A large part of the marital and relationship conflict / distress couples experience has to
do with feeling misunderstood and not heard.
Not exact matches
McMillan later explained that he didn't have a problem
with Crowder changing the line, but he
did feel the lyric had been
misunderstood.
I have
felt the undercurrent since just barely stating that «I didn't think I ascribed to Calvinism» and since have been told «the problem
with you is,» «you
misunderstand the meanings of words,» and one friend said «Poor Sue» in the subject line of an email she sent me in response to an email on my understanding of the means of salvation!
He doesn't pursue dark magic; he isn't contemptuous of authority figures, even if he
feels misunderstood by or is impatient
with them; he is not consumed
with the lust for power, far less
with the ultimate goal of that path — rendering oneself immortal without reference to God.
This unfortunately leads to quite a lot of uncertainty though, because I can never predict how someone is going to react to it... But
with you, I had a
feeling you wouldn't
misunderstand me, and apparently my intuition didn't fail me, so YAY:D and hugs right back at youuu
The problem
with sarcasm is you are saying something that, when
misunderstood, leads people to believe you
feel exactly the opposite as you truly
do.
Or maybe we didn't
feel heard by our parents when we were upset as a child, and now we're
feeling the same way
with our partner:
misunderstood and alone.
Later, you can't even remember why you're upset
with each other or what started it, but you
do remember
feeling mad, sad,
misunderstood and alone.
While many people don't want to use scripts, or sound «canned» when communicating
with prospects, I believe that anyone who
feels this way
misunderstands the principles behind using scripts.