Not exact matches
With the freedom of the
children of God we embrace whatever structures and activities are
needed to serve the aims and ideals of the Movement, within the obedience of faith and the
discipline of our Holy Mother the Church.
I concluded at the time of the riots that of all the things the government now
needed to do, it was the married family which most urgently
needed to be rebuilt: I was and remain as certain of that as anything I have ever written, and I have been saying it repeatedly for over 20 years: I was saying it, for instance, when I was attacking (in The Mail and also The Telegraph), as it went through the Commons, the parliamentary bill which became that disastrous piece of (Tory) legislation called the
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their
children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children, which even, preposterously, gave
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to
discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their
child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the
child and the nature of the smack.»
Please note that the emergency contact number which you provide on the consent form
needs to indicate who we should contact during the week should your
child need to be sent home for illness or
discipline issues.
Many parents believe that they will just be able to reason with their
children when they are older, so
discipline now is not
needed.
Barbara Pitkin writes that «Calvin himself appears not to have advocated the use of physical force in response to sin in
children; though he recognized the
need for parental
discipline, his explicit remedies were baptism and education (albeit strict and structural) into faith and morality.»
In that world God was present, direct and inexorable; his messages to parents were everywhere: from flour spilled on the floor (that
child needs more
discipline) to the tragic death of an infant (confirmation that God had better things in store for them, in another world).
Skimpoles are incapable of gratitude toward authority because they can conceive of no error they
need to be protected from; like spoiled
children — precisely, in fact, like Damaged Young Men — they see all
discipline as condemnatory and all condemnation as wicked.
Now, there is balance between these two — when a
child sins, he or she
needs to be told that they have sinned and be
disciplined for it.
Nor will its use demand payment of fare, and no longer will His
children need travel across land or sea, no, but upon the winds of the air as like He does, and shall dwell upon the clouds in great floating cities away from the foulness of the earth's sand upon which will crawl the wicked
children, and the wicked hostesses except those which He sees fit to allow to visit the cloudy cities for reasons of firm
discipline... (10:45) Round shapely... (10:63) And as it is written so shall it come to pass while I do live.
I agree
discipline is
needed to teach
Children from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians childre
Children from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians
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In the same way that the zero - tolerance approach to
discipline sends precisely the opposite psychological message to disadvantaged kids than what we now know they
need in order to feel motivated and engaged with school, so do many basic elements of traditional American pedagogy work in direct opposition to what the psychological research tells us will help those
children succeed.
New parents worry that they
need to «
discipline» their
child.
I believe that
children need consistent, logical
discipline structures, but this rigid set - up was a nightmare in our house.
I am a fairly strict parent and this has been remarked upon several times by people who are decidedly not AP — but I teach through gentle
discipline and I meet what I believe to be the
needs of my
children at their stages of development.
In order to develop the correct plan of
discipline for your
child, you
need to find out why your
child chose to bully another
child.
Why Meghan Leahy Parent Coach is a Top Parenting Blog: When it comes to
discipline issues, major decisions for your
child, and problem behavior, sometimes you
need expert advice to guide you; you'll find that advice on this blog.
Help your
child feel appreciated and recognized, as positive
discipline is based on the belief that all kids
need to feel a deep sense of belonging.
To help
children learn self -
discipline, the parent
needs to adopt the role of coach / teacher rather than that of disciplinarian and punisher.
Boundary - based
discipline:
Children need boundaries to feel safe.
This is the story of how young
children develop, from their intense
need for attachment and the vital importance of play to
discipline that preserves growth.
Often, parents forget that the point of
disciplining children is to give them firm guidelines and limits so that they do not
need to be punished.
When kids do something wrong, authoritative parents will
discipline by trying to guide and teach their kids, and modify what they expect from kids depending on the situation and a
child's individual
needs.
Fathers who are committed to raising responsible
children make the
needed efforts to teach their
children self -
discipline.
It's important to find age appropriate
discipline strategies that will meet your
child's
needs and aid his development.
