In truth, it happens far less often than most
divorcing people think.
You've just damaged up or
divorced the person you thought you'd be with forever.
Not exact matches
INSIDER's Kim Renfro reported that some sociologists
think there could be a link between declining
divorce rates and more
people deciding to live together before marriage.
Her experience, she said, underscores how difficult it can be for grief - stricken
people — even those with her training — to
think clearly right after the death of a spouse or a
divorce.
I
think there is a perception that
people are only successful in running a businesses if they work 18 hours a day, 7 days a week and get
divorced three time.
As for gay
people — the only thing you
think they are destroying is the sanctity of marriage — and they don't even need to be involved in that conversation — straight
people are doing a good enough job in that department (50 %
divorce rate)... marriage is taking a hit in the respectability department... but it's not because of gay
people.
You would
think that church leaders would be thanking
people for jerking it, since it prevents the things they hate most: premarital relations, abortions and
divorce.
I went to a small town in the midwest to work for a non-profit
thinking it'd be like chicken - soup - for the soul... INSTEAD it was a fundamentalist nightmare... it was NOT just small town mindedness... I could hardly find a church with out
people wondering — why is this attractive woman in her early 30's unwed (or at least
divorced with 3 kids)
people were cold and unfathomable judgmental and sometimes downright hostile eager to quote scriptures seemingly un-lead by the Holy Spirit.
I don't
think the intention is to gravitate
people to one side or another concerning the
divorce in and of itself.
And I
think that's for a
person who is a
divorced and remarried Catholic without the annulment or an LGBT Catholic.
I'm for g.ay marriage, because I don't see any harm coming from it, and I
think some
people are better off
divorcing than living miserable lives together, but I'm not for anything else on your list (adultery, lying, cheating, stealing).
I believe this is so wrong those
people who cheat should go to hell and those
people who stay faithful but love have fade they have the right to
divorce is good not the other way around so your saying cheating is okay so many
people do suicide cause of cheating but
divorce is bad /
divorce to save your partner from getting cheated from you I
think god on this is so wrong and should send them straight to hell cause they are going to continue to cheat and
divorce people should be forgiven cause they didn't hurt no body and nobody did suicide
A great many
people seem to
think that if you are a Christian yourself you should try to make
divorce difficult for every one.
What do you
think about God being a
divorced person?
Furthermore, I
think that most
people would agree that with 50 percent of marriages ending in
divorce in this country,
divorce is a much greater threat to the «sanctity» of marriage than gay marriage.
Most
people think infidelity is the No. 1 cause of
divorce, and it is listed as a significant contributor one third of the time.
ok well in the bible it is against
divorce also but god forgives to but it is still wrong and yes i am from nc and i do live in catawba country where this took place but i do nt have to sit around and watch
people make out with each other and u know lesbians and gays should read the bible more pentcosal
think the same way about that it is wrong for a man and man to be togather and a woman and woman to be togather and some of you
people are just plan stupid and i
think that some of you just need to
think it is god place to judge this pastor and it might be old fashion but back in the ol days we did nt have all this volice and all these crimes but look now there is alot of crime and volice and all we are doing is mad that a pastor said how he felt about gays and lesbiens
The
people who
think it's different are the ones who end up getting
divorced.
Nevertheless,
divorce is singled out as particularly bad, because it is
thought to be a sin that
people can not properly repent of, for if someone gets
divorced and then repents of it, they are still
divorced.
And since some of them are now
divorce coaches, I shudder to
think about all the advice — based on one
person's unhappy marital dissolution experience — that they're presenting as «the truth.»
That's unfair to the couple —
divorce can be just as painful whether there are kids involved or not, and some
people divorce because of the desire to have children or not (
think Elizabeth Gilbert and Eat, Pray, Love).
many
people told ne that its about time to
divorced him but i was
thinking about our daughter, i just hate my life and im lonely and depressed... i know its not right to cheat but i cheated on him already, i have needs I always asking him for sex but he just keep on rejecting me..
