Sentences with phrase «discipline your child if»

Giving a time out is a great way to discipline your child if you can not come up with a relevant consequence.

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I'm always frustrated by the conflation of «spanking» with the idea of discipline as if there is no other way to parent a child than hitting them.

Here's an observation, too: if these people are debating over what the best objects are to strike children with, they've gone beyond violent discipline into an area of seriously evil pathology.

Proverbs 23:13 - 15 ESV Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.

We deserve any discipline we receive because He is Our True Father and if we are disobedient children then we must expect consequences.

Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on discipline and advice; to allow a child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and disciplining (negatively), since the child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interested in.

You seem like someone who is interested in these kind of word studies so maybe you know if this is accurate or not: Someone else pointed out to me that the word for «punishment» in the sheep / goat passage is a Greek word that has more of a correction / discipline / child - training / restorative / purifying focus than «punishment» does in English.

However, if you are just beginning to institute training on an already rebellious child, who runs from discipline and is too incoherent to listen, then use whatever force is necessary to bring him to bay.

I tend to recoil if someone proclaims to me that it is biblical to spank or use a rod to discipline your child.

But even if we agree that a father may discipline a child... in a healthy relationship this does not represent boundaries, it represents... love.

Sabi God is not surprised by our actions disappointed maybe just like in a family when the fathers children do the wrong thing.The amazing thing with God is that is sovereign and all the mistakes we make he uses them to build up our faith or if we refuse to listen he will discipline us for our good.

If good parents are not evil for deliberately bringing children into this world and inevitably having to discipline them in some fashion or another then neither is God (who is better than any earthly parent could ever be) for creating man.

I agree discipline is needed to teach Children from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians childreChildren from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians childrenchildren of Fos

(followed closely by: - «I have a personal relationship» with «God / Jesus» and - «If you are a good parent, don't you discipline your children when they misbehave?»

If you smack your child for discipline then your reasoning and communication skills are lacking.

SO, I agree that if your child will respond to more gentle discipline, by ALL means use it, but in some circumstances a spanking may be called for.

If you are overwhelmed by the gentle discipline aspect of attachment parenting, then you might not be setting enough limits with your child.

If you've taken physical punishment out of your discipline toolbox and plan to removing yelling, as well, it is crucial that you have other methods of getting through to your children.

If your child's aggression is serious, or it isn't responding to discipline, talk to your pediatrician.

Any type of physical discipline will make your child question if you truly have his best interest in mind.

Disciplining your child is fine, but how do you know if you're getting close to the line of being too strict — or worse?

The danger in disciplining the other child is that if the tattler is exaggerating about what happened (which is very common at this age) you may unfairly punish him.

Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.

Children will test limits even if you are disciplining them appropriately.

If you're looking for alternative to spanking, here are eight ways to discipline your child without using physical punishment.

If you find that you are needing too many time - outs, check out our tips on how to how to discipline children with calm, Zen, and love.

If you always use the same discipline method, like simply telling your child to stop an activity, this only does half the job.

Nevertheless, discipline and schooling are two huge issues when it comes to raising children and if couples become parents without having some sort of a meeting of minds, they are setting themselves up for trouble — and perhaps divorce.

Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.

In addition to the discipline book above, I recommend this one if you have children between one and three.

If you're a fan of No Drama Discipline and want the people who help you care for your children to know about your discipline approach, then keep reading.

What if your child's behavior requires «discipline»?

If you practice Attachment Parenting you most likely are not using physical punishments as discipline for your children.

If you feel you need more guidance, talk to your doctor or contact a child psychologist or counselor and ask to have a couple of sessions just to discuss and plan new discipline strategies.

Caregivers (parents or any adults) may also spank a child when, after being disciplined using another method, deliberately repeat the same behavior, as if to antagonize the parent.

As for the recommendation to leave a child in an abusive situation and work on the abuser's sense of remorse at the same time — that is utter lunacy, irresponsible and unrealistic and if he actually did make such a suggestion in a professional capacity could be subject to discipline or legal action.

If it is a staff person who is in charge of discipline, talk with your child about what it must be like to have that job at the school.

If your child seems to ignore your attempts at non-punitive discipline, continue trying it out while simultaneously improving your connection.

Spanking, disciplining with «angry» hands, and pulling a child away roughly convey the message that hitting is okay if you're bigger, stronger, or can't get cooperation any other way.

Do more research or ask your child's therapist if timeout would be a good discipline method for a child that is struggling with attachment issues.

While it doesn't mean that you are a bad parent or that you don't know enough about proper discipline if your child misbehaves, if what you are doing isn't working, then it is time to get some help and try something different.

Some developmental questions include how many words your child knows, if he responds to his name and other sounds appropriately, if he is able to stack blocks, is walking well, and discipline issues like are you experiencing tantrums or stranger anxiety.

If you have concerns about your child's behavior, or your discipline strategies aren't working, talk to your child's doctor.

For example, if a grandparent is babysitting and the child is being ridiculously rude, the grandmother can say something like It's not okay to talk to me that way, but should still leave disciplining to the parent.

Dr. Robert MacKenzie's book, Setting Limits with your Strong - Willed Child, is a great resource for parents looking for help to learn how they can understand and effectively discipline their children, especially if they are strong - willed or can be described as «challenging, difficult, spirited, stubborn, hell - raising, a pistol or just plain impossible.»

In these situations, positive discipline teachers recommend calmly reminding the child about the rule, «you know we have a rule that we don't play with paints in the living room,» stating the obvious, «there is paint on the floor now and I don't know if we'll be able to get it out.

If she's a sensitive child who is likely to quit because she's not the best player on the team, it may make sense to encourage her to keep playing so she can learn self - discipline skills.

Parenting isn't easy, and with the differences in people, it would be surprising if partners didn't experience conflict in choosing the best ways to discipline their children.

This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse and other mental health problems — even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.

We are very kind, respectable, loving and honest people.Im a good mother, have a trying at times but great son who respects me and understands im his mother not his bff, And in my opinion the problem is ppl who do nt understand why god wants us to correct our children by not sparingthe rod... sure, some moms do nt wan na be the bad guy and «spank» bc god forbid their kid grows up to be violent - yet today most of society refuses to spank - and yet today we live in a world filled with so much murder, stealing, and crimes that i honestly believe if they had parents following gods word and disciplining like they did back in the day when older generations knew what they were doing we would live in a better world.