Whenever possible, a parent should endeavor to
discipline a child using non-violent means, but it is not possible to talk to your toddler the way you can talk to an elementary school child, middle schooler or teen.
Not exact matches
When a team member at Windsor Regional Hospital leaves work early to watch their
child in a sports meet, for example, they can do so without being concerned about being
disciplined or
using up a valuable vacation day.
From the quote of the day — is it right and natural to
use violence to
discipline children?
Barbara Pitkin writes that «Calvin himself appears not to have advocated the
use of physical force in response to sin in
children; though he recognized the need for parental
discipline, his explicit remedies were baptism and education (albeit strict and structural) into faith and morality.»
Congress identified the following purposes: the promotion of «self -
discipline and other prudent approaches to the problem of adolescent premarital sexual relations,» the promotion of adoption as an alternative for adolescent parents, the development of new approaches to the delivery of care to pregnant teenage girls, and the support of research and demonstration projects «concerning the societal causes and consequences of adolescent premarital sexual relations, contraceptive
use, pregnancy, and
child rearing.»
Nor will its
use demand payment of fare, and no longer will His
children need travel across land or sea, no, but upon the winds of the air as like He does, and shall dwell upon the clouds in great floating cities away from the foulness of the earth's sand upon which will crawl the wicked
children, and the wicked hostesses except those which He sees fit to allow to visit the cloudy cities for reasons of firm
discipline... (10:45) Round shapely... (10:63) And as it is written so shall it come to pass while I do live.
However, if you are just beginning to institute training on an already rebellious
child, who runs from
discipline and is too incoherent to listen, then
use whatever force is necessary to bring him to bay.
I tend to recoil if someone proclaims to me that it is biblical to spank or
use a rod to
discipline your
child.
Sabi God is not surprised by our actions disappointed maybe just like in a family when the fathers
children do the wrong thing.The amazing thing with God is that is sovereign and all the mistakes we make he
uses them to build up our faith or if we refuse to listen he will
discipline us for our good.
There should never be reason to
use physical force to
discipline a
child, all that does is teach them that at times of anger it is okay to be violent.
The Welsh Government wants to remove the legal defence for parents who
use corporal punishment to
discipline children.
Parenting 101: Mums and dads share the VERY crafty ways they
discipline their
children - from
using wifi...
SO, I agree that if your
child will respond to more gentle
discipline, by ALL means
use it, but in some circumstances a spanking may be called for.
Discipline is a universal issue for parents, no matter how they decide to raise their
children, Krueger said, and attachment parenting focuses on
using positive
discipline to help kids learn the difference between right and wrong.
And it's pretty hard not to form a strong connection and get to know your
child really well when you do breastfeed, spend lots of time with them, wear or carry them everywhere you go, are available to them all night,
use positive
discipline and practice the other principles of attachment parenting.
On one hand, I co-sleep exclusively with my now 14 month old daughter and believe in gentle
discipline and am also looking into the option of homeschooling; on the other hand I also am a stickler for keeping my
childrens vaccines current and
using disposable diapers.
Positive
discipline uses an authoritative approach, where a
child's feelings are taken into consideration.
Although most moms who answered our survey — 81 percent — were spanked as
children, only 49 percent say they
use this method in
disciplining their own kids.
Poor parents
use more «preventative» strategies — obedience,
discipline, and conformity — in hopes of keeping
children safe in a more chaotic and violent environment.
The APA stands behind «parents»
use of non-physical methods of
disciplining children» and opposes «the
use of severe or injurious physical punishment of any
child.»
Here are five things to consider when deciding which
discipline strategies to
use with your
children:
Tools can be stories to illustrate an idea, motivational tools, demonstration of a skill, reward charts,
discipline techniques, family rituals, morning or bedtime systems, distraction tricks, setting clear limits... anything we
use in teaching and guiding our
children.
If you're looking for alternative to spanking, here are eight ways to
discipline your
child without
using physical punishment.
I also anticipate that Millennials will
use technology to limit the freedom of their
children as a
discipline tactic.
If you always
use the same
discipline method, like simply telling your
child to stop an activity, this only does half the job.
Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when
children are
disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.
Using positive
discipline methods we help our
children to develop self - control.
Here are few great
child discipline ideas to follow that I
used on a daily basis.
- Cope with your
child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment - Express your strong feelings without being hurtful - Engage your
child's willing cooperation - Set firm limits and maintain goodwill -
Use alternatives to punishment that promote self -
discipline - Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise - Resolve family conflicts peacefully
If you practice Attachment Parenting you most likely are not
using physical punishments as
discipline for your
children.
You can still practice positive
discipline,
use nurturing touch and
use encouraging communication at any time of your
child's life.
We discuss the origins of how «beating» (a term
used to describe a form of
discipline) your
children came to be and how prevalent it is in all socioeconomic communities.
Helping and supporting your sensitive
child who is struggling is like building a bridge over troubled waters
using the Three C's of gentle
discipline:
Teaching
children to make amends for bad behavior or help them learn self
discipline, rather than
using punishments is far more effective as your method for
disciplining children.
The dimensions of parenting she observed were the strategies parents
used to
discipline their
children; the degree of warmth and style of nurturing; how parents communicated to their
children; and the expectations parents had for their
child's maturity and ability to self control.
One important difference between historic parenting styles and modern ones is that most modern
child rearing experts reject historic parenting styles that
use corporal punishment as a form of
discipline.
You're frustrated and want to stop wasting time
using those
discipline techniques that don't work, and start
using techniques that will actually work with the kid you've got (not the image of the
child you thought you'd have during those pregnancy day dreams).
While most people (at least publicly) decry the
use of spanking as a form of
child discipline, more people do spank their kids than they let on.
Caregivers (parents or any adults) may also spank a
child when, after being
disciplined using another method, deliberately repeat the same behavior, as if to antagonize the parent.
Every
discipline situation you face rather than requiring a punishment is an opportunity to teach your
child what he is feeling or needing and what words and actions may be
used to express them more appropriately.
I think that
using positive
discipline allows
children to understand the why of their behavior & the how to change it.
Parents talk about the
discipline techniques they
use when their
child throws a fit.
They want to break the cycle of
using traditional
discipline methods that compromise the parent -
child relationship, and they are forging their way in a new direction.
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A time - in modifies the traditional time - out in that it gives tantrumming
children a break to calm down and self - regulate before other positive
discipline techniques are
used, rather than
using isolation as a form of punishment as in the traditional time - out.
Hi Derek, thank you for sharing this article about permissive parenting, I totally agree with you, a good parenting should always be about
disciplining your
children but
using a positive approach.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber This bestselling classic includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time - tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to: · Cope with your
child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment · Express your strong feelings without being hurtful · Engage your
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But
children who are raised this way end up becoming
children with very little experience
using the psychological muscles of deferred gratification, emotional regulation, and self -
discipline.
This week a study was released saying when
children are
disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse and other mental health problems — even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.
The best
use of spanking, Larzelere said, is in
children between the ages of 2 and 6 when milder
discipline tactics, such as time out, fail.