By encouraging those who still advocate corporal punishment to see the facts behind reasons parents today think corporal punishment works and breaking down those reasons to see why those reasons don't stand up to facts and examination, we can protect the most vulnerable members of society:
children, who should be taught how to behave correctly on their own and develop the skills to regulate their own behavior so that they don't
need to be constantly
disciplined and who should not be physically hurt so that they obey at that particular moment, without learning how to regulate themselves in the future.
I attempt to teach empathy to my
children through positive
discipline, responding sensitively to their
needs and emotions, and being present for them.
If you find that you are
needing too many time - outs, check out our tips on how to how to
discipline children with calm, Zen, and love.
Age appropriate
discipline techniques not only curb misbehavior, but they also ensure that your
child is learning the skills he
needs to become a responsible adult.
As your
child grows and develops,
discipline needs will change.
Many
child behavior psychologists believe that
needed life lessons are not being taught when
discipline is angry and painful, and corporal punishment will often leave a
child with increased anxiety and the inability to trust parental figures.
In order for
discipline strategies to be effective, they
need to match your
child's developmental
needs.
Everyone knows that
children need discipline.»
The good news is that following the practices in this article consistently not only raises a self -
disciplined child, it raises a
child who knows you'll follow through, so he doesn't
need to be asked five times to do something.
To get the best out of positive
discipline you
need to understand your
child and know his developmental milestones.
A connected approach to
discipline helps
children learn the skills they
need to be successful, resilient, happy, empathetic, cooperative and well - adjusted for life.
In her book, The Highly Sensitive
Child, Elaine Aron, Ph.D. says, «HSCs need to be corrected and disciplined, but unless you know how to do it properly, your child is likely to take your correction as global messages about his worth.&r
Child, Elaine Aron, Ph.D. says, «HSCs
need to be corrected and
disciplined, but unless you know how to do it properly, your
child is likely to take your correction as global messages about his worth.&r
child is likely to take your correction as global messages about his worth.»
Let's ask 10,000 people whether
children need discipline.
If you feel you
need more guidance, talk to your doctor or contact a
child psychologist or counselor and ask to have a couple of sessions just to discuss and plan new
discipline strategies.
I'm a firm believer in teaching our
children discipline but they also
need to be safe, there are 30 other cabinets in my kitchen to learn with while still locking up my crystal and china (I don't have traditional cleaners so that's not an issue).
There is enormous controversy around the world, ranging from those who believe that
children should be drugged and expected to conform, to those who encourage them to express feelings and be themselves, and those who believe ADD does not exist: that
children simply
need more boundaries and
discipline.
Authoritative parenting is the only good type of parenting because the parents are firm yet sensitive towards their
children's
discipline and
needs.
Children need parents to provide unquestioned leadership as they struggle to learn self -
discipline.
A evening packed with solid practical advice for parents of
children from toddlers to teenagers, that shows how to utilize the very stuff of family life — chores, mealtime, sibling rivalry, toilet training, bedtime, allowances and more — to create a home environment in which
children can become self -
disciplined, compassionate, responsible, resourceful, resilient human beings who can act in their own best interest, stand up for themselves and exercise their own rights while respecting the rights and legitimate
needs of others.
As for us, Josh and I have negative memories of spanking, so are highly skeptical of the practice, but understand that different
children will
need different
discipline strategies.
Every
discipline situation you face rather than requiring a punishment is an opportunity to teach your
child what he is feeling or
needing and what words and actions may be used to express them more appropriately.
Although many parents fear the embarrassment of
disciplining their
child in a public space, there's really no
need to be embarrassed.
The good news is, the more self -
disciplined your
child becomes, the less
discipline he'll
need from you.
Editor's Note: This post was originally published on August 27, 2008, but I love the message it offers to parents about how positive
discipline dovetails with responding with sensitivity in observing what underlying
needs children may be expressing when they act out.
In my opinion, communication and positive
discipline allow for
children to be themselves, allows for their spirits to be free and yet they will learn the respect and boundaries
needed without crushing their souls and making them compliant robots for the sake of looking good to others.
However, as we go about redirecting our
children and
disciplining them, it helps tremendously to see these behaviors as a
child's best attempt to meet a
need.