When one parent
disciplines the children through harsh parenting — such as shouting or physical punishment — and gets no intervention from the other parent, it hints of tolerance and enabling.
Not exact matches
He makes clear that
discipline is the work of a father even saying that
children come to know heaven and hell and Christ
through their father alone.
I concluded at the time of the riots that of all the things the government now needed to do, it was the married family which most urgently needed to be rebuilt: I was and remain as certain of that as anything I have ever written, and I have been saying it repeatedly for over 20 years: I was saying it, for instance, when I was attacking (in The Mail and also The Telegraph), as it went
through the Commons, the parliamentary bill which became that disastrous piece of (Tory) legislation called the
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their
children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children, which even, preposterously, gave
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to
discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their
child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the
child and the nature of the smack.»
The
children of the saved became respectable
through the acceptance of that
discipline.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on
discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «
through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and
disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interested in.
Through their «No Greater Joy Ministries,» Michael and Debi Pearl teach a method of
child discipline that centers around «breaking a
child's will.»
In the upside down Rawlsian universe, a single mother who managed to improve her lot and that of her
children through hard work, thrift, and
discipline would find her somewhat greater resources subject to redistribution to another single mother who, say, was addicted to drugs, neglected her
children, and refused to work.
This is a record of a
child, odd and difficult from birth, in the grip of senseless obsessions, controlling the family with rigid rules and prohibitions, tearing
through the house as fast and destructive as a tornado, grunting instead of talking, unresponsive to his parents» loving concern, their urging, coaxing, their vain attempts at
discipline, their anger and spanking.
So then the
child does not follow
through and the parent smacks him with a belt or a cane lightly — for
discipline purposes to teach the
child a lesson.
I am a fairly strict parent and this has been remarked upon several times by people who are decidedly not AP — but I teach
through gentle
discipline and I meet what I believe to be the needs of my
children at their stages of development.
If you've taken physical punishment out of your
discipline toolbox and plan to removing yelling, as well, it is crucial that you have other methods of getting
through to your
children.
Through examples from Cohen's practice and extensive research, Playful Parenting is an approach that will impact how you talk and play with,
discipline and interact with your
children.
Through positive
discipline,
children learn to resolve conflicts devoid of violence.
I attempt to teach empathy to my
children through positive
discipline, responding sensitively to their needs and emotions, and being present for them.
The good news is that following the practices in this article consistently not only raises a self -
disciplined child, it raises a
child who knows you'll follow
through, so he doesn't need to be asked five times to do something.
According to the November / December
Child Development Reports,
children that are sleeping
through the night achieve at higher levels in skills including attentiveness, self -
discipline, organization, memorization and the abilities to plan, think and work with others.
Children raised with detached parents tend to be forced into premature independence
through sleep training, rigid
discipline, and too early and / or prolonged separation from parents, often resulting in long - term dependency, attachment, and satisfaction issues.
Your
child will develop important life skills, a solid work ethic, confidence and
discipline through educational best practices exclusive to private education.
It serves as a cautionary tale that we parents must take care to be intentional about promoting secure attachment in our relationships with our
children and in guarding our
children's hearts while we guide them
through how we
discipline.
It does this by building on the work of our many partners across services and
disciplines through a whole community approach to transform the skills of parents and the workforce of all those who come into the life of the
child.
Tucker shared, «
through my work, I've met too many parents who want to parent without yelling, shaming, or overpowering their
children, but they just don't know where to begin or how to
discipline without punishment.»
The researchers found that dads are no longer the strict disciplinarians that they were in the»50s and»60s, and are more likely to let
children get away with wrong behavior and less likely to talk
through discipline issues with the kids.
I'm so glad that I can mother
through breastfeeding — God has given us such a gift in being able to nourish, nurture, teach, and even
discipline (setting boundaries, etc)
through nursing our
children!
I sometimes have to write these things to remind myself not to stray from the positive
discipline path and to never repeat with my kids what I went
through as a
child.
