It was not my
desire to ridicule Steve in any way... That would be opposite of my intent... My
desire was to ask the questions I wish someone had asked me in love far
sooner... I am still in process of trying to «individuate» from the system which had me so mind controlled that I believed I would be unsafe without it... That is why I asked, with what I hope is a tone of gentleness, «what would be the
problem with chucking the system overboard?»