The best «federalist» approach may be to follow the doctrine of subsidiarity and leave key
decisions in the hands of parents.
Not exact matches
Implicit
in this judgment is the view that the harm that would have been done to Charlie by his
parents was so obvious and
of such magnitude that the
decision had to be taken out
of their
hands.
Within Optimal Families power is
in the
hands of the
parents who have an egalitarian coalition and children are able to be heard fully and influence
decisions.
If children want to make it sweeter by adding extra honey, maple syrup or fruit they can, but we think that
decision is best left
in the
hands of parents.
If children want to make it sweeter by adding honey, maple syrup or fruit they can, but we think that
decision is best left
in the
hands of parents.
However, unlike adoptions
in the past, where expectant
parents had no say
in the
decision - making process and never knew what became
of their babies or had a chance to explain their
decision to them,
in open adoption you can take a
hands - on role
in many
of the key
decisions both before and after your baby's placement.
Birth
parents have considered all possible options for raising their biological child and have come to the respectable
decision that the child's care would best be
in the
hand's
of another family who can better provide for the child.
This is interesting, since the two latter styles
of parenting are nearly opposites: permissive
parenting is characterized by a high degree
of warmth with few, if any, boundaries set by the
parent; helicopter
parenting, on the other
hand, is illustrated by a
parent who «hovers,» or becomes too involved,
in the child's
decision - making.
And yes, I get it that we don't let kids make
decisions about the most important things
in life; on the other
hand, we didn't have a whole lot
of support from school admins, or even from
parents (who relied on the sale
of soda and junk at school events to fund enrichment programs) at that time to eliminate junk from schools.
A Conservative party spokesman said that
decisions about what was
in the curriculum should lie
in the
hands of those «who can be held to account by
parents at the ballot box — not unelected bureaucrats as proposed by the Lib Dems».
The Connecticut
Parents Union, on the other
hand, is as fierce a foe
of the AFT and the NEA as they come; but its president (and Dropout Nation Contributing Editor) Gwen Samuel is skeptical
of the propensity
of some reformers to be as disdainful as traditionalists about the role families (especially those from poor and minority households) should play
in education
decision - making.
According to Gov. Brian Sandoval, «The language approved by the commission, passed with unanimous bipartisan support, puts the
decisions that have an immediate impact
in our classrooms directly
in the
hands of parents, teachers and principals, which is where it belongs.»
As more and more facts come out about Michael Sharpe, the CEO
of the Jumoke / FUSE Charter School Management company,
parents, public school advocates and the taxpayers
of Bridgeport and Connecticut are turning their attention to the
decision by Paul Vallas and former Bridgeport Board
of Education, Chairman Kenneth Moales, Jr. to
hand over Bridgeport's Dunbar School, its students, staff,
parents and millions
of dollars
in public funds to the disgraced charter school fraud.
If
parents are unable to reach an agreement, ultimately the
decision will lie
in the
hands of a judge.
Collaborative Law is worth considering if some or all
of the following are true for you: (a) you want a civilized, rational resolution
of the issues, (b) you would like to keep open the possibility
of a viable working relationship with your partner down the road, (c) you and your partner will be raising children together and you want the best working relationship possible, (d) you want to protect your children from the harm associated with litigation between
parents, (e) you have ethical or spiritual beliefs that place high value on taking personal responsibility for handling conflicts with integrity, (f) you value control and autonomous
decision making and do not want to
hand over
decisions about restructuring your financial and
parenting arrangements to a stranger (a judge), (g) you recognize the restricted and often unpredictable range
of outcomes and «rough justice» generally available
in the public court system and want a more creative and individualized range
of choices available to you and your spouse or partner for resolving the issues.
But
in those times where they do not agree, a Florida family law judge will take the
decision out
of the
hands of the
parents and set a time - sharing schedule.
On the other
hand, if those same emotional Achilles heals are not effectively managed, the couple may end up not being able to agree to settlement terms, forcing the couple to spend tens
of thousands
of dollars (or more) on legal fees
in a contested, litigated trial where the judge makes all
of the
decisions for them regarding a
Parenting Plan and property / debt division
in ways that neither
of them likes.
When that happens, the
parents are putting the
decision of their children's future into the
hands of a family law judge who must now decide what plan will be
in the best interests
of the children.