Not exact matches
Not
staying married at least 10 years: If you are now
divorced after having been married for at least 10 years, you will be eligible for your
spouse's Social Security benefit.
Current Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary President Paige Patterson has come under fire in recent days for resurfaced comments in which he encouraged women in abusive relationships to
stay with their
spouses because he opposes
divorce.
They don't consciously choose their marriage and their
spouse; they
stay in sexless, loveless, unhappy marriages that are full of anger and contempt because of the kids or because they're afraid of what they'll lose in a
divorce or out of lethargy or because they value commitment over their
spouse — thus they can treat him or her like crap but still feel proud that they're keeping their commitment.
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Your
spouse can make getting a
divorce more difficult, prolonging the process, in a number of ways (avoiding service, sending you on wild goose chases for documents and old bank account statements, etc. filing motions that are essentially harassment, etc.), but no Nevada judge is going to force you to
stay married to him or her.
According to Amity Buxton of the Straight
Spouse Network, «When the gay, lesbian, or bisexual spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages
Spouse Network, «When the gay, lesbian, or bisexual
spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages
spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third
stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then
divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages work.
There are many straight
spouses who
stay married rather than get
divorced, especially when the man in the relationship is gay, and not the woman a lesbian.
Not all mortgages have this option, however once there is a separation or
divorce agreement and as long as the
spouse who wishes to
stay qualifies on their own or with a new co-borrower, this process can be the path of least resistance.
To make sure your
divorce settlement doesn't end with your credit destroyed,
stay on top of all bills throughout the proceedings and make sure you, your former
spouse, the courts and lawyers are all maintaining your credit as a priority.
The best advice is that during your
divorce case you should
stay off social media completely, or, at the very least, assume that everything you post may be seen by your
spouse and / or the trial judge.
In our example above, under the 1973 Act, Schedule 3, para 8, a Scottish action must be
stayed on the application of the other
spouse who has commenced
divorce proceedings in England or Wales if:
Furthermore, if the adultery ended up being «condoned», i. e. the cheated - on party knew concerning the extra-marital sexual relationship but continued to
stay in a marital, conjugal relationship because of their
spouse, the adultery can not serve like a cause for
divorce.
Under COBRA, you can
stay on your
spouse's health insurance for up to 36 months after the
divorce is final.
The better practice will often be for one of the
spouses to file a motion for relief from the automatic
stay in the chapter 13 bankruptcy case to continue and conclude the Virginia
divorce case.
If you and your
spouse both
stay on top of all the tasks you need to take care of, you should be able to finalize your
divorce as soon as the waiting period (every state has one) is over.
For example, you could
stay home because your
spouse filed for
divorce or an employee suddenly resigned.
As a result of
divorce, some previously
stay - at - home
spouses or full - time parents find themselves needing to work in a full - time job outside the home.
Unhappy
spouses who
divorced or separated actually showed a somewhat higher number of depressive symptoms, compared to unhappily married
spouses who
stayed married.
Twenty - one percent of unhappy
spouses who ended up
divorced had reported husband - to - wife violence, compared to nine percent of unhappy
spouses who
stayed married.
However, marital violence occurred in only a minority of unhappy marriages: Twenty - one percent of unhappily married adults who
divorced reported husband - to - wife violence compared to nine percent of unhappy
spouses who
stayed married.
[20] The results tell us about how
divorce or
staying married changed levels of well - being for unhappy
spouses, controlling for initial levels of emotional and psychological well - being.
But in other respects, in the ways we were able to measure, unhappy
spouses who
divorced and unhappy
spouses who
stayed married looked more similar than different: Before the
divorce, they reported similar levels of personal happiness, personal mastery, and self - esteem.
Five years later these same adults were reinterviewed, so we were able to follow unhappy
spouses as their lives took different paths: in the interim, some had
divorced or separated and some
stayed married.
Unhappy
spouses who
divorced reported more conflict and were about twice as likely to report violence in their marriage than unhappy
spouses who
stayed married.
Eighty - five percent of unhappy
spouses who
stayed married and 77 percent of unhappy
spouses who
divorced reported in the initial interview that none of their arguments had gotten physical.