Parenting
Through Crisis Helping Kids in Times of Loss, Grief and Change Each day offers opportunities to give
children the gift of inner
discipline.
All of this knowledge can create anxiety in itself as we try to figure out which parenting behaviors can lead to feelings of shame in our
children, and yet how to best guide our
children through sometimes challenging areas of
discipline.
The center provides a calm and supportive atmosphere for
children, in which qualities of independence, self -
discipline, caring for the environment and others can be encouraged
through the love of learning and having fun.
Someone who is practiced in mindfulness, and therefore able to access the whole brain during stressful moments, is more likely to be able to respond sensitively to the
child and effectively
discipline through problem - solving without risking their attachment relationship.
I had a lot more to learn about
child rearing than the introduction the hospital gave me and I had a setback early on regarding
discipline, but
through the years, Attachment Parenting has transformed the way I look at myself, my
children, my spouse, my community, my world.
«We offer many sports in various
disciplines and we can assure that
children's futures will be brighter because they have been exposed to sports mainly
through us.»
Or one parent may be coming from a place of insecurity — not wanting to follow
through on
discipline and consequences because she is worried that her
child will not like her.
Certainly not how,
through hard work and
discipline, my
children would excel and succeed in a hyper competitive world.
What it means is that AP parents approach
discipline in a different way — instead of punishing for undesirable behavior, they teach and guide their
children through non-punitive ways.
Going
through a separation is not a vacation from parenting - providing appropriate
discipline, monitoring your
children, maintaining your expectations about school, being emotionally available.
Self -
discipline is one of the six life skills your
child should be learning
through your
discipline practices.
Diane is available for workshops and speaking engagements focused on a variety of
child related topics including sleep,
child development, temperament, positive
discipline, emotions coaching and parenting newborns
through teens.
Whenever things escalate to the point where you withhold affection and connection in order to punish or try to control behavior, and certainly if you are hitting or if you are hurting your
child emotionally
through threats, intimidation, and shaming, you can be sure you've stepped off the gentle
discipline path.
You have to stand your ground and follow
through with
discipline when dealing with a defiant
child.
Developed at Vanderbilt University, the Play Nicely program teaches
discipline strategies that can be used for
children ages 1
through 7 years.
The problem is that many parents believe that the only option when it comes to
disciplining a
child is
through shouting.
As a parent you need to think that
discipline is all about instructing your
child through decision making, then you and your
children will gain a better and mutual positive approach towards
discipline in general.
Then we went
through a phase instead of extended families, nuclear families became the «ideal», and parents demanded that other people NOT
discipline their
children.
Without intentional parenting, the shame - based parenting we experienced as
children will be reflected in how we relate to and
discipline our
children, even if only
through words we intended to be gentle reminders or even
through expectations we have in mind of how our
children are «supposed» to be behaving.
All parents, guardians and caregivers are encouraged to refrain from hitting
children on this day, and to seek alternative methods of
discipline through programs available in community agencies, churches and schools.
Unfortunately, many parents lose sight of how to best
discipline their
child when they're going
through a divorce.
«Even if they don't know the different philosophies by name, just read
through it because it's going to give insight into how teachers are interacting with your
child, how they will
discipline your
child, what their expectations are, how the day is structured, everything.
Petrash, Jack COVERING HOME Robins Lane Press, 2000 This easy - to - read book targeted to fathers a d d resses gentle
discipline for
children through adulthood.
Good
discipline and effective time outs do not isolate a
child from their parent, but rather they teach the
child to rely on their parent
through confusing times.
These projects aim to inspire and transform the lives of
children and families in deprived communities
through the power and
discipline of ensemble music making.
They include: mindfulness training,
through exercises like meditation or
disciplined physical exercise, such as yoga; aerobic exercise, which has been shown to strengthen brain function; and cognitive behavioral programs, such as those used to help
children learn impulse control, a type of intervention that falls into the broader category of «social emotional learning» (SEL).