For the
people who want to make
divorce harder, shaming couples into «working harder,» well, I
think all of us can agree that Glennon Doyle Melton worked pretty damn hard to salvage her marriage.
From a
divorced person's viewpoint, it's distressing to
think that all that potential intimacy is being wasted on married couples who'd rather watch Conan.
But then she quotes two
people to switch her
thinking to convince young
people that its wrong to get a prenup: Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project — an unabashed pro-marriage advocate — and Mia Adler Ozair, a therapist who advises to never mention the word «
divorce.»
I
think people change, families change (
people get
divorced), life changes and sometimes life is better off with those changes.
Divorced people tend to
think about sex; we're either freaked out about how long it's been since we had it or freaked out wondering if we'll ever have it again.
Keep in mind, I lived with him from age 14 on up, so it's not as if he didn't play a major role in my life.I know this thread is about the good side of
divorce, and I
think people of our generation, for the most part, handle
divorce more respectfully and intelligently than
people in the past — but the somewhat cavalier tone of some of the comments set my teeth on edge.
For all our studies about how
divorce impacts kids, ranging from doom and gloom to «the kids are all right,» especially if the parents are already
divorced, we don't seem to ask the most important
people of all what they
think — the kids themselves.
Like many
people, I
think my parents — and maybe my sister and I — might have been better off if they
divorced (although living apart for some 10 years may have saved their marriage or at least their sanity).
When I
divorced many years ago and my ex and I sought couseling to mend our relationship as parents and put our son first,
people thought we were crazy and couldn't understand why we would go to such lengths.
In fact,
thoughts may influence a
person to try a proactive strategy to repair the marriage, rather than to push them towards
divorce or separation.
«We wanted to understand how
people are
thinking about
divorce and what mental and emotional process they go through when deciding.»
He elaborates, «While many
people do have
thoughts about
divorce, for most, these
thoughts are pretty «soft,» meaning infrequent and most do not want to give up on the marriage.»
Many
people think that they are able to work out with their former partner or spouse a
divorce settlement that includes division of assets, child and spousal support, custody access, and all other parenting decisions.
«When
people change their
thinking about
divorce, from the notion of failure and animosity to an approach that is collaborative and healing, I've seen positive outcomes more times than I can count,» she writes.
Clearly there's a movement to get
people — with the help of teachers and counselors — to
think before marrying or
divorcing.
While most
people think about how
divorce will impact relationships with their spouse, children and friends, one that is often forgotten is the in - law relationship.
Increasingly,» wrote Pulitzer - prize winning columnist Leonard Pitts, Jr. in the Miami Herald recently, «we are a
people estranged from critical
thinking,
divorced from logic, alienated from even objective truth.»
Most
people think of stress as emotional stress, like death,
divorce, and loss of a job to name a few.
Divorce is more than physically separating yourself from the
person you
thought you would share your entire life with.
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I guess my
thought was wondering how many of these
people are actually GETTING
divorced and how many were just looking for a sidechick?
I
think if someone has been
divorced it is best if they have some casual relationships with other newly
divorced people — heh, maybe there is a dating site for that!
I've been
divorced for two years, and I
think it's time to meet new
people.
Iam a mom of one grandmother of 3 my son does not live with me I have been
divorced for 6 years and I
think it us time to start meeting new
people
A: Most of the
people we talked to are
divorced, but we
think it's any significant relationship.
Dating after
divorce is never going to be the easiest thing in the world to do, but if you are sensible about it and most of all
think carefully about what you are doing and how it will affect other
people then it need not be a minefield.
I do not know what i am doing, I look better I believe in
person, but hey what do I know I am a widow... I am starting to
think if I lie I will get a response and say I am married single or
divorced or separated, as long as I do not say widow.
It's crucial to be forward -
thinking, upbeat and focused on the new
people you meet - if you are dating after
divorce, sharing your past relationship problems especially early on, is not a good idea and may only serve to push
people away in the long term.