It's true that we humans have
a deep fear of failure, and a deep fear of inferiority.
Linda Parsons, a Vancouver coach who specializes in business development for lawyers, has had clients who exhibited a strong desire to please others,
a deep fear of failure and a high degree of perfectionism.
Not exact matches
Fear of failure often has
deep roots in our early lives, so getting tough with yourself and giving yourself a lecture is about as effective as yelling at a teary two year old.
Dig
deeper, and you'll often find motives that are far messier — selfishness, revenge,
fear of failure, a need to prove oneself to a seemingly unloving parent and many other things that most people would be reluctant to admit, if they were even aware
of those motives in the first place.
A few
of the obvious drives that pack us off, daily or weekly or episodically or, for some, in hope, permanently, are
fear or even terror in the particular given set
of circumstances; the sheer discouragement and exhaustion
of facing questions without answer; profound disillusionment — it takes many forms — with the pertinent, prevailing system or systems;
deep and bitter contempt for one's own society, bred
of the abysmal
failure to attain in consistent practice even a semblance
of the justice professed and acclaimed; despair — so it was with the college generation
of the late sixties — over the formidable obduracy
of a political establishment in going its merciless way quite apparently deaf to the cries
of anguish
of its empathetic and real victims, victims by the tens
of millions here and around the world.
Rather, her success has been nourished by a rigorous year - round training regimen, an abiding love
of the sport and a
deep - seated
fear of failure.
But beyond all this lies an even worse,
deep rooted
failure of the political class in the fight against discrimination and
fear of the «other».
While ostensibly perfectionism is about wanting to be perfect, on a
deeper level it's based on an intense
fear of failure.
It is this
deep - seated yet commonly - held
fear of failure that has given birth to A Quiet Place.
Learning in your discomfort zone may cause negative feelings such as a
fear of failure and
deep frustration — but also great satisfaction when you do reach the next level and set yourself a new and even more uncomfortable challenge.
A
deep - seated
fear of women is more common to the rapist than a feeling
of superiority, and this may well lie in early
failure to make successful relationships.
Edward, eager for rapture, frets over Florence's response to his advances and nurses a private
fear of failure, while Florence's anxieties run
deeper: she is overcome by sheer disgust at the idea
of physical contact, but dreads disappointing her husband when they finally lie down together in the honeymoon suite.
They don't want to know about our
deep - seated
fear of failure or hear us rattle off a lengthy list
of things we know for sure we could have done better yesterday if only we'd tried harder, felt better or indulged our laziness less.