Adult children are no more prepared for parental
divorce than younger children (Fintushel & Hillard, 1991).
Not exact matches
Some might question if the problem was the fact that it's a second marriage for both, which often has a more dismal
divorce record
than a first marriage but not always; some second marriages struggle because blending families with
young children can be a challenge more
than anything else.
The battle of wills in even a moderately difficult
divorce, in which two adults struggle with the urges and needs of a
younger psyche — as if the other person is more a parent
than another vulnerable adult, when coupled with the fear attending almost every severing of this intimate bond, will often lock people into a miasma of pain and resentment, which simply can not be hidden from the
children.
Whether you are old or
young, have
young children, or not,
divorce is a profound change that requires resilience and coping skills that are different
than what we use to get through the usual day - to - day stresses.
On the contrary, your adult
children may be affected by your
divorce even more
than younger children would be.
Because mediation is a less contentious process
than a courtroom
divorce, couples without
young children find their way into mediation as the process focuses on negotiation.
In a follow - up study 10 years after the
divorce, however, the
youngest children were adjusting to their new environments and interactions better
than siblings who were older at the time of the
divorce.
Attachment issues, fear of abandonment, and regression (where a
child begins acting much
younger than he or she is) can all crop up during
divorce.
In view of our aims, respondents who were
younger than 60 years of age (n = 5,574) and were never married,
divorced, or separated (n = 96), or were without
children (n = 73), were excluded from the analyses.
Cases described by this pattern of rejection can present immediately or two years after the
divorce, in
young children or in teens, in a
child with a history of good relations with the father or without such a history, and in one or more
than one
child in the family.
Furthermore, many of my peers who married
young also waited to have
children until they married and are deeply religious, both of which greatly lower their chances of
divorce, according to the 2012 State of Our Unions report (see the section «Your Chances of Divorce May Be Much Lower than You Think&r
divorce, according to the 2012 State of Our Unions report (see the section «Your Chances of
Divorce May Be Much Lower than You Think&r
Divorce May Be Much Lower
than You Think»).
Younger children and boys, for example, often have an easier time adjusting to
divorce than do girls or older
children.
Some scholars argue that
younger children should be more harmed by parental
divorce than older
children, partly because they live together with both parents for a shorter period, partly because they are less well equipped to understand the causes and consequences of their parents»
divorce.