Sentences with phrase «develop insecure styles»

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Mertz should never have been our captain in the first place... who has ever heard of a team that makes 11th hour transfer buys (Arteta & Mertz) then seemingly places those same individuals into prominent leadership positions from the get - go... indicative of the problems that have permeated our clubhouse for the better part of 7 years under the Kroenke & Wenger... what is wrong with the players chosen and / or the management style of Wenger that doesn't develop and / or encourage strong leadership from within... Mertz was the fine collecting lackey from year one... this is what happens when you don't get world - class players because many times they want to have a voice on and off the pitch and this can't happen when you play for a fragile manager who has developed a coddling wage structure where everyone is rewarded for simply wearing the shirt and participating in the process... not enough balance between performance and pay, combined with the obvious favoritism shown to some players regardless of their glaring lack of production... remember that Ramsey has played in positions that make no sense considering his skill - set (out wide) and has forced other players off the field or into equally unfamiliar positions with little or no justification (let's remember when you read articles about how Ramsey's goals this upcoming season being the potential X-factor for our success that this is the same individual who didn't score a goal until the final week last season)... this of course is just one example of many... before I hear another word from Mertz I want this club to address the fact that no former player of any real consequence has any important role in the management structure of this club, yet several former Gunners have expressed serious interest in just such an endeavor (Henry, Viera, Adams, Bergkamp... just to name a few legends)... there is only one answer: an extremely insecure manager!!!

But, especially if you developed an insecure attachment style as a child, you may have difficulty in relating to your spouse — and vice versa — particularly during conflict, while distressed, or when stressed - out.

Take heart - just because you fall into an insecure relationship style does not mean you can not have a successful relationship and that you can not develop more secure relationship patterns.

As adopters we understand that an insecure attachment history is where children's experiences in their birth families mean they are unable to develop secure attachments with their prime carers for various reasons such as the carers» own insecure attachment styles or mental or physical health difficulties, drug or alcohol abuse; loss; trauma; neglect; abuse; maternal deprivation; separations; domestic abuse etc..

The scientific story has developed from attachment as care - giving and protective (or the opposite: deprivation, inadequacy, or insecure), to how attachment may influence an individual's sense of themselves, their part in relationships, and their capacity to problem - solve and look after themselves — attachment styles, described as «inner working models» in the psychoanalytic literature which may persist into adult life (as secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganised).

Research has uncovered two categories of secure attachment: Continuous - secures and earned - secures.1 My professor at the time was describing continuously secure (and / or insecure) individuals who develop an attachment in their childhood and carry that same attachment style into their adult romantic relationships.

On the contrary, people can grow up and develop an insecure attachment style when the early experience with a caregiver was unpredictable, inconsistent, neglectful, or even abusive.

By contrast, people who develop an anxious or insecure attachment style — typically due to inconsistent parental attention during the first years of life — are apt to try to keep a defunct relationship going rather than suffer the pain of dissolving it.

Given the high risk among young migraineurs of developing an insecure attachment style and anxiety symptoms, which are known to impact on children / adolescents migraine severity (14), special attention should be paid to maternal alexithymic traits and mother — child interaction.

Children who shut down in this way are more likely to develop an insecure attachment style, and autonomy and interpersonal closeness typically become difficult for them.