I believe that many of the things that tend to hold us back lie in our inability to remain in the present and focus on solutions to our problems rather than
dwelling on the problems themselves.
Solution - Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a process that helps people change by constructing solutions rather than
dwelling on problems.
SFBT helps clients change by helping them to construct solutions rather instead of
dwelling on problems.
Last, at some point in the interview, you will need to convince an interviewer that you have the «soft» skills that most companies want — ability to work in a team, accept feedback, find solutions rather than
dwelling on problems, and so on.
«If you focus your attention on finding and feeding the good in your relationship rather than
dwelling on problems, you are more likely to experience a stronger and more satisfying relationship,» she explains.
The sights, scents and tactile stimuli encountered when working with plants provide a sensory experience that enables people to be in the present moment rather than
dwelling on problems.
Rather than
dwell on the problems, however, the magazine launched a special «Economy of the Future» series that aims to spotlight case studies of people and companies who were doing things right, and how they could act as examples to others.
«Ordinary people, properly informed, are capable of grasping why a document
dwells on problems rather than successes.
It was easy to see this in Fred, who had plenty of reasons to
dwell on his problems but didn't.
It's important not to
dwell on problems.
Negative thoughts can get «stuck» in our working memory and we become more likely to
dwell on our problems.
However, let us not
dwell on my problems — they probably just helped build my character!
You see a problem and either put it into [an] action plan or you keep
dwelling on the problem, but she'll come up with an action plan,» she says.
You don't have to
dwell on the problem of going so fast just to get to the pace of the instructor.
This suggests that helping students not to
dwell on problems, catastrophize or feel hopeless would decrease their levels of anxiety and, to a lesser extent, improve their math performance.
Discussion of exceptions and movement towards future adaptive behaviors allows the clinician and client to focus on solutions to the client's problem, rather than
dwelling on the problem itself.
The more
they dwell on problems and issues, the bigger these become.
If you fear being rejected, realize that you are already rejecting yourself by
dwelling on the problem rather than the solution.
Not exact matches
In addition, high scorers
on neuroticism continue to
dwell on the same
problem long after the average person has moved
on.
Au contraire, Keith, I think that Reality is bravely tackling a
problem (religious delusion) head
on, where many of the inflicted (the religious)
dwell.
......... Its a sham we dn't know what our real
problems are and thus
dwell on cheap theories...... Fine!
Focusing
on solutions to
problems rather than
dwelling on setbacks, combined with having a positive outlook
on life.
After a token mention of the
problem of 21 % youth unemployment across the EU, she
dwelt at length
on the fiscal compact treaty, emphasising in particular that the limits, or caps,
on national budget deficits would be enshrined in constitutions and national law and would be «eternally valid».
The authors
dwell on current building concerns such as «sick building syndrome» (buildings associated with higher than normal absenteeism and sickness rates, complaints about air quality, headaches, eye
problems, dry mouth and blocked nose), legionnaires» disease and radon.
Since we understand that the ego requires a
problem — any
problem — to
dwell on, you must simply provide it with new material.
Don't
dwell on work
problems - your kids and friends don't care, they want the fun version of you, not the work version.
Yet, it is easy to
dwell on the financial
problems, or the one negative comment
on a blog post (* ahem *) or the one thing we wish we could fix about our bodies.
«Inner bonding goes to the root of the
problem, which is caused by our way of thinking in the present and doesn't
dwell on analyzing the past, which is often not helpful.
The
problem is that the film, even at two and a half hours long, doesn't have much time to
dwell on the consequences of what's going
on, or for relationships to be fleshed out beyond brief interactions.
Meanwhile, Mumble is hastily tracking down Erik, but comes across
problem that affects everyone who lives
on the glacial ice as it threatens the lively hood of Mumble's people; leading to an assortment of ice -
dwelling animals to come to the rescue.
Yet despite the state's serious fiscal
problems, the second - term Republican urged legislators to avoid
dwelling solely
on the mounting costs of education in the state.
I tell my staff «Don't
dwell on last year's
problems.
There are numerous other
problems with the interface, but Barnes & Noble says it's fixing a lot of them with a software update next week, so I won't
dwell on the subject.
«Sugar has a sour aftertaste that the taste bud has no
problem with, because it's built to report sourness without
dwelling on it.
Quit being so annoying about software
problems, state them so they can get attention but don't
dwell on them like that ruins your whole Adam experience.
A dog's past will only be a
problem if you constantly
dwell on what happened before the shelter.
By demanding attention and affection, companion pets force their guardians to focus
on the animal's needs, displacing behaviors where people
dwell on their own circumstances and
problems.
Focus
on what needs to be done to address the
problem rather than
dwelling on whose fault it is.
Rather than
dwelling on the «
problem» part of the situation, focus
on the opportunities it creates for you, your associates and your store.
Following our cowl reveal, our digital
problem is now
dwell on net browsers and will probably be coming to iPad / iPhone later within the day.
We place these lawyers into a management role for which they were never trained, a role whose long - term strategic focus is directly at odds with lawyers» natural tendency to
dwell on details and solve the present
problem.
The mindset of successful people is to solve the
problem not to
dwell on it.
However, he obsesses over every single past experience and
dwells enough
on them to turn it into a big deal /
problem for him to solve.
The House of Representatives Standing Committee
on Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Affairs (HORSCATSIA) considered some of these
problems in an inquiry into the needs of urban
dwelling Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples in 2001.
The emphasis of SFBT is
on the process of developing an image of a realistic solution rather than
dwelling on the past manifestation of the
problem, with the focus being
on identifying past successes and exceptions to the
problem in an effort to accomplish set goals.
Rather than
dwelling on sexual techniques, this sympathetic book shows how to cure the rejection, hostility, and emotional alienation that often accompany sexual
problems.
I explained the ensuing
problem in listing and marketing the
dwelling, as best I could but was quickly getting nowhere with the owner who wanted me to deal directly with the city,
on his behalf, provide the necessary contractors etc and in general take
on the «project» and be reimbursed at closing.
Repeatedly
dwelling on negative things brings about nothing but undesirable
problems — including health
problems.
And with the number of vacant
dwellings on the rise in cities like Jacksonville, experts are not surprised that meth labs are becoming a bigger
problem.