Overall, in the ways we were able to measure, the unhappy
spouses who headed for
divorce or separation do not look very different from those who
stay married.
One might assume, for example, that unhappy
spouses who
divorce and those who
stay married are fundamentally two different groups; i.e., that the marriages that ended in
divorce were much worse than those that survived.
In most respects, unhappy
spouses who
divorced and unhappy
spouses who
stayed married looked more similar than different (before the
divorce) in terms of their psychological adjustment and family background.
Unhappily married
spouses who
divorced averaged 7.33 days of drinking per month, compared to 4.72 days for unhappily married
spouses who
stayed married, and they had significantly more drinks per day as well.
One might assume, for example, that unhappy
spouses who
divorce and those who
stay married are fundamentally two different groups; i.e., marriages that ended in
divorce were much worse than those who
stayed married.
Were unhappy
spouses who later
divorced or separated more likely to be victims of high conflict or violent marriages than those who
stayed married?
Ninety - five percent of unhappy
spouses who
stayed married reported the wife did not hit the husband, compared to 80 percent of unhappy
spouses who later
divorced or separated.
Under the old tax law, because the
spouse receiving alimony or spousal maintenance is usually in a lower tax bracket after a
divorce, more money
stays with the
divorcing couple rather than going to the Federal Government.
Now, your
spouse might make getting a
divorce more difficult for you, which will prolong the process, but no Nevada judge is going to force you to
stay married to him or her.
While you should not
stay with your
spouse for the kids, you should try to shield them during the
divorce so they do not get hurt, if possible.
And Gary has a message for
spouses considering
divorce:
stay out of the courts.
Both parties must want take part in the marriage and in today's society it is hard to look at marriage the same way when so many people get a
divorce but you must
stay positive and hope that you can keep your promise to your
spouse.
If your
spouse stays in the family home when you break up, if you then rent an apartment for yourself, and if she petitions the court for temporary custody during your
divorce proceedings, the judge is likely going to place the kids with her — albeit temporarily — rather than make them move.
If you separate before your
divorce is final, and if you have kids and they
stay in the marital home, you or your
spouse can petition the court for a pendente lite order setting custody and visitation terms.
The first is uncertainty about whether to
stay married or
divorce, and the second is doubts about whether marriage therapy could make things better — particularly whether it could help your
spouse change.
According to Amity Buxton of the Straight
Spouse Network, «When the gay, lesbian, or bisexual spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages
Spouse Network, «When the gay, lesbian, or bisexual
spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages
spouse comes out, a third of the couples break up immediately; another third
stay together for one to two years, sorting out what to do and then
divorce; the remaining third try to make their marriages work.
In over 90 % of the hundreds of
divorcing couples that I've worked with, only one
spouse wanted the
divorce, while their
spouse wanted to
stay married, at least, until they find out about an affair.
According to one lawyer,
staying friends with a former
spouse in the service of an amicable
divorce is a bad idea because healing starts when the relationship naturally dies and frequent contact abrades a wound that must close.
It's cheaper, it's more amicable, you and your
spouse stay in control of the entire process and you'll achieve your
divorce much faster than if you litigated.
After two weeks the couples have to decide whether they want to
stay with their real
spouse or go their separate ways and
divorce.
The law also ensures that
spouses who have sacrificed their careers to raise a family do not suffer financial catastrophe upon
divorce, and that the lower earning
spouse and
stay - at - home parent will not be financially punished.
In a case where one
spouse brings in most of the income, it is not uncommon for
divorce litigators to advise the non-earner of the family to
stay out of the workforce as long as possible.
The usual answer is that the
spouse can
stay on the other
spouse's health insurance until the
divorce is final.
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Spouse Spousal Support Sole Custody Special Needs Child Split Custody SPLS (State Parent Locator Services) Spousal Maintenance Stalking Stare Decisis State Court Statute
Stay of Proceedings
Stay - Away Order Stepchild Stepparent Adoption Stipulation Stipulated Agreement Strike Structured Settlement Sua Sponte Subordination Subpoena Subpoena Ad Testificandum Subpoena Duces Tecum Substantive Law Success Fee Suit Summary
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