When
you do nurse in public, choose spots you feel comfortable in as well, like booth seating in a restaurant.
I do nurse in public without covering too, but I do it discretely.
We did a Nursing in Public Photo Shoot a month ago and we plan meetings twice a month!
Not exact matches
This actually initiated my first time
nursing in public - I went out to the parking lot of our apartment complex and
nursed my babe
in the sun for a few minutes - less than 10 because I didn't want her to be sunburned.
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and
nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty», women getting «the look» for
nursing in public, or feeling weird about
doing it (I sure
did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or
do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not
in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
You
do not need to bare both breasts
in public to
nurse.
I said «Mom, if I can't
do this
in a vegetarian restaurant
in Berkeley, then what chance
do we have
nursing anywhere
in public?»
What we should
do when we see another mom
nursing their kid
in public, so have you had bad experiences,
do you feel like something went wrong, something went crazy for me, like I would be
nursing a baby and I get my Starbucks spilled on me or something and I have to take off my shirt to
nurse my kid but that would be something that would just happen to me.
I don't use covers either... and I actually never have
nursed in public.
As a result,
nursing mothers have become proactive
in recent years, not only lobbying lawmakers to change laws and provide penalties for those who
do not comply but also staging huge «
nurse -
ins» at businesses that have rejected
public nursing.
We want to know how we can better support other moms when we see someone else
nursing in public whether it's the head nod, the smile or maybe the first bump when you walk by, I don't know what's the best way to
do it is.
I still have some fears about breastfeeding
in public (even with a
nursing cover) but it gets easier each time I
do it.
They don't want to get advice from someone who might tell them that they have to
nurse in public in order to
nurse well.
I'm all for women's right to breastfeed openly
in public without being relegated to hiding
in a bathroom stall or even behind a
nursing cover if they don't want to, but all the belief
in that right considered, it's still a little odd the first few (OK, all the) times you bust out a boob at a restaurant table.
Unless you don't mind having wet circles where your boobs are out
in public and going through more bras and shirts than needed, then you will need some
nursing pads, because there WILL be leaks!
Also if I were to think about it, I want to be an example for moms who might be a bit hesitant to
nurse in public, I want it too seem normal and that lots of women
do it.
Nursing «
in public» doesn't necessarily mean
in public.
I
nurse brazenly
in public, but I
do nurse snapdragon, nearly daily,
in the peace of my bathroom.
I
do think that if it becomes more common and more accepted for women to
nurse in public, then perhaps more women will feel comfortable
doing so.
I don't have a problem with lactation rooms as long as women are not told that they must use them and as long as enough women keep
nursing in public to help normalize it and help combat the images of sexual breasts with images of nourishing breasts.
It
does not mean that a mom has to choose to use that area, but it makes it possible for a mom to
nurse in a
public place who otherwise would not, which is the goal.
My kids would never
nurse under a cover, and I don't necessarily think you HAVE to use one to breastfeed
in public.
While it was quite easy to
nurse my newborn
in public, it can get really challenging to
nurse my 15 months old son who is literally
doing aerobics while
nursing.
I
nursed my baby
in public all summer and not a single person even realized what I was
doing.
Most people don't know about the hard parts of
nursing — the chapped nipples, swollen breasts, and feeling of having no time for yourself (and, of course, the judgmental eyes when you need to
nurse in public.)
I don't think that women should have to hole themselves up
in a bathroom stall — how gross, especially a
public bathroom — or some other dungeon to feed her
nursing child.
However I don't
nurse in public, I am VERY VERY self - conscious and I feel weird
doing it.
I spent more time
nursing in public then
doing that at home as I breastfed
in quite few countries
in Europe, Asia and North America.
As with
nursing in public, whether or not pumping
in public is something that you feel you can
do will depend on the culture of the area you're
in, your feelings about modesty, and your comfort with the idea
in general.
Most of the time when I was
nursing in public, I doubt anyone but a mother who had also breastfed knew what I was
doing — I often had people ask if they could see the baby, totally unaware that she was eating at the time.
I don't have a problem with breastfeeding covers
in general, and I realize that they make some
nursing parents feel more comfortable while
nursing on the go, and I'm all for that, but personally there's one thing I won't ever
do while breastfeeding
in public: I won't ever use a breastfeeding cover.
However, when someone comes up to me and
does not allow me to
nurse in public, then there's not much that can be
done.
But you know, really simply because most states
do give you the right to
nurse in public; you know «I'm sorry.
SUNNY GAULT: Yeah, I mean, I think that's, you know, the whole point with the whole baby - friendly initiative is, you know, when moms come
in to a hospital, you really don't know their background, you don't know, you know,
did their mom breastfeed, you know, have they, you know, have they ever seen someone
nursing in public, like you don't know where they start off.
Ladies, can you briefly describe what happened to you when you were harassed while
nursing in public, and how
did this incident make you feel?
-- I used a
nursing poncho to cover myself when I would breastfeed
in public and only
do it if I had someone to hand them to me.
Robin Kaplan: And I think that - and I want to ask Daisy as well about her experience - but the thing that I want to point out is; I think that people, when they hear about
nursing in public harassment, I don't think they realize the repercussions on the mom who is hearing this and the devastation and the way that it makes her feel.
I think women are becoming more comfortable
in telling others that they are still
nursing older babies so hopefully there will be a shift
in attitudes but I have recently «lost» a few facebook followers after posting a status regarding full - term breastfeeding (I think they were most likely from a giveaway I
did ages ago and not on the same page re: bf etc) Apart from that, I love telling Mums on the ward (I'm a bf peer supporter) I'm still feeding as it opens their mind to that possibility and I think I look pretty normal so it mostly doesn't freak them out My son is far too busy to
nurse out and about and prefers juice so we've not
nursed in public (apart from support group) since he was 18 mths and that was as I had a blocked duct!
I don't
nurse her
in public because I feel uncomfortable to
do so... it's more because its such a relaxing and special time for us it's best
done cuddled up on the couch!
I don't
do it
in public anymore, and almost everyone I know think he is completely weaned, and that makes our short and seldom times
nursing that much more special!!
Miffed by a societal norm that perpetuates the idea that women who
nurse their babies should
do so
in hiding, I've thought of a few things you actually don't have to
do when breastfeeding
in public.
«it gives the impression that every
nursing mother is an attention - seeking lunatic» It also works against women who would like to see more paid maternity / parental leave or flex time for working because it gives the idea that THIS is what women are going to
do with that extra paid time, show up topless to a
public event and sit on the floor
nursing in front of a formula company's table.
I don't know what he would say about
nursing in public even if there are other options.
You know, I
nursed my kids, and I think
nursing is a good thing
in general and that people should be free to
do it
in public, etc. but I have to say that I sincerely hated, as a breastfeeding mother, when people like you would
do nutty stuff like that.
I'm a real proponent of
nursing in public (I think the more people see women
nursing their babies out
in public the more normal it will become and the less stressful it will be for women who need to feed their babies while they're outside) but I try to
do it as discreetly as possible.
It was such a hassle to
do in public but now that I have discovered
nursing tops, it has been a game changer!
Now my main issue with
doing it
in public is how exposed I feel
nursing «from the top.»
Even without the further publicity, Elicia's actions here were immature and selfish, and
do nothing for increasing the acceptance of
nursing in public.
I'm not sure why I've gotten such a negative response this time, but I thought I've
done well, especially having a toddler running circles around me while
nursing at home and
in public.
Our mission is to elevate the
nursing mother to a place
in society where she receives all the necessary support to successfully
nurse a child, where scientific evidence overrides marketing influences, and a woman
does not fear breastfeeding
in public.