Pregnancy and Childbirth opened in 1979, the team of people involved was committed to non-medicated
births, «which is not a matter of (
deciding) what wallpaper is
on the wall,» Hopkins said.
Home
birth, mama is a nurse for maternity home health company, faced opposition but support from immediate family, had some formative and transformative experiences that were precursors for a
deciding on a home
birth, devoured much research
on positive
births and home
births and empowered herself with it, lots of visualisation, hand s and knees swaying, followed the urge to moan and it felt good, bath, natural endorphins produce a feeling as «high as a kite», felt her own baby, skin to skin bonding, ready to have another one!
Reprogrammed belief system,
decided after originally planning elective caesarean that home
birth was the go, committed time and energy into being pregnancy and preparing for
birth, faith over fear, comfortable with midwife after devoting time and energy into the relationship, created vision board and reflected daily, music at
birth, swayed body, focused inwards, concentrated
on breath, support from partner, relief in water pool, slipped in and out of dreamlike consciousness, caught baby in own hand s, profound spiritual connection, trusting
Even if you
decide on the traditional hospital setting, understanding the benefits and drawbacks of each
birth environment will ensure that you've made the best decision for you and your family.
It was entertaining to see how MDC handled my cesarean
birth story — of course eventually the moderators
decided that they couldn't let comments
on it remain open.
Rather than climb back up
on the operating room table, they have
decided to have a vaginal
birth after cesarean.
(all photos above courtesy of Calvin) While long drives in a pick up truck are generally a good time, this very pregnant mama
decided that all those bumpy back roads of Maine were just a little more than I wanted (though I know it could be done, a
birth on the side of the road is not my idea of fun).
This may be because they
decide this is the safest option for them based
on their medical history, while others prefer the certainty and convenience of scheduling their
birth.
Unfortunately I came up strep B positive so home
birth was not an option and in the end Talara
decided to come just over three weeks early
on Easter Sunday.
Research has suggested that water
births are as safe as normal
births when carried out
on healthy mothers; doctors and midwives will
decide if a water
birth is a safe and wise option based
on the health of the mother and the positioning and health of the baby.
And if you do
decide on a water
birth, you don't have to take «no» for an answer from your care provider.
The level of openness should be
decided on a case - by - case basis and the
birth parents need to understand that both parties must agree
on the level of
on - going communication between them post-placement, although the agreement isn't legally binding.
Inspired by a discussion amongst the writers
on Eco Child's Play about our
births and the safety of home
births in particular, we
decided to share our labor experiences with our readers.
Albini was first exposed to water
birth 12 years ago when he attended a conference
on the topic with his wife Shelley; they
decided to use the method to give
birth to their third child.
As time went
on, and she learned more about the natural birthing process and the current state of maternity care (as well as reflecting
on her unmedicated hospital
birth experience), she knew that she would not want to
birth another child in the hospital, so as she and her husband Matt looked forward to conceiving their second child she had already
decided on hiring a licensed midwife and planning to
birth at home.
I also have to second the «bring your own stuff» and «keep an eagle eye
on your bill» if you
decide to
birth in the hospital.
Let's see, While Ina May was
on her caravan to Tennessee she had a preterm
birth at 32 weeks and
decided not to be in a hospital and the baby died.
Another thing that moms say they wish they had
decided on before going into labor was whether or not they should have skin - to - skin contact with their babies after giving
birth.
My concern is that too many people «
decide» their choices ahead of time and put way too much pressure
on birth.
Have back up plans
decided upon before the
birth so if you are faced with unexpected outcomes, you don't have to bail
on all your plans and feel as if you have lost any control.»
Its time to get over the «Im better than you because I used my vagina to give
birth» or «c - sections are ok, but only under these medical complications that I have
decided on» stigmas!
During pregnancy, many women create their
birth plans and
decide on what type of
birth they'd like to have.
Ultimately, how much information about
birth a child can handle is going to vary widely depending
on their age and temperament, so you'll have to
decide how much information you're comfortable sharing and what your personal values and boundaries are.
Together they
decide on whether to have a home
birth with a midwife in attendance, or to have their baby in a birthing center without the use of drugs - a natural childbirth.
a a doula myself for a few years, when I found myself pregnant for the 3rd time, some how I
decided to make the less popular choice of having an unassisted
birth... (I will spare everyone here the lecture
on how much healthier it is for both mom and baby to be born at home!
There is a big variety of
birth pools out there, so you should look at this criteria
on deciding which one is best for you:
Many women
decide on one method before the
birth and then change their minds once their baby is born, or in the weeks or months after.
So before you
decide on giving
birth in water in a hospital ask your midwife or a doctor about the guidelines of water
birth for a specific hospital.
This community can also help you find a new care provider,
decide on which car seat to buy and help you find other local resources for pregnancy,
birth and parenting.
Decide what side you are
on, and what is best for your baby, as this shot is given almost immediately after
birth.
If I can educate all women
on the issues they will face if they should
decide to become pregnant in our country at the moment — then that is not just changing that woman's
birth, but also shaping how they will share their story for the rest of their life.
Learn about breastfeeding and start
deciding on your plans for after baby's
birth.
If you know the baby's sex before
birth, then
deciding on your baby's nursery décor is more focused and less general than if you
decide to keep it all a mystery until the actual
birth.
The overall mortality rate for all - risk term pregnancies across the board ought to be significantly higher than the mortality rate for the «low - risk» women who
decide on nonhospital
birth.